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Carmeldelight -> RE: Humiliating you dom untill he cries (1/13/2009 1:08:34 PM)
it does not mean that a person does not care...he just caught the right subbie at the right time. he wanted the power and I REFUSED TO GIVE HIM THE POWER. Because I LOVE ME MORE!!!!

sirsholly -> RE: Humiliating you dom untill he cries (1/13/2009 1:10:21 PM)
i have to ask what the relationship is like now? Has anything changed?

Carmeldelight -> RE: Humiliating you dom untill he cries (1/13/2009 1:13:30 PM)
He is my BITCH[sm=crop.gif] Nervous break down, if you just mention my name.

LaTigresse -> RE: Humiliating you dom untill he cries (1/13/2009 1:14:24 PM)
Pathetic...... One very pathetic thread.

colouredin -> RE: Humiliating you dom untill he cries (1/13/2009 1:15:28 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Carmeldelight it does not mean that a person does not care...he just caught the right subbie at the right time. he wanted the power and I REFUSED TO GIVE HIM THE POWER. Because I LOVE ME MORE!!!! You came here hoping we would all say that we would loose respect for the Dominant because he cried. I wouldnt. I dont think its wrong for anyone to cry. I have no clue how your dynamics work and you made us privvy to a small section so people can only answer in regards to their own personal feelings about it. You can refuse what you want and love what you want but why do you need everyone else to agree?

SassySarijane -> RE: Humiliating you dom untill he cries (1/13/2009 1:15:47 PM)
So sad and pathetic just shakes head

subtee -> RE: Humiliating you dom untill he cries (1/13/2009 1:15:55 PM)
I don't get it...are we being punked? Where's Ashton?

marie2 -> RE: Humiliating you dom untill he cries (1/13/2009 1:19:03 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: RedMagic1 (A true Dom would never cry for any reason, especially not if a woman he cared about showed she didn't care about him.) I don't think anyone attacked his domliness here. To me, it doesn't even sound like a ds-based incident, now that the OP has explained further. And if he was treating her the same way she ended up treating him, wouldn't that also be a display of being non-caring towards her?

LuckyAlbatross -> RE: Humiliating you dom untill he cries (1/13/2009 1:19:20 PM)
I'm all sorts of confused. Does she want us to say it's ok to hurt someone if they offend you first?

redwoodgirl -> RE: Humiliating you dom untill he cries (1/13/2009 1:19:34 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Carmeldelight He is my BITCH[sm=crop.gif] Nervous break down, if you just mention my name. From subbie to this in just two short pages..... so confusing

OttersSwim -> RE: Humiliating you dom untill he cries (1/13/2009 1:19:45 PM)
Humiliation play can be a standard part of a D/s relationship. I am wondering if perhaps you two did not negotiate properly up front as to what each of you hoped for from the association. As it is written, I feel that you overreacted and may have caused permanent harm to the relationship...now, there may be more info not disclosed, but if it is as you wrote it, I would reconsider. As submissives, we don't always like or approve of what our Dominant does to us, but we give them over the authority to make that decision. If you encountered a limit that you two did not discuss, it might have been prudent to address that in a calm and non-violent manner in an effort to create understanding.

JustDarkness -> RE: Humiliating you dom untill he cries (1/13/2009 1:20:57 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: LaTigresse Pathetic...... One very pathetic thread. you are gentle today

Carmeldelight -> RE: Humiliating you dom untill he cries (1/13/2009 1:21:12 PM)
No you’re not being played with. Just asking how you would react towards your dom, if you tried to degrade you was the question and you turned the tables on him. You refused to let him have the power over you. Lets face facts some doms like to humiliate their subbie/slaves.

colouredin -> RE: Humiliating you dom untill he cries (1/13/2009 1:21:27 PM)
im feeling its a bit of this TBH [sm=AttentionWhore.gif][sm=dontfeedtrolls.gif]from the other thread that she just posted on plus this one.

servantheart -> RE: Humiliating you dom untill he cries (1/13/2009 1:21:49 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: redwoodgirl quote: ORIGINAL: Carmeldelight He is my BITCH[sm=crop.gif] Nervous break down, if you just mention my name. From subbie to this in just two short pages..... so confusing More likely so fake. Some people have no life and way too much time on their hands.

OttersSwim -> RE: Humiliating you dom untill he cries (1/13/2009 1:22:05 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Carmeldelight He is my BITCH[sm=crop.gif] Nervous break down, if you just mention my name. So...I started my post before I saw this...nevermind...wasted effort... [8\|]

marie2 -> RE: Humiliating you dom untill he cries (1/13/2009 1:23:48 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: JustDarkness quote: ORIGINAL: LaTigresse Pathetic...... One very pathetic thread. you are gentle today lol.

marie2 -> RE: Humiliating you dom untill he cries (1/13/2009 1:27:45 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Carmeldelight No you’re not being played with. Just asking how you would react towards your dom, if you tried to degrade you was the question and you turned the tables on him. You refused to let him have the power over you. Lets face facts some doms like to humiliate their subbie/slaves. It sounds like you two had some mutual resentment and anger over a particular issue, and lashed out at each other instead of talking it out. If this was a matter or him trying to humiliate you "non-consentually" you could have just told him that you weren't going to participate.

Honsoku -> RE: Humiliating you dom untill he cries (1/13/2009 1:28:04 PM)
Please don't feed the troll.

subtee -> RE: Humiliating you dom untill he cries (1/13/2009 1:28:24 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Carmeldelight No you’re not being played with. Just asking how you would react towards your dom, if you tried to degrade you was the question and you turned the tables on him. You refused to let him have the power over you. Lets face facts some doms like to humiliate their subbie/slaves. Let's start with this: Subbie = submissive, which in a nutshell means "Inclined or willing to submit to orders or wishes of others or showing such inclination; Bottom and submissive are the labels used to describe a partner who takes the passive, receiving, or obedient role within a BDSM scene, or within a BDSM relationship context." Now how does that apply to your relationship? Is that you? Was that ever you?

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