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RE: Burning Both Ends - 1/7/2006 10:18:31 AM

LadyJC

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You say, "I understand that you've had time after time with guys like this but really, no one wants a Dom/me with baggage;"

However I only remember talking about one man who did this to me. Silly me I thought a forum of this nature was to discuss issues and problems, and conflicts that they're having. Yes maybe she did put it in the wrong category, who cares? She's new, it's not like you haven't been here all that long yourself. So you really don't have any right to insult someone you don't know. That means Doll and myself. You don't know me or her so you have no right. If you must know I already know what attracted me to him and understand it fully and don't intend to go down that road again. It's called a mistake. However you don't seem to have the right to talk, failed marriages? Seems it took you a little longer didn't it.
Also no one wants a Dom who insults and disrespects people in general. Maybe you should take some lessons in manners yourself.
She was only discussing a problem she had with someone so I offered a bit of voice. That doesn't mean I have baggage, that means I'm a human being who shows compassion.
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RE: Burning Both Ends - 1/7/2006 2:18:34 PM

doll

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I thought that same thing about the disrespectfulness. I try to respect everyone, even if I don't agree with them or their views. My parents made sure to instill manners in me when I was growing up. I am sure most parents did, its just up to us to decide to use them or not.

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RE: Burning Both Ends - 1/7/2006 6:20:31 PM

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I thought that same thing about the disrespectfulness. I try to respect everyone, even if I don't agree with them or their views. My parents made sure to instill manners in me when I was growing up. I am sure most parents did, its just up to us to decide to use them or not.

(bow) Point taken.

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RE: Burning Both Ends - 1/7/2006 6:25:11 PM

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KoM- Maybe she just wanted to share? I read these boards everyday and I find ALOT of posts where I see no point of them being posted, but I dont try to embarrass the OP or belittle them for what they have posted. IMO, your comment was rude and uncalled for.

aaaaaaaaaawwwwww so if a person asks a simple question ... one is immediately rude....

Just because you see alot of post... and see not point of them... and don't have a desire to know.. well frankly... I am not on so content to live in a bliss of ignorance by not asking the question.

The question is simple and to the point... no emotions... what emotions you see are from yourself not from me... thou alot seem to have there own thoughts... frankly the only opinion that matters to me is the OP... that is the answer that tells me what the point of the post is. I don't want to assume that there was any reason... hell . I don't have a clue... she didn't ask for anyones opinions on the event in question... shared it is all..... so what was the point of the post .... If it was just to share a situation so be it... if was for other reasons... well state it.

and honey... if I was going to be Rude.... YOU WOULD KNOW IT! *W* oh encase you didn't figure that out.. yes I was being rude to an overly judgemental - self-righteous um person

EDITED TO ADD

OH YEAH... I do tend to be Condescending Especially to overly Judgemental, Self-Righteous um Persons.... just so we are clear! don't want you to misunderstand the point of this post.

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RE: Burning Both Ends - 1/7/2006 6:36:18 PM

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ORIGINAL: doll

I am sorry to those who were offended that I posted in the wrong place and I appreciate the mature comments that were made. However, I find it funny that You come on here ridiculiing me for being childish and petty. The way You showed Yourself and Your lack of respect for another persons experience or opinion probably can account to part of the failure of these relationships You pointed out. I have read some pointless and some rather stupid posts, but I feel that it was important to be able to express one's opinion. I have read about Doms/Dominas/subs complaining about not getting responses from their emails....and You call mine petty??

I don't think you have any reason to apologize for what you wrote... ... frankly not sure if it is in the wrong place or not... just depends on what the point of it was... is there a question to it... a rant... or you just sharing an experience..... lots of possible reasons why you choose to write the post... some reasons are good are some are bad... But everyone of those reasons are subjective to each individual.

You have right to post like anyone else here.. your opinions like anyone else are free... just as anyone that posts is subject to questions to be asked.... As the saying goes... if you can't stand the heat ... Get out of the Kitchen. So, post what you like and prepared for the consequences... which are good and/or bad. But don't apology for speaking your mine or thoughts... but like many, we sometimes wish we would of said a particular thought a different way or added a thought or two in a post.

But, I still want to understand.. what is the point of your post? I am not about to assume your thoughts! on the post.

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RE: Burning Both Ends - 1/7/2006 11:50:01 PM

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KoM... my point was simply stating that this particular person was trying to play us both, knowing we were friends and that we talked all the time. I was ranting I guess, but obviously I didn't make that clear. And to those who emailed me and gave me their personal thoughts and whatnot... thanks that was very sweet... and the two of you know who I am talking about.

