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RE: What turns you on? - 1/6/2006 8:49:22 PM

RiotGirl

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What turns me on?

Not having metal through my clit!

Erm serious?

1) Strong, broad shoulders..

2) Thick strong arms...

3) a Really nice jaw line

4) Deep intelligent eyes

And the strangest thing that gets me every time.

is watching Master take a belt in his hands. Whether he is putting it on to go to work, or taking it off to undress for the night. No matter WHAT mood i am in it always causes me to stutter. Imagine being in an arguement with some one and pick up their belt.. and you stutter, need to look away.. and furiously trying not to react to the sight of it in his hands.

No matter what, seeing a belt in his hands always getsme.

then of course i really like that "stern, dominant, all knowing, Masterly" look. i usually want to kneel on the floor in the most submissive posture or stare into the eyes in awe. Usually though i can not keep eye contact when tht look is present.

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RE: What turns you on? - 1/6/2006 8:49:38 PM

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**steps on the mouse*** DIE! four legged theif!

Yike's! That definately would freak me out, I even capture insects to let them back outside...Live and Let Live.

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RE: What turns you on? - 1/6/2006 9:40:51 PM

jamesthehumanrug

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greetings kyra,in re to mundane turnons
there are many in the worship fields
, if i really think about it
well
....one of my almost first girlfriends
had a very tacky orange car;
(dont know what kind;
maybe an ancient-mustang or sunbird
or vaguely close asimillie)
some thunderbird ,with a huge
black and red indian thunderbird-sticker,
on the entire hood!;
and she loved her car ;
and, i kept saying to myself
;au gaud ;
just bare with it;
it's a step out anyway....
we're not related....go with the flow,
so ,as she was shiffting the gears
,on the standard thing;
i noticed her plain; white; sorta large;
knuckled hand;with her clear-coated
close-clipped; fingernails
, and i said,to myself ,again: oh gaud....staring at her hand! ;
she's, so PLAIN...so
;clean;serene,and,commanding-looking;
i, just wanted, to be raped,(AND TELL NO-ONE)
but i felt ,if i keep staring;
she will also ;like your story ;
eventually catch on ,so;
i stopped ;
and ,I just told her later....
i still flash back on ocassion to her hand
grabing the stick-shift;slowly moving the shift;
surrounded in leather ,
as she basked in it;
turned me right on,to this day!!!
go figure,but
i gotta' tellya;
one prom date type girl ;
i wanted to worship ;
really liked guys eating strange things
; mixed together;
like it "showed imagination "
she said ,
and, "it's,so attractive"
it turned her on....she'd ,just layback
and ,stare ,@ me,
and smile ,and REALLY flirt...saying:
i did'nt know you did ,that...oooooooo
but ,i gotta say:
right now....
a scoup, of sharp soft cheese ;
mixed in ,with microwaved white rice ;
with onion powder;
mushroom-soy-sauce ;
and ,black pepper ;
dont taste edible at all ,and,
it smells like un-invited-feet!;so
the heck, with that
mundane turnon,
just punch me ,in the stomach; same thing....

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RE: What turns you on? - 1/7/2006 11:48:51 AM

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What turns me on, it might be silly for some, but just when He looks at me with His smile and grins........that gets to me big time......then i know His evil twin is coming out which is a turn on too.

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RE: What turns you on? - 1/7/2006 1:30:26 PM

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Hmm good question! With men:

Leather pants get me every time, especially the low-rider button fly ones,,agg (wiping drool off the keyboard *s*)
Strong arms and a strong sense of self, nothing exudes sexuality like a confident man, or woman for that matter.

There are alot of individual traits and characteristics that I find a turn on but like anything it is usually depending on my mood or the situation.

