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came4U -> RE: Psychological Question (1/24/2009 12:47:56 PM)
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I agree with whomever said the fear of commitment.
Some consciously or subconciously choose to 'chase' to obtain something out of norm reach. Perhaps knowing it will lead to disappointment and drama, even attention, as negative as it may be.
With the back turned to such falling and crumbling around them ..they walk away, no responsibility. Other's pain relieves their guilt. You can call it a 'daddy' issue for women or a 'mama' issue for men but all it all it is the same pattern.
Not getting the attention (or too much attention) in the way one longs to have leads to using this as a means of the only power they can identify with as an adult. It is rationalized. Likely once they achieved such a goal, it is unsatisfying and dull.
This type of person has no scruples nor concept of moral conscience and will not be the one crying in distress at the end of an affair, this type of person cries in dispair yet that masochistic outburs it a relief, a sick, sublime and satisfying relief. On to the next victim, and on to the next after that.
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