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dreamerdreaming -> RE: Opinions wanted on progression (1/21/2009 4:13:36 PM)

WOW, faithfulfemme. You rock.

Shelly, I'll write you some more when I've gathered my thoughts and can add something more to the conversation. In the past I did identify as slave so I do know from experience, something of the kinds of thoughts and feelings you may be having.

In the meantime, it seems like you are a smart and capable young woman...

3.63, woohoo! You GO, girl!  :o)



faithfulfemme -> RE: Opinions wanted on progression (1/21/2009 4:42:19 PM)

Thank You, Miss Dreamer.  i do appreciate Your compliment.  i have been stumbling on this training stuff for a couple of years, now, and this last Dominant i had finally helped me put it all together.  Well, a lot of it, anyway.  i do so owe Hym a debt for that....



Jeptha -> RE: Opinions wanted on progression (1/21/2009 7:23:11 PM)

Interesting. And puzzling!

I don't mean to be overly critical.
But the training and the relationship sounds sort of random from what I've been able to glean thus far.

I'd probably just ask you the simple question;
~Are you happy?




KnightofMists -> RE: Opinions wanted on progression (1/22/2009 9:27:45 AM)

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ORIGINAL: Jeptha

I'd probably just ask you the simple question;
~Are you happy?




all these complex and well thought answers... and at the end... this really is all that it comes down too!



shellymeow -> RE: Opinions wanted on progression (1/25/2009 9:11:44 PM)

Thank you All so much for your imput... i spoke to Him, and told Him that i simply could not manage this at this time of my life... and He said that He understood, and all is well. So... i guess im on the prowl again!



dreamerdreaming -> RE: Opinions wanted on progression (1/25/2009 10:30:17 PM)

YAY!
 
Good for you, I'm proud of you! Not everyone has the self esteem, at your age, to stick up for themselves like that. But this really is a time in your life when your needs should come first.

My suggestion regarding that "prowling" thing: Any good dominant will understand, when you make it clear that priority ONE is your schooling, right now. A good Dom won't just give you lip service about that, he'll show you with his actions, by helping you make sure you get enough rest, study time, etc.

If it were me, I'd just be very clear with people right from the start, that you may not be able to give them very much time and attention right now, due to the demands of school. I'd be blunt and unapologetic.

But then, if it were me I'd most likely put off dating until after I'd graduated. That way I could focus completely on the task at hand. You don't have that much longer to go, do you?




shellymeow -> RE: Opinions wanted on progression (1/25/2009 11:22:28 PM)

another three and a half years to go unfortunately...



SensibleSam -> RE: Opinions wanted on progression (1/26/2009 4:11:50 PM)

Am I the only one who finds all this reminiscent of "The Story of O"? This whole thing smacks of some porno fantasy.

Most legitimate Doms hereabout can give references - the testimony of former subs who have been "trained" Is there someone who will speak for the bona fides of this guy?



GreedyTop -> RE: Opinions wanted on progression (1/26/2009 4:42:19 PM)

Frankly, IMO, references are only as good as how much you trust the source.  Why would I trust a reference from someone I dont know well?



Huntertn -> RE: Opinions wanted on progression (1/26/2009 5:59:39 PM)

prowl again...he let you go rather than work with you?



came4U -> RE: Opinions wanted on progression (1/27/2009 1:03:14 PM)

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Plus He said 3 strikes and i am out, i have already received one.


I would have bet the third strike would be when he was just about tired of you and wanted to move on anyways.

Sure, he let you go, blaming you for not being able to handle HIM lol.  oh boy.

He got a few sessions out of you, you are young, cute, energenic and likely you could keep up but would likely be a lot of work for a man to keep happy in servitude.  Sounds like you could be a prize for some man, if you ask me.  Just who was not keeping up with whom here?

Do well in school, let the pieces fall where they may and take care of numero uno..YOU.  Since you have spare time now and no longer have to write long essays, get ahead of the game and prepare for a future master...take a cooking class, learn some more domestic skills to enhance your worth.  Do them for the fun of it, not because you 'have' to for anyone.




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