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rubberpet -> RE: So I'm Curious (1/23/2009 3:09:27 AM)
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ORIGINAL: OneMoreWaste
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ORIGINAL: rubberpet
I absolutely LOVE how emphatic dominant men are about saying no to receiving any anal or strap-on play! It is freakin' hilarious! It's like they're scared to lose their dom membership or something if they like it up the ass. Is it a "macho" thing? Is it the fear of being thought of as gay or a sissy? Whatever the reason, it sure is funny to watch them squirm at the thought...LOL.
One thing I find interesting, though- I'm not in the mood to survey right now, but my immediate impression is that the reactions of female submissives to weilding the Big Rubber Cock are actually MORE negative than that of the Dominant Men themselves [:-]
If you want to get all social psych about it, it could be that men are wary of being mocked for either "protesting too much" or "being afraid", while femsubs can fire 'way with pretty much anything and not have to worry about repercussions. [:-]
EEEeeeenteresting!
While I can see where you've drawn your conclusion from, it's also "EEEeeeeeeeenteresting" to point out that most straight dominant men are more afraid of being caught doing something deemed "submissive or gay" than submissive women doing something seen as "dominant". Most straight male doms I've come in contact with have some sort of defensive response on the subject, like the dom on post #29 saying "he'd slap someone into mashed potatoes if anyone even suggested it to him". That's the type of defensive response that I'm talking about. To those kinds of doms, it's like a cardinal sin or something to take it up the ass. Most female subs I know have no interest in straping on and dishing it to their doms. As for female submissives having a more vocal negative response, they are simply stating that their doms wouldn't want to or enjoy it. It's the same thing as me saying that my domme doesn't enjoy crossdressing play or CBT. In no way am I knocking those activities because there are tons of people that do enjoy them, just like the female subs here aren't stating their opinions in a way derogatory to those who enjoy it.
It brings up the question of does being penetrated make you submissive or gay? If a woman, either dominant or submissive, with a strap-on fucks her man in the ass, does that mean the man is gay or submissive? I say no because anal play, when done properly, is quite enjoyable.
If a dominant woman likes her male submissive to fuck her in the ass, does that make her submissive? I say no because, once again, anal play is enjoyable.
While it is enjoyable to some, it is certainly not for everyone. I think a response of, "I don't like anything up my ass because it's uncomfortable" or "It's just not my thing" is better and more tolerant than, "I won't do it because it would make me look gay and submissive." You can say what you like and don't like in a tactful and sensitive manner rather than being harsh about it. Just my opinion, though.
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