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Doms piss you off?? - 1/16/2009 2:22:48 AM   
UniqueIndv


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Status: offline 		So check this. I had this female dominant hit me up asking for pix..nothing in her profile..no pictures, no hobbies...just a location from some girl in DC. Mind you I live in Chicago. So she hits me up on yahoo messenger...shes like I want pix..I was like w.e Ill show you pix...I show her pix and shes like your cute...get on cam.

WTF bitch..i ain't no fuckin cam boy. But I didn't say that, instead I RESPECTFULLY asked for one of her pix, she was like after you cam..so I'm like ok its a means to an end..ill do it. BUT this sony vaio I was on doesnt have the right system requirements for me to install the lifecam program. I tell her that...and the bitch got the nerve to call me a flake. Coming from a bitch that registered 2 days ago...

Has anybody else encountered situations like this? Or people male or female just demanding respect off the bat?



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RE: Doms piss you off?? - 1/16/2009 2:35:22 AM   
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Status: offline 		I don't think you're allowed to rant here, even if you form your rant into the shape of a question.


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RE: Doms piss you off?? - 1/16/2009 2:41:58 AM   
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RE: Doms piss you off?? - 1/16/2009 2:41:59 AM   
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yeah....ok.....





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RE: Doms piss you off?? - 1/16/2009 2:53:28 AM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: UniqueIndv

So check this. I had this female dominant hit me up asking for pix..nothing in her profile..no pictures, no hobbies...just a location from some girl in DC. Mind you I live in Chicago. So she hits me up on yahoo messenger...shes like I want pix..I was like w.e Ill show you pix...I show her pix and shes like your cute...get on cam.

WTF bitch..i ain't no fuckin cam boy. But I didn't say that, instead I RESPECTFULLY asked for one of her pix, she was like after you cam..so I'm like ok its a means to an end..ill do it. BUT this sony vaio I was on doesnt have the right system requirements for me to install the lifecam program. I tell her that...and the bitch got the nerve to call me a flake. Coming from a bitch that registered 2 days ago...

Has anybody else encountered situations like this? Or people male or female just demanding respect off the bat?




The absolutely nicest thing I can possibly say.......... Get over it, move on, clean up your foul mouth, grow up.

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RE: Doms piss you off?? - 1/16/2009 3:18:22 AM   
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ORIGINAL: LaTigresse

The absolutely nicest thing I can possibly say.......... Get over it, move on, clean up your foul mouth, grow up.


Well you could add please go back to English class..........

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RE: Doms piss you off?? - 1/16/2009 3:30:50 AM   
UniqueIndv


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Status: offline 		Ok forget it. More people concerned with how I wrote my post than the content that lies within it. Great, and thanks for all the help!

Mods please delete thread when available!


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RE: Doms piss you off?? - 1/16/2009 3:33:33 AM   
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ORIGINAL: UniqueIndv

Ok forget it. More people concerned with how I wrote my post than the content that lies within it. Great, and thanks for all the help!

Mods please delete thread when available!




You are not understanding. The WAY you wrote your post, reflected the content perfectly. You are simply not seeing it.

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RE: Doms piss you off?? - 1/16/2009 3:36:01 AM   
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Status: offline 		Like you've never before encountered someone in real life who didn't click with you or call you accusatory names? People are people, here or anywhere. You will meet lots of people who want things you don't want or in a time frame that doesn't work for you. If everytime something less than perfect happens you lose it and rant, then you will be pissed off most of the time.

And I don't know anyone who says what they want in a partner is someone who is angry and foul tempered,  and foul mouthed, all of the time.

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RE: Doms piss you off?? - 1/16/2009 3:36:18 AM   
UniqueIndv


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Status: offline 		I get it what's going on. I'm a hothead and at that time I was just really pissed off. Then I decided to see if anyone else had run across a similar situation involving another Top or hell just another person in general.

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RE: Doms piss you off?? - 1/16/2009 3:38:01 AM   
UniqueIndv


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Status: offline 		All of the time? She just came at me wrong. I would have dropped it, yet when she insulted me it pissed me off. I'm human, my bad.

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RE: Doms piss you off?? - 1/16/2009 3:39:06 AM   
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Status: offline 		we have all run across a situation like or close to this. We lived through it and so will you.

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RE: Doms piss you off?? - 1/16/2009 3:39:26 AM   
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ORIGINAL: UniqueIndv

I get it what's going on. I'm a hothead and at that time I was just really pissed off. Then I decided to see if anyone else had run across a similar situation involving another Top or hell just another person in general.


Keep reading the post above this one.......over and over. Especially the last sentence.

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RE: Doms piss you off?? - 1/16/2009 3:39:31 AM   
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Status: offline 		But the whole, "bitch" thing....are you sure you have enough inherent respect for women to really sincerely serve?...dont yell, im just asking.

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RE: Doms piss you off?? - 1/16/2009 3:47:58 AM   
UniqueIndv


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Status: offline 		You could put it like that. It's just that for someone that I don't even know, did nothing to offend, for them to call me a flake and tell me to fuck off out of nowhere just changes things. Like had she given me respect vs cussing me out, then I would have gone about my business no harm no foul. But no respect for me, means no respect for you. With that said, it DOES NOT make my reaction ok, or right/mature by any means, but that's why I said called her one so many times. Hell I even apologized for it and she still cussed me out. Maybe your all just much more grown up and mature that I am, but I only show respect and maintain respect for people, just for being people. Besides the M/s scenario, I respected her off the bat because its just how you approach people. But when someone disrespects me for no reason, it just makes me mad. Generally not this upset, but none-less it bothers me.

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RE: Doms piss you off?? - 1/16/2009 4:48:05 AM   
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Status: offline 		  The experience you had is extremely common-I'd be surprised if everyone on the forum hasn't experienced it at least once (or a dozen times). Some people on here are shady...and some people are just plain jerks. Don't let it get under your skin or you'll continually have a lot to be upset about as you go forward. Oh...and here's a thought: don't give people you don't really want to talk to your IM address...Trolls are a lot harder to contain when they know more about you.

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RE: Doms piss you off?? - 1/16/2009 4:52:49 AM   
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quote:

I respected her off the bat because its just how you approach people.


You respect people before getting to know them?  Perhaps that's part of the problem.


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RE: Doms piss you off?? - 1/16/2009 5:04:25 AM   
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Status: offline 		Unique, it's not uncommon for situations like this to come up.  You find that you get a tougher skin over time.  Chalk it up to experience.  Like the old saying, "one bad apple doesn't spoil the whole bunch".

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RE: Doms piss you off?? - 1/16/2009 5:09:56 AM   
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first of all, i would never give a Dom/me my yahoo/msn IDs, second, i would never give them a picture either (though there are several on my profile) and third, after looking the sender's profile and saw nothing on it, i would delete the message unread.

that's how i would handle it.

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RE: Doms piss you off?? - 1/16/2009 5:23:26 AM   
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Status: offline 		I would be surprised if you DIDN'T have an experience like that on Collarme.  Its a free for all because, well, its FREE FOR ALL.

However, if a Domme who MIGHT be interested in you reads your post, this will certainly turn her off-I know I'm turned off reading it.  And if everyone on this site who had a crappy experience posted it (many do), the message boards would be clogged with this flotsom.  Crap happens, doll...and if you are going to post every time it happens, you will be wasting a lot of your time-and ours.

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