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Does size matter? (breast size) - 1/16/2009 9:05:28 AM   
Loliita


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Status: offline 		This op inspired by the "does size matter" threads in the general forum section.
We all know many men love women with bigger breast.

Does breast size matter when a man is looking for a dominant? I notice almost all the pictures of dominant women are of big breasted ones. Do men need a big busted domme?

....part two...random meandering

I received one message from a guy asking if I would be willing to hide my breast (with loose clothing I presume) because he had a fantasy of being dominated by a preteen girl. I'm still not sure what to make of that. *scratches head*
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RE: Does size matter? (breast size) - 1/16/2009 9:07:45 AM   
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Status: offline 		Most men and women have a preference, but I've never known it to be a deal breaker.

What is there to make?  He has a fantasy which requires a particular physical look to achieve.

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RE: Does size matter? (breast size) - 1/16/2009 9:13:56 AM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: Loliita

This op inspired by the "does size matter" threads in the general forum section.
We all know many men love women with bigger breast.

Does breast size matter when a man is looking for a dominant? I notice almost all the pictures of dominant women are of big breasted ones. Do men need a big busted domme?


No. But a lot of boys do.




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ORIGINAL: Loliita
....part two...random meandering

I received one message from a guy asking if I would be willing to hide my breast (with loose clothing I presume) because he had a fantasy of being dominated by a preteen girl. I'm still not sure what to make of that. *scratches head*


Oh, that's easy. He's sick.


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RE: Does size matter? (breast size) - 1/16/2009 9:24:05 AM   
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Status: offline 		I have two. They've been big. They've been small. They nursed two children. They have provided countless hours of entertainment to the men I have loved. They used to be really perky...now, not quite so much but not bad either. They are healthy. They do not have cancer.

I am thankful for them just the way they are.

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RE: Does size matter? (breast size) - 1/16/2009 9:33:30 AM   
igor2003


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Status: offline 		Just my own preferance...I'm not into "flat-chested", but do prefer smaller shaply breasts rather than huge breasts whether shapely or not.  I saw some pictures of Dolly Parton on TV a few days ago that were before her implants, and she looked MUCH better befor than after.  Over-all, however, when it comes to breasts I'm pretty flexable since I am more of an ass and leg kind of guy

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RE: Does size matter? (breast size) - 1/16/2009 9:49:10 AM   
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ORIGINAL: Loliita


I received one message from a guy asking if I would be willing to hide my breast (with loose clothing I presume) because he had a fantasy of being dominated by a preteen girl. I'm still not sure what to make of that. *scratches head*


Pedo?


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RE: Does size matter? (breast size) - 1/16/2009 9:51:52 AM   
Lordandmaster


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Status: offline 		I like breasts that go with a woman's figure.  Big breasts are always noticeable, but there are some women with small to mid-size breasts who look better because of it.

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RE: Does size matter? (breast size) - 1/16/2009 9:58:15 AM   
Loliita


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ORIGINAL: Lynnxz

quote:

ORIGINAL: Loliita


I received one message from a guy asking if I would be willing to hide my breast (with loose clothing I presume) because he had a fantasy of being dominated by a preteen girl. I'm still not sure what to make of that. *scratches head*


Pedo?



I don't think so. I decided to send him a message and ask. He wants to act out a fantasy from back in his school days. I won't go into details of course. I guess if the guy is pretending he is a teen being dominated by another teen then it's not really the same thing as a guy into children. We are both adults and as long as he isn't searching for real pre-teens to fulfill his fantasy then I guess it's no big deal. it just took me by surprise at first.


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RE: Does size matter? (breast size) - 1/16/2009 9:59:29 AM   
Loliita


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ORIGINAL: mistoferin

I have two. They've been big. They've been small. They nursed two children. They have provided countless hours of entertainment to the men I have loved. They used to be really perky...now, not quite so much but not bad either. They are healthy. They do not have cancer.

I am thankful for them just the way they are.



ha ha ha. You breast have done more work than some of the people who work in my office.

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RE: Does size matter? (breast size) - 1/16/2009 10:22:17 AM   
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Status: offline 		Well I'm never looking for a domme and I've dated most breast sizes over the years but if I were ordering my perfect female form from a vending machine, breasts would be on the small/perky side.
 
I've always found it interesting (about myself) that when I'm out and about in general, I tend to take more notice of bigger boobed women but when it comes to getting up close and all nekkid, smaller is absolutely my preference....
 
