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JDEmpath -> RE: Does size matter? (physical height, not cock length) (1/17/2009 12:39:49 PM)

I am not going to apologize for simply stating my feelings on the matter. I have attacked nobody (the thought never crossed my mind) and I think all should be free to express their preferences. I am also free to express my philosophy on this matter.

Honestly. I don't understand why my statements cannot be acceptable as a simple statement of my philosophy on this issue. If there were a thread about weight, and people stated their philosophies on that issue, would they be attacked for doing so?


Tolerance should mean the inclusion of all opinions.


edit- I am clearly not very good at the "in reply to" thing on this forum. This was not a specific reply to anyone but just a reply in general.....



ShaktiSama -> RE: Does size matter? (physical height, not cock length) (1/17/2009 1:30:45 PM)

A man with a power will can attract and dominate women regardless of his height. Really, in comparison to inner strength, outward trappings are nonsense.



RedMagic1 -> RE: Does size matter? (physical height, not cock length) (1/17/2009 1:43:28 PM)

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ORIGINAL: JDEmpath
I don't understand why my statements cannot be acceptable as a simple statement of my philosophy on this issue.

Because you didn't present it that way.  You first stated an emotional reaction to the thread, with no further explanation.  You then gave further explanation, and used fancy psychological lingo, in an attempt to sound scientific, I suppose.  But you used the lingo incorrectly (and got called out), making me wonder if you are used to getting away with sloppy posting on the "anonymous" internet.  People have a right to cloak their philosophy in "science," and other posters have the right to call bullshit.  I have low tolerance for bullshit.  Poor, unenlightened, intolerant me.

I am attracted to things in women they can't change, like eye color and hair color.  I'm also attracted to things that many women can't change, like certain weight, body type, and facial features.  Aren't you?

I strongly agree with things Aynne has posted in this thread, about her and her Master's view of themselves and their relationship.  You might consider rereading the section where she doesn't need her partner to look a certain way in order to feel feminine and sexy.  There are over three billion women in the world, and you're taller than a whole hell of a lot of them, no matter what your height is.  If you see yourself as desirable, masculine and sexy whether or not you're dating a piece of arm candy, things like personal preferences will "bother" you less.  The limitation on your options due to height is minimal.  Attitude will limit you much more.



sirsholly -> RE: Does size matter? (physical height, not cock length) (1/17/2009 1:48:33 PM)

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If you see yourself as desirable, masculine and sexy


there is nothing as sexy as confidence[:)]



Raechard -> RE: Does size matter? (physical height, not cock length) (1/17/2009 1:52:56 PM)

A statistical analysis can be easily done from two profiles giving two heights.[8|]



rednicky -> RE: Does size matter? (physical height, not cock length) (1/17/2009 2:11:40 PM)

I don't think this thread is about height anymore. I believe it's turned into a thread about looks. Do looks matter? "Should" they matter? Why do people judge others on looks when personality is so much more important?

How about we address that. Why DO looks matter so much in today's society? Who dares to speculate?



Hanable -> RE: Does size matter? (physical height, not cock length) (1/17/2009 2:15:09 PM)

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ORIGINAL: JDEmpath


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if your so put off/annoyed by this topic.. may i ask why you felt the need to come in and interupt our conversations/line of thought?

H >:)



you would censor me because of my divergent opinion?




i jsut dont understand y u felt the need to come into the conversation to say that it annoyed u. i jsut dont get why some people have to make there opinion known in conversations they arnt in and dont like. if you can explain this to me ill listen but untill then.. no.

H >:)



NorthernGent -> RE: Does size matter? (physical height, not cock length) (1/17/2009 2:15:33 PM)

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ORIGINAL: rednicky

Why DO looks matter so much in today's society?



Looks have always mattered. People are easily impressed with the packaging, which is why propaganda is such a potent tool.



JDEmpath -> RE: Does size matter? (physical height, not cock length) (1/17/2009 2:16:26 PM)


Actually I have participated in Cognitive Behavioral Therapy. I stand by my statements.



sirsholly -> RE: Does size matter? (physical height, not cock length) (1/17/2009 2:18:21 PM)

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ORIGINAL: JDEmpath


Actually I have participated in Cognitive Behavioral Therapy. I stand by my statements.
i have taught it. I stand by mine.



rednicky -> RE: Does size matter? (physical height, not cock length) (1/17/2009 2:23:35 PM)

But northerngent, the question is WHY.



