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yieldtoyou -> Why do some Doms lie? (1/19/2009 9:29:52 AM)

Ever have a Dominant lie about his height, his penis size, and many other things? Sounds like insecurity to me

After you have gotten to know each other, still lying about unimportant things?




alianora -> RE: Why do some Doms lie? (1/19/2009 9:32:40 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: yieldtoyou

Ever have a Dominant lie about his height, his penis size, and many other things? Sounds like insecurity to me

After you have gotten to know each other, still lying about unimportant things?

No, I have not. But then, I don't ask them their height, penis size, or other uninportant incidentals such as that.




IrishMist -> RE: Why do some Doms lie? (1/19/2009 9:39:07 AM)

Why do Dom's lie?

Probably for the same reason some submissives lie.

[8|]




Amaros -> RE: Why do some Doms lie? (1/19/2009 9:40:14 AM)

Uh, because they can often get what they want by lying? Sadly, it happens to be dominant trait, politicians for instance - fortunately, submissives are often more discerning than voters.




missturbation -> RE: Why do some Doms lie? (1/19/2009 9:41:31 AM)

To impree, insecurity, because they can !!
I think everyone lies, little white one's, big fat whoppers.
 
Yes i have had Dom's lie to me but there again i think everyone has been lied to at some point. It's just a matter of if you find the lie out or not.




deuz -> RE: Why do some Doms lie? (1/19/2009 9:44:07 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: yieldtoyou
Sounds like insecurity to me

They're..




RCdc -> RE: Why do some Doms lie? (1/19/2009 9:45:09 AM)

Why do some dominants lie?
Pfft who knows - it's up there with why do some people ask silly questions that have subjective answers.
 
the.dark.




PhillyBitch -> RE: Why do some Doms lie? (1/19/2009 9:48:03 AM)

Why do people in general lie?




HumiliatePorky -> RE: Why do some Doms lie? (1/19/2009 9:51:35 AM)

People lie because they can get away with it,now what matters is if its a white lie or a huge lie. Someone could easily lie especially if its written online. ::smirks:: Going along with everyone else, why ask why?;)




oceanwynds -> RE: Why do some Doms lie? (1/19/2009 9:53:32 AM)

Philly you sure have some high expectations of people. Assuming a human is going to always be truthful is very careless thinking. Sound like you want to live in a perfect world without having to learn important things for yourself, like why people lie. Best of luck on this utopia. By the way are you lying?

oceanwynds




ALAstella -> RE: Why do some Doms lie? (1/19/2009 9:55:11 AM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: IrishMist

Why do Dom's lie?

Probably for the same reason some submissives lie.

[8|]


Maybe they find it uncomfortable to have sex standing up.




PhillyBitch -> RE: Why do some Doms lie? (1/19/2009 9:59:52 AM)

My reply was to the OP not a question of my own.... People in general lie NOT just Doms.

Now I remember why I dont post much.

Edit to add   in case it needed to be explained farther ... lying isn't exclusive to Doms.




whiteslavebitch -> RE: Why do some Doms lie? (1/19/2009 10:06:56 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: IrishMist

Why do Dom's lie?

Probably for the same reason some submissives lie.

[8|]


Or any male or female humans of any persuasion for that matter.[8D]




RCdc -> RE: Why do some Doms lie? (1/19/2009 10:08:58 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: oceanwynds

Philly you sure have some high expectations of people. Assuming a human is going to always be truthful is very careless thinking. Sound like you want to live in a perfect world without having to learn important things for yourself, like why people lie. Best of luck on this utopia. By the way are you lying?

oceanwynds


I agree with Philly here ow.  I didnt see anywhere in Phillys short, yet succinct post, that accused everyone of lying, it's simply a point that it's not a dominant trait but a people one(If I'm wrong, please do let me know Philly).  Many come into BDSM and assume that things might be different because of some unwritten code, or because BDSM peeps are better or more in tune or less judgemental.  I don't get the OPs question at all.  For me, it's an immature question and has no backbone to it.  How do we even know that because those things are unimportant to the OP, that they aren't important to the person shes talking about - and lets face it - questions like this usually come up from a personal experience.
 
And Philly, don't allow the reactions of others dictate what you can or cannot post and when you can or cannot.  I know my posts come across as abrupt at times - it's not always meant that way but the written word can be so unforgiving and misunderstanding happen.  You have just as much right to post as anyone, regardless of what others might think.
 
the.dark.




oceanwynds -> RE: Why do some Doms lie? (1/19/2009 10:08:58 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: PhillyBitch

My reply was to the OP not a question of my own.... People in general lie NOT just Doms.

Now I remember why I dont post much.

Edit to add   in case it needed to be explained farther ... lying isn't exclusive to Doms.


My apologies Philly, my statement was directed to the op. but was thinking of a Philly sandwich and brewing in my menapausal bitch attitude today. Please keep posting, and dont get offended by my attitude.

oceanwynds




SassySarijane -> RE: Why do some Doms lie? (1/19/2009 10:24:16 AM)

Why do some doms lie? Because they are also human beings and lots of human beings lie for just about any reason you can come up with. As has been said before, it's a people thing not a dom thing.




CatdeMedici -> RE: Why do some Doms lie? (1/19/2009 10:27:46 AM)

People lie, period. There is a new show coming out called "lies"---the preview says the average person tells 3 lies per 10 minutes of conversation----soooo
 
Men- height, weight penis size
 
Women--height, weight, boob size.
 
yup.




DavanKael -> RE: Why do some Doms lie? (1/19/2009 10:29:15 AM)

People lie.  It sucks. 
Lots of different reasons. 
The instances you mentioned, I think stem from insecurity and the desire to be given a chance to win you over with their personality so those perceived detractants matter less. 
I endeavor not to lie in important relationships as I believe that whether large or small, lies chip away at a foundational piece of a relationship.  Particularly with partners and those very close with me, honesty is really the only option. 
  Davan




MissGingerrella -> RE: Why do some Doms lie? (1/19/2009 10:30:47 AM)

Are you implying Doms are human? How dare you ;-)




CalifChick -> RE: Why do some Doms lie? (1/19/2009 10:36:39 AM)

People lie to protect themselves or someone else, to gain financially or socially, or to avoid punishment.

My bet on the OP's question is "to gain socially."


Cali




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