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tv time - 1/18/2009 8:37:01 AM   
KurtKaboom


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Status: offline 		 My slave has requested that she be allowed to watch the inoguration on telavision.  Even though she is currently restricted from any tv, I have decided to permit a variance.  A price needs to be payed for that privalidge and I am seeking suggestions.

The obvious solution would be an uncomfortable bondage, but this slave has severe emotional reactions to physical restraint.  She wouldn't comprehend what was happening on the screen.  I want something that will remind her every moment of her position, yet allow her to watch this historic event without requiring she place her complete attention elsewhere.

  Does anyone have ideas for this?

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RE: tv time - 1/18/2009 8:46:32 AM   
Lockit


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Status: offline 		Do something after the program.  Anything you do for a price will be a distraction.

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RE: tv time - 1/18/2009 8:52:51 AM   
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My slave has requested that she be allowed to watch the inoguration on telavision.  Even though she is currently restricted from any tv, I have decided to permit a variance.  A price needs to be payed for that privalidge and I am seeking suggestions.

The obvious solution would be an uncomfortable bondage, but this slave has severe emotional reactions to physical restraint.  She wouldn't comprehend what was happening on the screen.  I want something that will remind her every moment of her position, yet allow her to watch this historic event without requiring she place her complete attention elsewhere.

Does anyone have ideas for this?

1. have her watch it whilst doing the ironing
2. have her watch it and make tea at every interval
3. have her watch it and keep one eye on the dinner whilst it's cookin
4. have her watch it and compel her to explain its political/ethical/sociological significance after the show
5. have her search for a transcript of it and ask for a discourse analysis
6. ask her to write a commentary on the Poet's worldview/intentions
7. let her give you spelling lessons on key words
8. expect her to answer the phone/feed the cats/feed the neighbourhood teens even though it disrupts her experience

Happens to me quite often even when i am merely watching the ads......


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RE: tv time - 1/18/2009 8:56:07 AM   
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Status: offline 		Watch the inauguration with her, perhaps with her sitting at your feet, and discuss its historic significance afterwards. 

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RE: tv time - 1/18/2009 9:29:00 AM   
SadysticJester


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Status: offline 		as you stated its an historical event and one wonders even with the restrictions why you would keep this from her since she has asked/petitioned to do so...you want retribution for something you will allow her to do.....these are contradictory to me buts its my thoughts and opinions..now if she has agreed to the stipulations that you may devise an alternative than so be it..doing anything at all should come after the event,not during..

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RE: tv time - 1/18/2009 9:41:06 AM   
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This inauguration happens once. You, on the other hand, happen every day. Leave her in peace to watch and return to the regularly-scheduled routine after it is over.  Since she is most likely far smarter than the average houseplant, she wont really have to be reminded every second that she is watching due to your benevolence.
 
 

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RE: tv time - 1/18/2009 9:57:47 AM   
TreasureKY


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ORIGINAL: KurtKaboom

... A price needs to be payed for that privalidge and I am seeking suggestions.


Good grief. 

You either let her watch it or you don't.  You either want her to have the benefit or not.  What exactly would be the point of punishing her for something you've permitted?

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RE: tv time - 1/18/2009 10:05:42 AM   
Aileen1968


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Status: offline 		Force her to watch American Idol afterwards.  That's enough punishment for anyone.

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RE: tv time - 1/18/2009 10:06:01 AM   
ALAstella


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Status: offline 		Though it's not quite as momentous or historic as the inauguration of Obama as US President, so far Ala (my domme) has allowed me to twice attend 'Gaza' demonstrations in London to protest against the Israeli government. What's more, on both occasions she stood there beside me and we attended the demonstration together.

She is my domme, I am her slave, neither of us need any reminders of our dynamic, and both of us recognize that there are some things in life bigger than BDSM and D/s.

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RE: tv time - 1/18/2009 10:08:58 AM   
KurtKaboom


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Status: offline 		       There is no contradiction.  Punishing her after would be one.  Her role is to serve and amuse me.  Watching her watch tv is not my idea of a good time.  She wore two vibrating plugs when I took her to cast her vote, but there will be no need for discretion this tewsday.

