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steviemichael -> how do you react that a Mistress use her gift simply because she finds the male gendar distastful ? (1/9/2009 4:08:37 AM)
How do you react that a Mistress use her gift simply because she finds the male gendar distastful ?

chezzy71 -> RE: how do you react that a Mistress use her gift simply because she finds the male gendar distastful ? (1/9/2009 4:40:00 AM)
what does it matter stevie??we are all different with the only common thread being we embrace bdsm and the lifestyle.that is almost saying are you ok with a Domina being a lesbian or bi and now you are all knowing that any attempt to petition might be fruitless.if you don'y like someone's sexual proclivities..move on.

colouredin -> RE: how do you react that a Mistress use her gift simply because she finds the male gendar distastful ? (1/9/2009 5:13:11 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: steviemichael How do you react that a Mistress use her gift simply because she finds the male gendar distastful ? Hmm I think elaboration would be good, whats use her gift mean for example? Personally I think there is a thin line walked here, if you are talking about for example impact play then I think its worrying. If you are involved in something because it allows you to treat someone badly thats bad. There are a few abusive people who hide behind the label of BDSM. Put simply I think it can be a dangerous and bad thing for the sub involved.

MsStarlett -> RE: how do you react that a Mistress use her gift simply because she finds the male gendar distastful ? (1/9/2009 5:36:29 AM)
I need a translator.

thishereboi -> RE: how do you react that a Mistress use her gift simply because she finds the male gendar distastful ? (1/9/2009 5:58:06 AM)
Yea, me too. What gift are you talking about?

GoddessTeaze -> RE: how do you react that a Mistress use her gift simply because she finds the male gendar distastful ? (1/9/2009 6:48:01 AM)
Translates" her gift to Dominate" And well stevie, everyone has their own reasons, to do what they do. Each to their own. you can't chose your family but you do chose your own Domina EG [:D] b safe GoddezzT`

beeble -> RE: how do you react that a Mistress use her gift simply because she finds the male gendar distastful ? (1/9/2009 6:50:17 AM)
quote: steviemichael wrot: How do you react that a Mistress use her gift simply because she finds the male gendar distastful ? I'm assuming you mean something like `What do you think about women who dominate men because they dislike men?' If so, I think it's very sad and wouldn't want to go anywhere near one. beeble.

MsFlutter -> RE: how do you react that a Mistress use her gift simply because she finds the male gendar distastful ? (1/9/2009 7:20:35 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: steviemichael How do you react that a Mistress use her gift simply because she finds the male gendar distastful ? There are women who have an ax to grind and they dress it to resemble a Domina. They are a menace - noisy, shrieking, self-absorbed harridans that reflect poorly on the rest of us. They have no interest in safeguarding any submissive in their care - they are interested only in the opportunity to take it out on whoever is unfortunate enough to become involved with them. While all male submissive are at risk, the novices are in the greatest danger as they lack the the ability to determine that until it is too late. p.s. this does NOT relieve any submissive of responsibility if they fail to exercise the appropriate level of caution in their excitement at finding someone to scene with !

Lockit -> RE: how do you react that a Mistress use her gift simply because she finds the male gendar distastful ? (1/9/2009 7:21:49 AM)
I read it as has been suggested here and my first impulse... that isn't sad, it is dangerous.

steviemichael -> RE: how do you react that a Mistress use her gift simply because she finds the male gendar distastful ? (1/9/2009 7:25:43 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: GoddessTeaze Translates" her gift to Dominate" And well stevie, everyone has their own reasons, to do what they do. Each to their own. you can't chose your family but you do chose your own Domina EG [:D] b safe GoddezzT` thank you yes gift to Dominate a gifted person can use and misuse ones gift be safe also