Focus.

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RE: Does size matter? (breast size) - 1/16/2009 10:44:43 AM   
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Status: offline 		When a man feels it matters... I have to consider that his brain size matter's... a lot... as long as they work really well... look good and don't inhibit my swing... it's all good.  If more than that matters to him... his brain size is too small for me.

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RE: Does size matter? (breast size) - 1/16/2009 10:55:45 AM   
mistoferin


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ORIGINAL: Loliita


quote:

ORIGINAL: mistoferin

I have two. They've been big. They've been small. They nursed two children. They have provided countless hours of entertainment to the men I have loved. They used to be really perky...now, not quite so much but not bad either. They are healthy. They do not have cancer.

I am thankful for them just the way they are.



ha ha ha. You breast have done more work than some of the people who work in my office.


I forgot to mention that they were also seriously underpaid!

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RE: Does size matter? (breast size) - 1/16/2009 10:56:01 AM   
hardbodysub


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Status: offline 		I think the idea that men prefer a woman to have large breasts is a bit stereotypical, or at least somewhat exaggerated. There is a range of preferences. Perhaps a few more men prefer large breasts, but then again, "large" is a relative term.

Personally, it doesn't matter a lot to me. I prefer firm, anything from pretty flat to a little large. Extremely large could be a dealbreaker.

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RE: Does size matter? (breast size) - 1/16/2009 10:57:07 AM   
LaTigresse


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Status: offline 		I prefer smaller myself, but I am not going to kick a large breasted woman that I think is totally awesome in every way out of my bed because she's bigger than a B cup.

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RE: Does size matter? (breast size) - 1/16/2009 11:02:56 AM   
bluepanda


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ORIGINAL: LaTigresse

I prefer smaller myself, but I am not going to kick a large breasted woman that I think is totally awesome in every way out of my bed because she's bigger than a B cup.


Same here, but it's sure not something I consider important when I'm looking for someone. That "holy cow, look at them hooters!" thing is something I never got. It baffles me. You don't learn anything about who she is as a person by staring at her chest; you need to be focused about a foot higher. That's where everything's really going on.


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RE: Does size matter? (breast size) - 1/16/2009 11:06:27 AM   
Loliita


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Status: offline 		My own opinion on the matter...

Everyone has their personal preferences when it comes to relationships so I never thought men who liked big breasted women were small minded or shallow and I don't think less of them. It's just their personal preference. I like men who are taller than I am and I don't consider myself small minded or shallow because of it. It's just my preference.

I'm just not one of those people that thinks less of others because they have physical preferences when it comes to choosing a partner, whether the partner be kinky or not. We like who our minds and hearts like, emotions are what they are and logic doesn't enter into it.


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RE: Does size matter? (breast size) - 1/16/2009 11:14:18 AM   
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Status: offline 		Although I have known womans breasts to get a woman faster attention, I have never known a man to decide anything based on it. I think saying that all men love big breasts is way far from the truth... many men love small breasts and a lot of men really dont care one way or the other. When a woman really has a great rack... everyone seems to notice equally no mater who it is...LOL

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RE: Does size matter? (breast size) - 1/16/2009 11:21:20 AM   
Loliita


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ORIGINAL: FRSguy

I think saying that all men love big breasts is way far from the truth...


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ORIGIONAL: Loliita's OP

We all know many men love women with bigger breast.

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RE: Does size matter? (breast size) - 1/16/2009 11:59:28 AM   
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Status: offline 		Breast size was irrelevant to me when I was searching for a domme.  I do, however, have a preference for a more plus-sized lady.  Just like most women have a preference for a taller man, I prefer a more squishy woman.
 
Even though I have a certain preference, my attraction to her as a woman and a domme is only half of the equation.  I need chemistry with her, similar interests in both the vanilla and kink world, and her style of dominance should mesh with my style of submission.  Besides, if she's dumb as a post and clueless about D/s, a nice set of boobies aren't going to be enough to make me want to submit to her.

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RE: Does size matter? (breast size) - 1/16/2009 12:02:57 PM   
Lockit


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Status: offline 		I think it is funny that life plays little tricks on us.  We can start out small breasted and thin, not squishy... hehe.. love that term... and then low and behold... life... um's... tasty things and the aging process adds a bit to what we turn out to be.  Bigger breast... squishy maybe...

Does one exchange a dominant if she goes from not squishy to squishy? hehe

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