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RE: Burning Both Ends - 1/8/2006 3:08:28 AM

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and honey... if I was going to be Rude.... YOU WOULD KNOW IT! *W* oh encase you didn't figure that out.. yes I was being rude to an overly judgemental - self-righteous um person

EDITED TO ADD

OH YEAH... I do tend to be Condescending Especially to overly Judgemental, Self-Righteous um Persons.... just so we are clear! don't want you to misunderstand the point of this post.

Now, here is exactly what I am talking about. I said in my opinion your comment was rude and uncalled for, I did NOT say that you were rude. I have really enjoyed your comments on these forums, your threads are thought provoking and intelligent, so I am alittle disappointed that you could not take the comment that I made in the manner in which I made it. I will say that I did misunderstand your message and for that I apologize, but there is not one good reason why you would stooped to directly calling me names. Not becoming of a Gentleman or a Dom.

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RE: Burning Both Ends - 1/8/2006 4:00:02 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: KnightofMists

quote:

ORIGINAL: MistressOfGa

KoM- Maybe she just wanted to share? I read these boards everyday and I find ALOT of posts where I see no point of them being posted, but I dont try to embarrass the OP or belittle them for what they have posted. IMO, your comment was rude and uncalled for.

aaaaaaaaaawwwwww so if a person asks a simple question ... one is immediately rude....

Just because you see alot of post... and see not point of them... and don't have a desire to know.. well frankly... I am not on so content to live in a bliss of ignorance by not asking the question.

The question is simple and to the point... no emotions... what emotions you see are from yourself not from me... thou alot seem to have there own thoughts... frankly the only opinion that matters to me is the OP... that is the answer that tells me what the point of the post is. I don't want to assume that there was any reason... hell . I don't have a clue... she didn't ask for anyones opinions on the event in question... shared it is all..... so what was the point of the post .... If it was just to share a situation so be it... if was for other reasons... well state it.

and honey... if I was going to be Rude.... YOU WOULD KNOW IT! *W* oh encase you didn't figure that out.. yes I was being rude to an overly judgemental - self-righteous um person

EDITED TO ADD

OH YEAH... I do tend to be Condescending Especially to overly Judgemental, Self-Righteous um Persons.... just so we are clear! don't want you to misunderstand the point of this post.

KoM... MistressofGa is a personal friend of mine in real life as well as online and it was rude to say those things about Her for showing protectiveness of me. She is not condescending as You stated, rather the opposite if You get to know her. She is a wonderful person and would never be rude without just cause. After reading Her post, it is shown that She misunderstood what You were commenting. Personally, and this is MY opinion, I think people on here should show a bit more humility and admit when they are wrong or misjudged. We are all human and make mistakes. This is not an attack on anyone, just a thought. I do have to agree with Her, You seem very intelligent and well-spoken, but the last comment You made was as bad as that other person telling me to get off the playground. We are all supposed to be adults on here, I just wish some would own up to not always acting like one, I know I sure do.

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RE: Burning Both Ends - 1/8/2006 4:20:46 PM

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She scratches Her head and says--hmm flaming aside, the object of postings is to learn something, we hope---KoM, simply asked what is the purpose of your post, what did you want to gain, what did you want U/us to do, I may have expected to find this in a journal, that does not mean you cannot post, but think of it as action causes a reaction--and we are not in your head so what reaction did you want from us? We are not sure what kind of support to give you---

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RE: Burning Both Ends - 1/8/2006 7:30:23 PM

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Let's ease up on doll. She's new, she's struggling a little, and she's nice.

She's finding her way, and if we hurt her– how she feels, we've accomplished nothing positive.

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RE: Burning Both Ends - 1/8/2006 9:58:45 PM

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What does the kink ageplay have to do with anything

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Maybe some age-players like to really round things out with full fully orchestrated scenes of circa Junior

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RE: Burning Both Ends - 1/9/2006 1:46:59 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: FelinePersuasion
What does the kink ageplay have to do with anything

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Maybe some age-players like to really round things out with full fully orchestrated scenes of circa Junior

I do believe that was a little humor. Back to the OP, one of you hold him and the other one bitch slap him and be done with it.

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RE: Burning Both Ends - 1/9/2006 4:37:16 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: MistressOfGa

Now, here is exactly what I am talking about. I said in my opinion your comment was rude and uncalled for, I did NOT say that you were rude. I have really enjoyed your comments on these forums, your threads are thought provoking and intelligent, so I am alittle disappointed that you could not take the comment that I made in the manner in which I made it. I will say that I did misunderstand your message and for that I apologize, but there is not one good reason why you would stooped to directly calling me names. Not becoming of a Gentleman or a Dom.

*chuckles* well since your opinion of what I said was rude and uncalled for was poor in my opinion... I provided you with a clear distinction of what is actually rude from me.... I expect you will not make that mistake again!