LaTigresse -> RE: how do you react that a Mistress use her gift simply because she finds the male gendar distastf (1/9/2009 7:43:15 AM)
I dislike alot of people. I don't have any desire to dominate them in a BDSM way. Just not my thing. How do I react to others that do........hey, while I don't find it cool I am not going to bash it for the simple reason, the submissives/slaves are grown adults. If they hop in that particular swimming hole they should have been aware of the hidden nasties hiding under the water's surface. It's not like the dominant's feelings are usually a secret.....quite obvious most of the time.

chiaThePet -> RE: how do you react that a Mistress use her gift simply because she finds the male gendar distastful ? (1/9/2009 7:46:27 AM)
Well, if I'm reclined out on front the lawn in my fav leopard skin thong catching a few rays (ray johnson, ray miller, ray gun) and I suddenly hear the roar of the John Deere 31 Horsepower Z-Trak Pro Mower I got her for her birthday (yeah I know, no wonder she's so crabby) I'll probably run like hell. chia* (the pet)

thetammyjo -> RE: how do you react that a Mistress use her gift simply because she finds the male gendar distastful ? (1/9/2009 8:28:47 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: steviemichael How do you react that a Mistress use her gift simply because she finds the male gendar distastful ? My initial reaction is that her motivation is not from a healthy place and therefore it is probably not a healthy dynamic for her or the person(s) she is with. I'm a strong believer that BDSM should empower everyone in it. The rest of the world works hard to wear you down, why consensually do the same thing? So a question back to you, steviemichael: What do you think of a man who agrees to be with such a woman? How healthy is he?

SteveAndJaz -> RE: how do you react that a Mistress use her gift simply because she finds the male gendar distastful ? (1/9/2009 9:10:11 AM)
Funny but I was talking about this with a submissive I played with today. I was saying that I could never scene with someone I didn't like, especially being a sadist. On NY Eve at a party, I sat and chatted to a pro Mistress. She started telling me how she generally hated submissives and viewed them as pathetic. Obviously she is in it for the money and nothing more but I thought about how she must hate her job and how good a Mistress is she if she feels this way?

ShaktiSama -> RE: how do you react that a Mistress use her gift simply because she finds the male gendar distastf (1/9/2009 9:30:43 AM)
I don't "dominate" people I dislike. And I find dommes who hate men as disturbing, creepy and horrible as dominant men who hate women.

OttersSwim -> RE: how do you react that a Mistress use her gift simply because she finds the male gendar distastf (1/9/2009 9:44:23 AM)
Yea...you know, she has got to at least -like- me before I would feel safe putting myself in a compromising position. Once I am in that position, then my ultimate safety is in the hands head and heart of that person. I like a little danger, but not that much, no thank you. Fortunately, my Lady likes me...and boys in general...just a little I think. [;)]

MsFlutter -> RE: how do you react that a Mistress use her gift simply because she finds the male gendar distastful ? (1/9/2009 10:20:11 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: thetammyjo quote: ORIGINAL: steviemichael How do you react that a Mistress use her gift simply because she finds the male gendar distastful ? ...So a question back to you, steviemichael: What do you think of a man who agrees to be with such a woman? How healthy is he? Exxxxxxxxcellent question - cant wait to read the response !

LadyHibiscus -> RE: how do you react that a Mistress use her gift simply because she finds the male gendar distastful ? (1/9/2009 10:33:27 AM)
Why would I dominate someone that I don't like?

Coupleofwhats -> RE: how do you react that a Mistress use her gift simply because she finds the male gendar distastf (1/9/2009 11:01:46 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: thetammyjo So a question back to you, steviemichael: What do you think of a man who agrees to be with such a woman? How healthy is he? Bingo! I turn away a lot of submissives because they WANT me to be the manhater. To treat them like shit and be totally uncaring. It's just not in me to be that way. So if there are women out there who dominate because they hate men, they certainly won't have a problem finding partners.

PanthersMom -> RE: how do you react that a Mistress use her gift simply because she finds the male gendar distastf (1/9/2009 11:51:54 AM)
why waste the effort if i don't like the person ? PM

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