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RE: Are you willing to do anything it takes??? - 1/12/2009 6:30:22 PM

MlordTSKsWench

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I would do anything to make the guy I trusted enough to put a collar or a ring upon me; happy. I say this because I would have to know that person well enough in either case to know they wouldn't ask me to do anything that went either against my health and well being or against my sense of morals.

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RE: Are you willing to do anything it takes??? - 1/12/2009 6:31:50 PM

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Well, I am saying yes I would because i know he wouldn't ask me to do anything that I couldn't handle. It's as simple as that. ANY Master? no.. MY master? of course. It's a matter of knowing what he would or wouldn't do. MAKING me do something isn't what he would do.

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RE: Are you willing to do anything it takes??? - 1/12/2009 6:47:44 PM

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i tend to agree with dreamer...if you would have asked that question while i was unowned the answer would be no. But with my Master now, i know He would never ask me to do anything that would bring me harm. So for Master IanBlack...yes, anything He asks.

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RE: Are you willing to do anything it takes??? - 1/12/2009 7:12:02 PM

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As some have already stated ... it is not within my power to 'make' him or anyone else happy. Now, would I do anything Sir asks of me? No. I don't have it in me to give my entire self over to someone else. That independent, wild and stubborn streak, not to mention the highly developed Guardian function, just won't allow it.

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RE: Are you willing to do anything it takes??? - 1/12/2009 7:22:14 PM

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Nope.

Longer answer:

Within reason, yes.

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RE: Are you willing to do anything it takes??? - 1/12/2009 7:25:19 PM

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ORIGINAL: kyraofMists

Like others, his happiness is not my responsibility; it is his. My responsibility is to do what I am told. Whether that makes him happy or not is up to him.

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Also this. Well said.

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RE: Are you willing to do anything it takes??? - 1/12/2009 9:25:36 PM

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Yes.

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RE: Are you willing to do anything it takes??? - 1/13/2009 7:41:49 AM

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No. There are some things that if I do then they will permanantly scar my soul. Outside of those things....sure.

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RE: Are you willing to do anything it takes??? - 1/13/2009 8:08:24 AM

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ORIGINAL: MasterinDemand

Anything it takes to keep your master happy....

Be honest.

Not only no, but hell no. I agreed to put his desires above my own but not his needs. My needs take priority and that includes what I need emotionally to feel good within myself. So if his request/command grates against me in some manner and I'm not talking about small issues, then no way Jose.

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RE: Are you willing to do anything it takes??? - 1/13/2009 8:14:20 AM

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quote:

Anything it takes to keep your master happy....

Be honest.

Are you, as a masterindemand, willing to do anything it takes to keep your submissive/slave happy?

Be honest.

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RE: Are you willing to do anything it takes??? - 1/13/2009 8:14:54 AM

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I don't know (and yes, i'm assuming that Master is a generic term), a situation has yet to come up (nor can i envision one) in which anything Ma'am has asked/told me to do that i would be unwilling to.

I would have to say that, from recent experience, the answer would be yes. A situation recently arose that i felt i could greatly help the family with a decision that had the very likely potention of severely harming me emotionally and mentally. I agonized over it, and when finally bringing the possibility up to Ma'am; She immediately, and in no uncertain terms, made it clear that it was not my decision to make and that the action i proposed would in no way be permitted.

This showed me, that She cares for my well-being before Her own comfort. In this relationship, i doubt the question of "would i, out of fear, disobey Her and risk Her unhappiness or displeasure" would ever be forced upon me.

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RE: Are you willing to do anything it takes??? - 1/13/2009 8:20:46 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: bound4more

quote:

ORIGINAL: MasterinDemand

Anything it takes to keep your master happy....

Be honest.

Not only no, but hell no. I agreed to put his desires above my own but not his needs. My needs take priority and that includes what I need emotionally to feel good within myself. So if his request/command grates against me in some manner and I'm not talking about small issues, then no way Jose.

most of us have heard the safety instructions when on a plane: If there is an emergency, parents are to put their own oxygen masks on before helping their children with theirs ... and the reason is simple. None of us can meet the needs of others unless our needs are met first.