I am sure you will get over the disappointment... after all I am not significant to you, neither are you to me.

There is not one good reason that you can think of... doesn't mean there can't be a reason or reasons. Providing an active demonstration of what is such behavior is for example is a possible reason. At least now you have a proper yardstick to measure against and I am sure your opinion will be based on a more informed view point in the future. Particularly with regards to me.

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RE: Burning Both Ends - 1/9/2006 4:45:25 AM

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mmmmmmmm well lets look at this shall we!

quote:

ORIGINAL: KnightofMists

I do tend to be Condescending Especially to overly Judgemental, Self-Righteous um Persons.... just so we are clear! don't want you to misunderstand the point of this post.

please note the "I" in "I do tend to be Condenscending"

And your wrote the following quotes

quote:

She is not condescending as You stated,

So.... how does the I become a She?

quote:

Personally, and this is MY opinion, I think people on here should show a bit more humility and admit when they are wrong or misjudged. We are all human and make mistakes.

In advance to save yourself the time and the board space

NP... don't worry about... Mistakes happen... especially when one allows emotions have more affect than they should.

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RE: Burning Both Ends - 1/9/2006 5:53:57 AM

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Needs more coffee before getting into this one....

ok that's better...... coffee to fuel the brain.

As previously stated in another thread...... Come to think of it, I think I posted it too. People come on here, like most... browse around new sites. Seeing what they have to offer. They stumble across the forums. Checking out a few threads.... yeah they can see where they would feel unwelcomed. Not so much to the site, but to be able to join the discussion boards. One might have a question, a thought, hell even once in while... some one will come along with a bright ass idea. But won't post it. Not for "fear" of the ridicule.. that's as common as night and day. But the way some like to take and use their "Personal Opinions" to tear apart the OPs "Personal Opinion"

Doll, very well may of posted in wrong area. Moderators didn't think so. They left it here. No there was no asking of opinions, or a question. It looked like just sharing with others a real life experiance. Ok, great. Goes to show that we are not alone on having real life experiances with people like she spoke of. We all talk of some type of real life experiances in our responses to others OP.

Being new to the site as I am too, (I state new because of being less than 2 full months) have made a few screwed up postings, asked some stupid questions, and even dumber responses. Big damn deal. We live and learn. Dolls next post may very well be a very bright and intelligent and informative post. It might even help someone "more experianced" on the board come to terms or discover something about themselves.

KoM you yourself have done something like this to me even. Though I do understand your first response. "What was reason behind post" It's sometimes hard to comment or respond to a post if you fail to see the reason behind the OP. I seen no reason behind it myself. So didn't respond to it. And when I read your post the first time KoM I too thought it was rude. But then again, I didn't go nowhere with it because I thought about and realized it was a question, not a comment. So here we all go, trying to get information about each others posts and responses. And out comes the information. So I think KoM's first response was a great reaction. He questioned the OP. But like the OP, it was taken the wrong way.

So if it's suppose to be a worthless post... over 30 responses.... Doll... great job on making such a (chuckles) useless post. Because though at first if I didn't understand the reason behind it at first, you sure brought out "perks" of learning that not everyone on here is as perfect that they try to pass themselves off as being here on the boards. We all mis-read and "flame" off, when we feel our "Personal Opinions" or questions have been questioned or commented on wrongfully. As mine have in the past, and I too have been quilty of before too. Not understanding someones reply caused me to flame off.

So Doll, keep posting what ever you want, when you want, where you want. If on wrong area of forum, the moderators will move it. The one thing I learned fast, not everone is going to like your posts. And some will go out of their way to let you know it too. Big damn deal. Life goes on and the information you seek, or want to share, will reach out and get to the ones that actually count.

Have fun:

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RE: Burning Both Ends - 1/9/2006 6:51:21 AM

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Anyone who sticks around long enough on any board will collect themselves a group of people who are their really cool neato supportive friends, and a group of idiots who always say and do idiotic things.

What's nice is seeing people who stick around long enough to have those and still manage to have intellectual discourse with EVERYONE.

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RE: Burning Both Ends - 1/9/2006 7:30:20 AM

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Along those lines, certain board behavior is predictable. I could say things directly to some posters, but I don’t always argue with clerks, waitresses and the guy who crawls under my house to spray for termites either. Unless, a post is meant to be mean why disparage the poster for inadequacies. Tis life.

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RE: Burning Both Ends - 1/9/2006 9:45:17 AM

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What's nice is seeing people who stick around long enough to have those and still manage to have intellectual discourse with EVERYONE.

Absolutely, and that is the reason I will make my point and move on. I will not be brought down to a level where I feel that I am flaming back at something someone said that I felt was inappropriate. I am here to stay <s>

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