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chastecuckoldsub -> RE: Who should make the first move? (1/18/2009 2:04:21 PM)
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I echo the sentiments of tornaway and Lockit. I feel, especially in the context of BDSM, there is no hard and fast rules. I know dominants, both male and female, who are actually almost shy and very laid back in making a move, despite their high confidence. It's really a matter of style and personal taste. I have been mostly the one to make the first move in dating, but I admit that I have often been clueless too to when a woman has been interested in me. In those cases, a woman that makes the first move is definitely a huge ice-breaker. My currently girlfriend was the one who initiated the move on me, and I was like the shy wall flower when she did, because honestly when I first saw her, my heart skipped a couple of beats and I got literally weak in the knees. She immediately stood out and just had this amazing auora of intoxicating sensuality and feminity about her. Classy. Sexy. Beautiful. I just would not have thought I had a shot with her and while I am no fuddy duddy, I figured anything I could have said would have been just so utterly cliche or seem disingenuine. But I just could not keep my eyes off of her. I so badly wanted to talk to her and get to know her. When she caught me looking at her, I actually had to look away, smiling and blushing at the same time. It was almost comical. But then she got up and walked ove to me, smiling with a superb confident sultry walk and sat down right next to me and said looking right at me without blinking "I kept waiting for you to come over. Was I being too subtle or should I have sent a written invitation?" All I could do was laugh and it broke the ice immediately. And I am glad she made the move for I would never have thought I had a chance with a classy beauty like her.
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