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Am I the only one on the message boards with a pantyhose/stocking fetish speaking of being turned on???

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So what seemingly mundane things turn you on?

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So what seemingly mundane things turn you on?

• Defined arm, back, and shoulder muscles. They don't even have to be body builder muscles, they just have to look good.
  
• Intellect and the ability to converse. I love a man who's not only smart, but can carry on a conversation.
  
• Power/money. It's something not a lot of people admit to, but it's really intoxicating to me, too. It means that not only are you business minded, but you're successful, and, most of the time, charismatic. That's sexy.
  
• I like someone who's stronger than me. I'm REALLY strong, but I love someone who can overpower me and take what they want.
  
• A good kisser, both on the mouth, and on the body. Nothing better than a kiss on the neck right below the jawline or at the jugular vein.
  
• Someone playing the saxaphone. Yep, probably really odd, but if the guy's even halfway decent looking, and can play the sax, I start thinking all kinds of dirty thoughts.
  

• Sardonic wit. I especially like it if we are in a group and s/he makes a comment and only I "get it."
  
• Writing skills. A well phrased sentence can make me wet.
  
• A man who lets a dog lick his face may have me licking him next.
  
• A clean soapy smell.
  
• Touching my face.
  
• Singing out loud with the radio / cd.
  
• Willing to defy authority and eat a grape right in the produce aisle.
  
  

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ORIGINAL: QuietDragon

Watching somebody who excels at something, really excels, is oftentimes a mesmerising and uplifting experience. That these persons have "perfection in small things" - every nuance of their craft or art, sport or recreation - makes their actions into a performance, even if it was not intended as such.

It's not so much about being a turn-on, in the sexual sense anyhow, because the performance can engage other areas of your awareness and emotional response - appreciation, enjoyment, respect, fascination, delighted disbelief. It's all good.