Aileen1968 -> RE: Does size matter? (physical height, not cock length) (1/17/2009 2:26:16 PM)

Because it's much nicer to fuck someone you like looking at rather than someone you find ugly.  [:)]



rednicky -> RE: Does size matter? (physical height, not cock length) (1/17/2009 2:31:21 PM)

Well Ali...the answer lacks poetry but it's a reasonable answer.

When this thread was started, the question of whether or not height mattered was asked. The majority of women said it did and gave their reasons why. Then another question was asked: Why does height matter period? Based on the emotions that flared, this thread became more about height. Are we all satisfied with the answer "It's more pleasant to have sex with something pretty" response?



YourhandMyAss -> RE: Does size matter? (physical height, not cock length) (1/17/2009 2:33:22 PM)

Yes, they would be. Fat threads are on of the threads more  attacked with a vengeance around here.

quote:

ORIGINAL: JDEmpath




Tolerance should mean the inclusion of all opinions.







Aileen1968 -> RE: Does size matter? (physical height, not cock length) (1/17/2009 2:34:25 PM)

Actually...the response isn't really a "pretty" factor.  It's more of an attraction factor.  What I'm attracted to is going to be extremely different than what you're attracted to.  I don't expect you to only like tall men just because I do.  and just because I do doesn't mean that it's right or wrong for everybody.  But it is right for me. 



mc1234 -> RE: Does size matter? (physical height, not cock length) (1/17/2009 2:39:50 PM)

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ORIGINAL: rednicky
Are we all satisfied with the answer "It's more pleasant to have sex with something pretty" response?


No, but change it to 'it's more pleasant to have sex/spend time with/serve/love/etc. with someone *I* consider attractive' and I'll be on board. 



subharliquin -> RE: Does size matter? (physical height, not cock length) (1/17/2009 2:43:01 PM)

i have to agree with Sirsholly...confidence is very sexy..not the arrogance some put out and push onto others.but confidence.  i'm just a huge sucker for quiet confidence..add someone taller then me and i will drool. if he is good looking then i will stare.  for me i'm tall but not that tall and have spent most of my life looking down on people. i know a Dom my height or shorter is just as able as someone who is shorter then me to get me to kneel whether it be from a look or by simply kicking my legs out from under me. but it just enhances the feeling for me. to me it would just be nice to beable to wear heels and still not be taller then my One.  but then again dominance is more of a feeling then a heighth standard or a look factor. add in the chemistry factor as well. someone can seem physically perfect for you ..but yet they may look it but if you arent attracted to one another..what good is it?
as to the whole looks part..i think that we have been conditioned to think that something pretty or shiny is very high a standard to obtain or posess. it is no longer important that we have those silly but yet important life skills needed to survive in this society of microwaves and restuarants. back when it was very important to be able to skin and cook and sew. now its looks and looks and looks that will have most raited as a comodity. but yet even then it was based on looks. beauty begets beauty. if we cant afford the bright shiny things in life at least we can have some thing pretty to have others envying us over..because i think in the end that is what people really want..to be envied...admired. sad really. they will go most or all of their life only looking for beauty and miss out on the feelings a loving person has for them.
but then again i really need to learn to quit typing and thinking when i'm not awake.



rednicky -> RE: Does size matter? (physical height, not cock length) (1/17/2009 3:18:36 PM)

You know, I think this thread has an easy answer. The bottom line is that there is someone out there for every kind of person, no matter what shape or size. Most women might prefer taller men but all of them certainly don't and a good portion of them don't care either way. [:)]



KatyLied -> RE: Does size matter? (physical height, not cock length) (1/17/2009 3:31:52 PM)

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I find this thread bothersome because a great many people are summarily rejecting potential mates simply on the basis of a physical trait which cannot be changed.


Do you not have likes/dislikes when screening prospective partners?  Or do you limit your likes/dislikes to things that can be changed?  Everyone has free will in determining what they seek in a partner.  I definitely reject people on physical traits and I'm sure I've been rejected for the same reason.



tornaway -> RE: Does size matter? (physical height, not cock length) (1/17/2009 4:01:47 PM)

         While I tend to prefer taller - I've been attracted to quite a few that were short to average - and if they had attractive souls - that overshadowed the height issue completely !   And there is something to be said for being eyeball to eyeball !



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