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RE: Are you willing to do anything it takes??? - 1/11/2009 11:33:10 PM

agirl

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No. But he's never asked me to do anything, EVER, to *keep him happy* or even *vaguely pleased*.

He keeps himself happy though sometimes I've contributed toward that and sometimes I haven't.

Mostly I try not to contribute toward making him UNhappy, as it tends to rebound on ME and make ME unhappy........lol

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RE: Are you willing to do anything it takes??? - 1/12/2009 3:43:15 AM

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My Dom? Yes, because he won't ask things that are wrong. In abstract? Hell no, way too many nuts out there.

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RE: Are you willing to do anything it takes??? - 1/12/2009 3:56:17 AM

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I am going to have to say no to this one~~it has to be a give and take~~I would only resent having to do "anything" to make Him happy. I have wants and needs too...and while I might enjoy pleasing Him 99% of the time, there will be times I draw the line. If that makes me selfish~~so be it.

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RE: Are you willing to do anything it takes??? - 1/12/2009 4:33:01 AM

sambamanslilgirl

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no

enough said

(and i'm being honest ...and i don't have a master either)

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RE: Are you willing to do anything it takes??? - 1/12/2009 6:25:29 AM

kyraofMists

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Like others, his happiness is not my responsibility; it is his. My responsibility is to do what I am told. Whether that makes him happy or not is up to him.

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RE: Are you willing to do anything it takes??? - 1/12/2009 6:56:49 AM

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I get really nervous when someone throws out terms like "anything"--sets one up for failure--I prefer anything within agreed upon terms or anything within reason, but then I see it as a two way street, I have to enable them to succeed.

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RE: Are you willing to do anything it takes??? - 1/12/2009 6:58:11 AM

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Nope.

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RE: Are you willing to do anything it takes??? - 1/12/2009 6:59:42 AM

Daenok

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I think it is safe to say I would do anything my Mistress asked me to. That is simply because I know she loves me as much as I do her, and she will always consider my wants, needs and safety when she asks me to do something. That is not saying that she hasn't asked me to do things that I didn't want, but she does meet my needs and ensure my safety in all things. So would I do anything and all things possibly conceivable for her? Well no. But I think I can say I would do anything she ever would ask of me.

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RE: Are you willing to do anything it takes??? - 1/12/2009 7:04:44 AM

MsSutra

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I can definitely say no. I have been asked by a Master to do things which my value system just couldn't permit...there are fundamental issues involved in certain tasks. My advice is, be certain you can fulfil the requirements before you embark on any journey..

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RE: Are you willing to do anything it takes??? - 1/12/2009 7:05:18 AM

oceanwynds

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No, there is no power in me to make another happy. Also wouldnt want to serve anyone, or even be friends in any type of relationship where they can't take responsibility for their own happiness.

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RE: Are you willing to do anything it takes??? - 1/12/2009 7:14:38 AM

starshineowned

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quote:

While I would do quite a lot, there are some things (suicide, amputation, kids, animals - just to name a few), that are just a no go under any circumstances. The sub/slave who agrees to puncture his/her eyeballs because Master wants a blind servant is seriously in need of help.

And you would consider a person a Master..let alone be Owned by them in the first place? If your answer is no to either..then the issue of "no limit slaves" to their Owners is somewhat mute.

I would not consider such a person to be a Master that was right for me to be Owned by them in the first place. However, if you must play the "what if" game..the moment that such silly idea's came about..I'd no longer be a slave but then again I'd not of been a slave to that person to begin with.

I highly doubt that real world slaves past and present who were not forced and feared into such things would gladly do them for their Masters. They might if the alternative was their own death but the "willingness and desire" damn sure wouldn't be there. And there isn't a single one of us that call ourselves slaves typing here that can hold a inkling of what forced slavery is like.

So the answer from this slave is yes: While I can't guarantee what Masters actual outcome would be on the happiness scale..I'd do what he asked simply because he felt it might or would make him happy.

starshine

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RE: Are you willing to do anything it takes??? - 1/12/2009 7:48:53 AM

Mercnbeth

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yes. His happiness is paramount and this slave will do whatever he requires of her...even if it means shedding a few tears of angst while doing it.

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RE: Are you willing to do anything it takes??? - 1/12/2009 7:50:40 AM

chamberqueen

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For my own Master? Yes. I know that he will never put me in a position where I would be truly endangered, either physically or emotionally. I know that he isn't just about his own pleasure but derives happiness from knowing that I am also well taken care of.

At the same time, I have given more of myself than I would expect that many would be comfortable with. I do not judge those who have hard and fast limits; they have every right to them. I chose to give up all limits because I found a man that I can truly trust. It takes a good man as the base before someone can become a good Master. He has proven himself to me, and in return I have proven myself to him.

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RE: Are you willing to do anything it takes??? - 1/12/2009 10:32:57 AM

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I would do almost anything for my Master. iI he suddendly decided he want poly or something like that i would not work i am not wired that way. I have my hard limits and i know Master will respect them. That is why i say i will do almost anything for him as long as others are not hurt by whatever he wishes me to do. He say it is his responsibitly to take care of me so i can even imagine him asking me to do anything tht will bring harm to myself or others. So other than my hard limits i would do anything for him.

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RE: Are you willing to do anything it takes??? - 1/12/2009 1:58:12 PM

BondageBarbieX

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No,I have my hard limits and they are firm.

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RE: Are you willing to do anything it takes??? - 1/12/2009 3:41:56 PM

WestBaySlave

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I'm agreeing with those who would do anything for their master but not anything for a master. Though I'm currently single, I do my best to avoid a master who would need, say, me to swill arsenic in order to make him happy that day.

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RE: Are you willing to do anything it takes??? - 1/12/2009 5:37:17 PM

sblady

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Without reading any of the other posts, no, I would not. No way, no how. He might decide to tell me to "knock someone off".

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RE: Are you willing to do anything it takes??? - 1/12/2009 5:46:25 PM

DavanKael

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A hypothetical as well as an absolute is difficult. I see much personal validity in a number of the answers given. Relationships take work, give and take. One person can not 'make' another do or be anything; we have free will. Doing things to please or bring joy to/share joy with a patner are important, imo, regardless of the relational dynamics.
Davan

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RE: Are you willing to do anything it takes??? - 1/12/2009 5:59:25 PM

simpleplan2

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Put me in the "nope" category. I'll do a lot, but I draw the line at anything.

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RE: Are you willing to do anything it takes??? - 1/12/2009 6:12:01 PM

VampiresLair

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quote:

ORIGINAL: MasterinDemand

Anything it takes to keep your master happy....

Be honest.

Yes, because I am all it takes to keep my Owner happy. Thankfully, our relationship is a good one and I dont have to go out of my way to make or keep her happy, above and beyond being my adorable self :-P

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