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RE: tv time - 1/18/2009 10:10:34 AM   
OsideGirl


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Status: offline 		I'm with everyone else. You're contradicting yourself when you punish for something you've allowed.

Master and I will occasionally bargain with each other if I've requested something special. But, he's clear and up front about what it is that he wants, he doesn't just spring it on me after I've been granted permission. And it's certainly not a punishment.

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RE: tv time - 1/18/2009 10:11:12 AM   
KurtKaboom


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ORIGINAL: Aileen1968

Force her to watch American Idol afterwards.  That's enough punishment for anyone.


      That is what got the tv takin away to begin with.

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RE: tv time - 1/18/2009 10:13:20 AM   
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Status: offline 		Perhaps an appropriate punishment would be to have her proof read and correct your spelling, OP.

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RE: tv time - 1/18/2009 10:13:57 AM   
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Status: offline 		Go to DC and participate in the inauguration.  No TV's watched, no rules broken, no disobedience, no problems.

But... what I'm getting out of this is that you think a solution like that would be... no fun.


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RE: tv time - 1/18/2009 10:16:52 AM   
KurtKaboom


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ORIGINAL: RedMagic1

Go to DC and participate in the inauguration.  No TV's watched, no rules broken, no disobedience, no problems.

But... what I'm getting out of this is that you think a solution like that would be... no fun.




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RE: tv time - 1/18/2009 10:20:54 AM   
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ORIGINAL: cjan
Perhaps an appropriate punishment would be to have her proof read and correct your spelling, OP.




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RE: tv time - 1/18/2009 10:25:43 AM   
ALAstella


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ORIGINAL: KurtKaboom

       There is no contradiction.  Punishing her after would be one.  Her role is to serve and amuse me.  Watching her watch tv is not my idea of a good time.  She wore two vibrating plugs when I took her to cast her vote, but there will be no need for discretion this tewsday.


There is no contradiction? Yeah sure, and I'm really a a Nigerian princess giving away millions of dollars to everyone posting on these boards from my personal checking account.

It's not just the contradiction of punishing her for something you're allowing her, but the contradicting of the advice you're being given on these boards.

How about you step away from the boards for a while, think about it, and come back to us when you really know what you want to write about?

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RE: tv time - 1/18/2009 10:29:54 AM   
KurtKaboom


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Status: offline 		Price and punishment are not sinonymouse.

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RE: tv time - 1/18/2009 10:33:00 AM   
CallaFirestormBW


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Status: offline 		If I am understanding the situation correctly, Kurt, your servant has been under discipline for disobedience related to her television activities in the past (watching a show that she was forbidden to watch?). Now, she has asked for special dispensation to watch the inauguration.

It seems to me that the purpose of your discipline has been served. Clearly, she has learned that access to the television is only obtained by your permission, which was the point of disciplining her, yes?

This is a momentous occasion, yes. That being said, I -do- understand the position that, if a special dispensation from an existing discipline is being requested, then there must be some recompense. Personally, that isn't my style (I figure that if the request is made, and I choose to allow it, that shows sufficiently my authority in the situation, and I feel no further need to rub that authority in just to show that I can), however, if I -were- to choose to place a 'cost' on such permission, I would require something BEFORE the event... If you wish to see the show on television, you must... (insert special chore or duty here). I would not make it so impossible that she is doomed to not be able to complete the task, but, at the same time, I would make it challenging enough that she would have to work at it (Perhaps preparing a special, complex meal suited to the gravity of the occasion, as well as completing her regular daily tasks). That way, if she completes the special requirements, she gets to watch, and can concentrate completely on the event... if not, then she knows that it is because she did not apply herself sufficiently, and apparently did not want to watch enough to complete the special tasks.

I would also find a situation petty and shallow, were there nothing to it than a servant's existence being solely for my entertainment, with no consideration any other intrinsic value in situations than that... but that is another topic for another day.

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RE: tv time - 1/18/2009 10:34:27 AM   
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Status: offline 		Both price and punishment carry negative actions so they are  synonymous Especially in the context of the OP


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