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To have them by the balls makes them submit very deeply ! - 1/18/2009 11:54:14 PM

GoddessTeaze

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Hello all,

For a long time I've used cumcontrol on My subs.
Especially the men,
(although I've got My girl also on the same diet)
they always want to wank
their little clittys, which they are allowed to,
but they aren't allowed to cum, unless I give them Permission.

Of course I keep it healthy and make sure they are milked
every six weeks, to keep their prostate empty.

It brings them into a certain state,
which is very pleasant, and those of you
serve this way know what I mean.

Yes it keeps them frustrated, but in a good way,
they know Who they do it for,
and since they love to please Me,
it's a win win situation.

It immediately rules out true subs, not that this
is for everyone, I understand that, although..
Who is the Dominant here? grinz

It has brought My subs deeper into
submission, and I would like to hear
your experiences with orgasm denial.

For Me it's the most effective way,
to get them where I want them to be.

I wish you a lovely day,

Warm Greetingz

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RE: To have them by the balls makes them submit very de... - 1/19/2009 1:50:53 AM

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quote:

GoddessTeaze wrote: Of course I keep it healthy and make sure they are milked every six weeks, to keep their prostate empty.

Is that enough to keep them healthy? All the sites I've seen recommend at least once a month.

beeble.

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RE: To have them by the balls makes them submit very de... - 1/19/2009 2:25:45 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: beeble

quote:

GoddessTeaze wrote: Of course I keep it healthy and make sure they are milked every six weeks, to keep their prostate empty.

Is that enough to keep them healthy? All the sites I've seen recommend at least once a month.

beeble.

I agree, once every 6 weeks is going to cause bad afteraffects.

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RE: To have them by the balls makes them submit very de... - 1/19/2009 3:57:38 AM

GoddessTeaze

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quote:

ORIGINAL: beeble

quote:

GoddessTeaze wrote: Of course I keep it healthy and make sure they are milked every six weeks, to keep their prostate empty.

Is that enough to keep them healthy? All the sites I've seen recommend at least once a month.

beeble.

Hello beeble,
that's what I've read, but I'll let them milk themselves
regulairly as a reward for something.

*chucklz*

did you ever try it beeble?

Warm Greetingz

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RE: To have them by the balls makes them submit very de... - 1/19/2009 4:32:01 AM

chezzy71

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Personally,if Mistress had me by the family jewels,i would hope she wouldn't let go figuratively and literally...i guess that would be total control i am speaking of really.Regarding wanking,i pick my spots for the time being but with Mistress's permission.

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RE: To have them by the balls makes them submit very de... - 1/19/2009 5:24:55 AM

MsStarlett

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Yeah... I was a little disappointed this wasn't a thread about ball busting. I greatly enjoy grabbing a boy by the balls. I've been doing that since I was 18.

----adding---

Actually, I've heard the expression "Grabbing the bull by the horns" my entire life. I find it so much more fun to grab the boy by the balls. He'll follow you anywhere... even to the gates of Hell.

< Message edited by MsStarlett -- 1/19/2009 5:26:34 AM >

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RE: To have them by the balls makes them submit very de... - 1/19/2009 5:33:44 AM

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... even to the gates of Hell.

What, are those in Tennessee, Ms S?

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RE: To have them by the balls makes them submit very de... - 1/19/2009 6:00:39 AM

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Nope, sorry, once the focus of the relationship goes between their legs, IMHO they are in passive dominant control.

Not for Me.

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RE: To have them by the balls makes them submit very de... - 1/19/2009 6:16:35 AM

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Ahhh... Not so IMnotsoHO.

Sexuality is a tool. Any idiot can hold it. A craftsman can use it to make something useful. Only an artisian can weild it to make something truely beautiful.

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RE: To have them by the balls makes them submit very de... - 1/19/2009 8:49:49 AM

GoddessTeaze

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quote:

ORIGINAL: chezzy71

Personally,if Mistress had me by the family jewels,i would hope she wouldn't let go figuratively and literally...i guess that would be total control i am speaking of really.Regarding wanking,i pick my spots for the time being but with Mistress's permission.

As she should, grab you by ya balls
and hold you there !

It would show you your place.

Warm Greetingz

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RE: To have them by the balls makes them submit very de... - 1/19/2009 8:54:34 AM

GoddessTeaze

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quote:

ORIGINAL: CatdeMedici

Nope, sorry, once the focus of the relationship goes between their legs, IMHO they are in passive dominant control.

Not for Me.

I can tell you've never tried,
because that's not the issue with My subs.
which malesub isn't busy with it's clit?

you tell Me that.
It's part of the deal.
It's gorgeous to see them go into subspace from denial.

Have a good one

GoddezzT`

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RE: To have them by the balls makes them submit very de... - 1/19/2009 8:58:08 AM

GoddessTeaze

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quote:

ORIGINAL: MsStarlett

Ahhh... Not so IMnotsoHO.