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RE: Are you willing to do anything it takes??? - 1/13/2009 8:53:40 AM

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ORIGINAL: MasterinDemand

Anything it takes to keep your master happy....

Be honest.

No. Because that implies that I would be giving more than what is possible. It is impossible for me to give more than what I am capable of giving to another person.

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RE: Are you willing to do anything it takes??? - 1/13/2009 9:37:50 AM

MasterTslave

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Yes, I would do anything to make Master T happy. He is very important to me and his needs come first...he will make sure my needs are met (a good Master will not have a broken slave)...so I have no worries.

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RE: Are you willing to do anything it takes??? - 1/13/2009 10:06:15 AM

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I see a few people have answered "yes" due to their current relationships. I can only *nod* at how I can understand that mindset.

In my last relationship, yes, I did whatever "sir" requested. I was at the point where he had me convinced that my happiness was tied to his and, even if I didn't want to do a particular thing, or attempt to overcome a very definite "hard limit", by doing so I was ensuring HIS happiness.

This wasn't some fly-by-night online romance, this wasn't something short term, this wasn't something that wasn't worked on, mapped out, likes-dislikes compared. I truly felt we had every base covered. I did things he wanted me to do because I "thought" it made him happy. I, on the other hand, was miserable and told him so.

This relationship (we may as well have been married, complete with UM's, a house, etc.) crumbled the moment I told him that I could no longer do three of the things he requested of me. They were not me, I was not comfortable, and all three of these "things" were hard limits of mine. "He" decided that hard limits and safe words would no longer be used.

So, in answer to the question, absolutely not. If I am not happy, no matter what I do for "sir" will ultimately make him happy. I refuse to be miserable. Like any other relationship, both Dom and sub should be getting what they need from the union. When one is unhappy it will eventually crash and burn.

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RE: Are you willing to do anything it takes??? - 1/13/2009 12:19:57 PM

sambamanslilgirl

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quote:

ORIGINAL: KatyLied

quote:

Anything it takes to keep your master happy....

Be honest.

Are you, as a masterindemand, willing to do anything it takes to keep your submissive/slave happy?

Be honest.

good question

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RE: Are you willing to do anything it takes??? - 1/14/2009 7:10:20 AM

OsideGirl

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No. Why? Because he's not infallible and sometimes I see things differently than he does along with the possible negative outcomes.

Would he knowingly ask me to do something that causes me harm? No. Has he made decisions that weren't the best one? Yup. Just like every other human being.

He appreciates that I don't just blindly follow.

And as stated before, the most I can do is try to be pleasing. I can't make him be happy. That's his own duck.

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RE: Are you willing to do anything it takes??? - 1/14/2009 7:14:31 AM

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ORIGINAL: MasterinDemand

Anything it takes to keep your master happy....

Be honest.

Answering with my former owner in mind -

To echo what others have said, his happiness fell outside the realm of my responsibility. If the question was whether I was willing to do whatever it took to please him...then yes, within my ability, I was. And I did, until it was no longer within my ability.

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RE: Are you willing to do anything it takes??? - 1/14/2009 8:10:09 AM

BRNaughtyAngel

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Well my Master and I are two people who do believe that you can make each other happy. In fact He tells me quite often that I make Him very happy, and yes, He makes me very happy as well.

Are we completely dependant on the other for our happiness? Of course not! But if we didn't bring happiness into each others lives and our relationship, I can't see much point in being together.

As for the absolutes of would I do anything to make Him happy...... I find these types of questions silly. But I suppose if there ever comes a time when He desires something from me for His happiness that I couldn't provide, then it would be time to reevaluate our relationship with each other.

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RE: Are you willing to do anything it takes??? - 1/14/2009 2:13:32 PM

akisha

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quote:

ORIGINAL: MasterinDemand

Anything it takes to keep your master happy....

Be honest.

The way you have it stated here. Absolute resounding NO!!

Would I do anything with in reason that would cause no harm to anyone or go against my own personal morals nor break any serious laws.......

Then probably yes

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