With women, I really like women to look like a woman, I don't want to play 'guess that gender' some like the butch look and that is great if it works for you but I love soft curves, perfume and breasts *g* pale skin and again a confidence in ones sexuality.

lol my husband put it simply, he likes his women to look like women and his men to look like men. *ss*

"looks around at Knight,Rob, alandra, kyra* wow! lol we are a gorgeous lot aren't we !! *ss*

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RE: What turns you on? - 1/7/2006 2:09:01 PM

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ORIGINAL: kyraofMists
So what seemingly mundane things turn you on?

I found recently...or is that "felt" recently

...a huge turn on when I find a man that can dance. Now I "can't" dance much myself, but I find it oddly sexy to see a man glide on the dance floor. (And no, I don't watch the dance shows.)

I also enjoy watching a man play the piano, or any musical instrument, and if he sings.....whew.

Don't know where the turn on comes from...but it's there for me.

K

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RE: What turns you on? - 1/7/2006 2:13:44 PM

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i think attitude turns me on the most. Intelligence turns me on and that doesnt have to mean years at college or numerous degrees it could just be street smarts or knowledge of self or knowledge of human nature. A truely Dominant personality turns me on.
i like watching Master working, i like watching him train and teach martial arts, i like watching him do anything he excels at, all of that turns me on.

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RE: What turns you on? - 1/7/2006 2:38:48 PM

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intelligence
humour
strength of character...(and any muscles he has...)
self-control
control over me
dark hair
big shoulders
hottish nerds...
engineers especially...I can be in a roomful of men and pick out the engineer every time!
compassion
and that evil..lil edginess...

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RE: What turns you on? - 1/7/2006 3:05:54 PM

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I agree very much with slavejali...

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i like watching him do anything he excels at

Watching somebody who excels at something, really excels, is oftentimes a mesmerising and uplifting experience. That these persons have "perfection in small things" - every nuance of their craft or art, sport or recreation - makes their actions into a performance, even if it was not intended as such.

It's not so much about being a turn-on, in the sexual sense anyhow, because the performance can engage other areas of your awareness and emotional response - appreciation, enjoyment, respect, fascination, delighted disbelief. It's all good.

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RE: What turns you on? - 1/7/2006 3:44:16 PM

Sirandlittle1

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Chivalry - perks my attention
A running commentry on what a slut i am being.
Fondling that i know cannot be 'completed'
Chain, anywhere, anykind!
His aussie accent
Him at the side of the road in his car, window down, stating simply "Get in"

Demeanor, when its more forcefully dominating.
Amphetamines/THC in my younger days
Any situation, like the OP, where 'sex' is not supposed to be part of the picture, i like the incongruety in my arousal.
Day 14 of my menstrual cycle especially lol
Cowboy hats
Builders in cut offs and boots on building sites (or dressing up like one), you gotta love a piece of rough!

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RE: What turns you on? - 1/7/2006 3:48:40 PM

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a crisp white button down shirt....

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RE: What turns you on? - 1/7/2006 3:59:07 PM

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Loki: A woman with long hair, sense of humor, honesty, and intelligence will catch my eye quicker than anything. For some strange reason, ankle bracelets on a woman or ankle tattoos make my pulse rise a bit also.

brat: A man's eyes are the first thing I notice. If they're intense, I look deep. I also have a thing for powerful arms and a nice chest.

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RE: What turns you on? - 1/7/2006 4:12:37 PM

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ORIGINAL: kyraofMists

So what seemingly mundane things turn you on?

Good question.

An ex of mine was a sculptor... sometimes she'd get this overwhelming creative urge and she just had to sculpt, create with her hands what she was seeing so vividly in her mind. Watching her work was something special, watching the whole creative process she went through as it happened... to me it was sexy.

There is a waitress at a local resteraunt I've always found very attractive. There are two things about her that stand out in my mind. One are her eyes, they're an incredible shade of ice blue that draw your attention. The other is that she is a bundle of energy and always seems happy... even when she's having a bad day she can manage a smile. She's so pleasant to be around, you can't help but like her. I started to ask her out until a friend warned me she was married... damn the bad luck!