Sexuality is a tool. Any idiot can hold it. A craftsman can use it to make something useful. Only an artisian can weild it to make something truely beautiful.

Sexuality is a tool, and so is a whip, and so
is humiliation, it's just one of the tools.
And as far as the "any idiot" is going?
Can you stop cumming for 6 months?

My subs aren't idiots,
I've great respect how they show their devotion
to Me.

So DON'T judge something you don't like.

Greetingz

GoddezzT`

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RE: To have them by the balls makes them submit very de... - 1/19/2009 9:21:44 AM

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I have gone 6 months without an orgasm...not a big deal really.

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RE: To have them by the balls makes them submit very de... - 1/19/2009 10:47:21 AM

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hi A/all
As one of GoddezzT's subs i have been put on denial by Goddezz and i lasted six months without cumming and i loved every minute of it. yes it was extremely hard and i was very frustrated on many occasions. however after the initial month or so i felt myself settle into life without cumming. As someone who before just stroked when i wanted too i found myself absorbed into my new role knowing that i would only cum again when Goddezz allowed. with regular milkings i am kept healthy and as time went by i became closer to Goddezz and began to understand more about my role as a submissive. When Goddezz did allow me release i didnt want to cum. i know that sounds crazy but its very true and i know that it will maybe a long time before i do again. i would definitely recommend it to all Dominants and subs as it brings both closer together and builds a strong D/s relationship.

Dedicated to my wonderful GoddezzT

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RE: To have them by the balls makes them submit very de... - 1/19/2009 10:54:52 AM

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At what price do we wish to become closer? You state yourself that when allowed after six months of not cumming, you didn't wish to. What happens after a year? What happens if your mistress is no longer around and another who you fit in most ways, wishes for more than your not cumming? I believe this can have long lasting effects that are not good that present themselves later on... when it could be too late.

So what price are we willing to pay for a bond and closeness and what part of ourselves are we willing to lose. Sure... at the moment all may be well and fine... but later... with life changes... I would be interested then to know how you might feel if you must have another mistress and she wants more.

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RE: To have them by the balls makes them submit very de... - 1/19/2009 11:04:45 AM

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I have done orgasm control before, but I have alwyas been very disappointed in the effects once I wanted them to cum agai for me. The desire to climax was so supressed to keep them obedient most of the time that once I wanted it it was nearly impossible to get.

I prefer mental and physical control to sexual, in that aspect. Fox and I have sex when I want it, how I want it, and he knows he is not allowed to do anything without permission. However, I wont risk his not being ready right away when I am ready so he is not made to go without for long periods.

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RE: To have them by the balls makes them submit very de... - 1/19/2009 11:19:34 AM

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I too have used some form of orgasm control or chastity... but I tend to believe that chastity with some will make them focus more on their cock and cumming than what I really want them focused on. Some may think more of their dominant and pay attention for that pay off... but what happens when the pay off is gone and they have surpressed it so far, they simply don't care? I have talked to men who have this problem and at first they didn't see it as a problem... but later, they strove to overcome it and I have yet to talk to someone who had. But of course I haven't talked to great numbers of men in this situation.

When I have used chastity, it is typically only for a short time as a reminder when a collar or something cannot be used and when I want them to know I am there or am in charge. I don't just use chastity though. That is just one option and not really my favorite. I opened my thoughts to chastity because I saw so many who were into it and it was the only thing they related to. I have since rethought things and experienced more and stopped letting myself be swayed by what someone is used to or think's they want... because many times... I found it was only what they thought they wanted as they saw that as control. I don't see it as the type of control I want.

Yes, I do wish to control their cock... but I am more interested in controling other things or being in charge of someone who doesn't need to be locked up to see my worth to him. This in my opinion is an 'us' thing... not a dominant only or a cock thing. If the focus is on the cock... cumming and that is what is seen as submission... I am out...

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RE: To have them by the balls makes them submit very de... - 1/19/2009 11:26:49 AM

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I have never been motivated to do orgasm DENIAL, that gets in the way of what I like to do. I have friends who have had tremendous success with it, and good for them!

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RE: To have them by the balls makes them submit very de... - 1/19/2009 11:50:00 AM

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Hello A/all that are reading this.i and others have the honor of serving our Goddezz T. Its not a big deal going without cumming for six months or even a year if it pleases Her .we are not "idiots" we know whats right and whats wrong .we all Love Her and want to please Her anyway She deems right that is Her right. It doesn't mean we have giving up our masculinity but we have channeled it to GoddezzT by having Her controll our bodies which definitely is a good thing..

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RE: To have them by the balls makes them submit very de... - 1/19/2009 11:57:52 AM

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I mean no offense to you or your mistress. But I do wish to say... musculanity has nothing to do with cumming. Even women do it.

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