Your partner posing nude or for porn, hard limit?

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Vendaval -> Your partner posing nude or for porn, hard limit? (1/14/2009 7:13:26 PM)
If you were interested in someone and found out that they had posed for nude photos or in pornographic movies or kink photos for publication would that cross a hard-limit for you? What if your current partner(s) wanted to explore being this type of model or actor? Would that end the relationship?

GreedyTop -> RE: Your partner posing nude or for porn, hard limit? (1/14/2009 7:14:35 PM)
It wouldnt be a problem for me, since I have done nude modeling, and once did a porn video.

aravain -> RE: Your partner posing nude or for porn, hard limit? (1/14/2009 7:15:09 PM)
For me? Not really an issue. The only issue would be that our relationship would have to then be relatively discreet since I'm, y'know, gonna be a public school teacher.

YourhandMyAss -> RE: Your partner posing nude or for porn, hard limit? (1/14/2009 7:16:24 PM)
No and no. quote: ORIGINAL: Vendaval If you were interested in someone and found out that they had posed for nude photos or in pornographic movies or kink photos for publication would that cross a hard-limit for you? What if your current partner(s) wanted to explore being this type of model or actor? Would that end the relationship?

oceanwynds -> RE: Your partner posing nude or for porn, hard limit? (1/14/2009 7:16:46 PM)
I don't think I have to worry about that, since we both are in our 50's. In my late teens and early twenties i was a life model for the art department. I do not see the naked body, porn movies, are posing as anything but an art form.

LuckyAlbatross -> RE: Your partner posing nude or for porn, hard limit? (1/14/2009 7:23:17 PM)
No.

MichiganHeadmast -> RE: Your partner posing nude or for porn, hard limit? (1/14/2009 7:25:04 PM)
Hardly, since I've shot and acted (if you can call it acting) in spanking vids.

MisterMonster -> RE: Your partner posing nude or for porn, hard limit? (1/14/2009 7:26:41 PM)
It is the opposite of a hard limit...hell, it's always been my fantasy to make her famous...even if she is real hesitant, or straight just doesn't want to...

RedMagic1 -> RE: Your partner posing nude or for porn, hard limit? (1/14/2009 7:28:38 PM)
Not an issue. This is not a hypothetical situation for me, either.

Vendaval -> RE: Your partner posing nude or for porn, hard limit? (1/14/2009 7:29:45 PM)
Fast Reply - I really like the idea of posing nude for a life drawing class or some black and white photography.

DominaSmartass -> RE: Your partner posing nude or for porn, hard limit? (1/14/2009 7:31:53 PM)
My partner was a model with insex-m before I met him. He didn't even attempt to hide it and I think it's pretty hot (some of those DVDs got me through the lonely long distance nights of the first year of our relationship!) I am all for modeling, acting, or just plain fucking on camera ;) It's all good to me. Actually, I'd be a lot more concerned about him doing porn that involved sex with someone else than I would any sort of bdsm porn or modeling.

YourhandMyAss -> RE: Your partner posing nude or for porn, hard limit? (1/14/2009 7:33:08 PM)
Yup, me too. Anything else though, whoo hoo I'd be proud to know a porn star lol quote: ORIGINAL: DominaSmartass Actually, I'd be a lot more concerned about him doing porn that involved sex with someone else than I would any sort of bdsm porn or modeling.

KyttynTheMynx -> RE: Your partner posing nude or for porn, hard limit? (1/14/2009 7:33:36 PM)
Its not really an issue for us. I have a profile that has semi nudes of me, and have told him that I have a desire to do nude photography, porn, and some stripping. He is ok with it as long as I am not with a guy for the porn, and I remember who I am coming home to every night. Hell, if he feels froggy he might just do the porn with me!

Jeptha -> RE: Your partner posing nude or for porn, hard limit? (1/14/2009 7:42:25 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Vendaval If you were interested in someone and found out that they had posed for nude photos or in pornographic movies or kink photos for publication would that cross a hard-limit for you? What if your current partner(s) wanted to explore being this type of model or actor? Would that end the relationship? Past events, no problem. I almost think everybody's done some kind of porn in their past, at least of the amature type, and I'd be interested in it. If she wanted to do porn with other people while we were together, if would depend on a lot of factors. I might be comfortable with it (especially if I were in control of all the details, for example), or I might not - to the extent that it could be a deal breaker. It really depends on the details of the situation, what kind of relationship we'd decided to have, etc.

NCNutCase -> RE: Your partner posing nude or for porn, hard limit? (1/14/2009 7:48:50 PM)
One persons kink is another persons hard limit... so I don't think other people's interests/limits should really matter in determining your own... Personally... I don't share my girl(s), so doing porn while in a relationship with me would not be acceptible... I have no problems with my girl being an exhibitionist, but I prefer to have "contol" over her sensual outlets that include other people. So to satisify such desires I would take her to lots of play parties and allow others to watch me play with her. As to what she has done in the past... We are the results of our experiences and if you like/love who she is just remember those things helped her become that person. That being said, I wouldn't like my girl having been a porn 'actress', but it's something I could get over / work past for someone I currently clicked with...

yourMissTress -> RE: Your partner posing nude or for porn, hard limit? (1/14/2009 8:04:38 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Vendaval If you were interested in someone and found out that they had posed for nude photos or in pornographic movies or kink photos for publication would that cross a hard-limit for you? What if your current partner(s) wanted to explore being this type of model or actor? Would that end the relationship? We are who we are because of where we've been and what we've done. For good or for ill our experiences shape us. I would have no issue with something like this in someone's past. Exploration and growth keep us alive and enthusiastic about life, if modeling or acting in porn was a venture that a partner wanted to embark upon, I wouldn't have issue with it in their present or future either. If it's porn, my only concern would be safety. If it's kinky porn, I might like to join in!

DesFIP -> RE: Your partner posing nude or for porn, hard limit? (1/14/2009 8:07:02 PM)
Not an issue since we're in our 50's. However doing porn is being out. You don't ever know who will see it, his boss, your brother, etc. For him, it isn't acceptable. He's been very involved with a volunteer organization that works with ums. If it came out that his life partner was doing porn, then he wouldn't be allowed to volunteer. The organization's rules are very strict as to what is permissible and this isn't on their list.

MarksFantasyGirl -> RE: Your partner posing nude or for porn, hard limit? (1/14/2009 8:12:35 PM)
I really can't picture it. lol But I mean, if it was before we got together (Not that I think that would ever happen. We've been best friends for like ever), I wouldn't have a problem at all. But if He wanted to right now, I would just remind Him that with the wonder of the internet, our children would be able to do a search, and BAM! There is the proof. How could you say no to ANYTHING they want to do, when they can just say "Well, At least it's not porn!!!" lol [sm=2cents.gif]

kdsub -> RE: Your partner posing nude or for porn, hard limit? (1/14/2009 8:28:34 PM)
If I were still raising my children it would be a yes and yes. I would not want to take the chance of them being ridiculed or embarrassed by their peers. It is hard enough growing up. Butch

Lynnxz -> RE: Your partner posing nude or for porn, hard limit? (1/14/2009 8:33:54 PM)
Nope. ^_^ Actually if it 'was' a problem we'd both be screwed [:D]

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