Long dark hair always gets my attention (even if the rest of them doesn't LOL)

Passion draws me, but not if its focused on negative things.

I've had severl girlfriends that like to curl up in my lap and cuddle... that always gets me. Its nice that she wants to curl up in my arms and be close to me, that something as simple as that makes her feel happy and safe.

A beautiful mind... not just someone who's intelligent... actually intelligence has little to do with it. Its more what they do with their mind, how they think, something noble in their spirit... something bright and upward reaching.

The way she moves... a certain gracefulness in the way she walks or turns or reaches for something.

That giggle and that side long come hither glance before she bashfully turns away.... yeah... might as well wave a red flag in front of a bull.

Playing tag in the rain on a warm summer day

Watching her sleep curled up in my bed... happy... content... peaceful... I almost hate to wake her up to...

That moment when a lass puts her hand on my cheek when my temper is about to finally blow because I've had about all I can take of someone's BS and I swear they're going to regret the day they were born... and the moment she touches my cheek the rest of the world vanishes and its just the two of us and I feel at peace.

Thigh boots... I've always thought thigh boots were sexy on a woman.

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RE: What turns you on? - 1/7/2006 9:24:10 PM

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nicely shaped legs in pantyhose/stockings and heels...... a pretty face, someone who is easy going, submissive....

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RE: What turns you on? - 1/7/2006 9:33:11 PM

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the other night we were wrestling on the couch . . . he kept taking my phone and doing things to annoy me so I was trying to be mad about it but I couldn't . . . the more i protested the more turned on i was . . . i always try to fight back but he over powers me and i love it!

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RE: What turns you on? - 1/7/2006 9:41:07 PM

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Ah, the exuberence of his shouting and cheering His Yankees when they are either winning or losing sends shivers to my toes and makes me laugh out loud. If I wouldn't get a beating for disturbing his concentration on the game, I would jump him right there and then!

Our political arguments, with the best issues being debated, sometimes very heatedly, turns me on more than one would imagine.

Geeky discussion about philosophy, theology, history and the sciences.

The smell and feel of cool, heavily starched linen dress shirts. (This seems to be a biggy for many of us...lol)

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RE: What turns you on? - 1/7/2006 9:44:02 PM

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Of course watching him insert coins into any device does it for me too. Coins tossed in the exact change machine on the Parkway. Coins inserted into a vending machine. Hearing them clinking as they are being "received". *fanning myself* Well, you get the picture.

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RE: What turns you on? - 1/7/2006 9:44:26 PM

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Kyra,
Glasses on an outdoorsy guy can do it for me too. Also,
Watching a man shaving, and afterward, the little line of hair left at the cheekbones
The back of his neck
Confidence without cockiness
Courtliness
Courage
Genius
Secrets in his eyes just for me.

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RE: What turns you on? - 1/7/2006 10:31:45 PM

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hmm what turns me on ... that thing a person has that you can not put your finger on ... the stranger that you see and your blood turns to lava ... that look that just makes your pulse race ... male or female ... long or short, light or dark hair ... big or small ... seems to make no difference there is just something in some people that calls to something almost primitive within me that boils my blood and sends my mind into overdrive ... ohhh how I love that feeling .. they just have presence

on the other hand I am strong both in body and mind and often in charge in the work place ... I love to be overpowered ... the first push of my hands over my head .. the first grip in my hair that sense that His strength is greater than mine makes me weak at the knees ... ok definately getting warmer in here
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RE: What turns you on? - 1/7/2006 10:37:42 PM

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He was sharing his thoughts with me, completely focused on the discussion and as I was watching and listening to him I kept getting more and more turned on. I just found it incredibly sexy and erotic, the intellectual with a button-down shirt, glasses, book in hand and intense concentration.

I *completely* agree kyra, geekchic is hot! I love black framed glasses with dark hair, throw a pocket protector on that button down and Im a pile of jelly!

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