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RE: Are Women afraid of maleness? - 1/23/2009 4:47:51 PM   
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Personally, I think that a male's natural state is out in the garage working on stuff, in which case there's nothing to afraid of... until you smell smoke.
LOL, sounds like that show "Home Improvement."     M

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RE: Are Women afraid of maleness? - 1/23/2009 4:58:22 PM   
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RE: Are Women afraid of maleness? - 1/23/2009 5:00:54 PM   
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*snort*     You are going to clean that shower after you get out right?!   M

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RE: Are Women afraid of maleness? - 1/23/2009 5:11:32 PM   
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Since that's now the second time this has come up, I'm curious- what does this accomplish?

I believe that outward displays of fear embolden aggressors (of either gender, and just about every species), and would not recommend it.

Personally, I think that a male's natural state is out in the garage working on stuff, in which case there's nothing to afraid of... until you smell smoke.


Personally, it gets the items in the breast pocket closer to Me.


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RE: Are Women afraid of maleness? - 1/23/2009 5:17:42 PM   
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I am glad that I am on the list, I so rarely make lists! 

It is true, I have no fear of Things Guylike.  At the same time, I also expect some level of manners and hygiene! 

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RE: Are Women afraid of maleness? - 1/23/2009 5:23:16 PM   
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I quite often wonder if women see men roughly the same way as they see large dogs . . . loud, crude, smelly, yet pleasant enough to have around if properly trained - but be careful of one with which you're not very familiar.

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RE: Are Women afraid of maleness? - 1/23/2009 5:24:46 PM   
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I like large dogs, Peon. 

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RE: Are Women afraid of maleness? - 1/23/2009 5:55:47 PM   
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I didn't need the humping the leg mind picture... thanks!

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RE: Are Women afraid of maleness? - 1/23/2009 6:05:32 PM   
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Sorry, Lockit!

My point is that in my relationships, I expect us both to be able to be comfortable with each other, and to behave naturally.  I have been known to make some unusual sounds myself (thank goodness my parrot does not emulate them all!) and while I look great in the morning, I also like to have whole days where I do not get dressed.  (I have a large collection of loungewear for this purpose).  I have chronic hives.  When they itch, don't get in my way!   Sometimes I get pneumonia and the coughing would scare the old guy on the bus that you don't sit too close to.  It doesn't seem reasonable for me to expect my man to be the epitome of sanitized perfection when I am a just a regular person. 

So no, I am not put off by Male Personal Adjustments, random grunting or strange smells.  But if the smells stick around I am likely to wash them off.

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RE: Are Women afraid of maleness? - 1/23/2009 6:10:21 PM   
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Good grief ! Why do so many wimmins seem to associate "maleness" with nasty smells and boorish behavior ? 

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RE: Are Women afraid of maleness? - 1/23/2009 6:11:42 PM   
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Well *I* don't, and I would never accuse my PimpDaddy of any such ickiness!!  We are merely responding to the OP which was referring to a silly book.

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RE: Are Women afraid of maleness? - 1/23/2009 7:12:00 PM   
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I think that society in general has a rather anti-male bias and those things that remind folks of an individual's maleness are looked down upon.  Luckily, individually, most of the womenI know like masculine men.  I know I do. 
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RE: Are Women afraid of maleness? - 1/23/2009 7:31:54 PM   
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Hello A/all,

Yesterday as I was driving to work (the Rut Job not the fun job), I heard something on the radio that almost made me run off the road.  A woman was giving an interview on a local talk show to promote her book  She mentioned that many women are intimidated by men being male.    I'm not talking about silly machismo.  I am talking about men in their natural state:  ie:  Scratching where it itches;  Yelling or groaning at the tv during a football game;  Wearing your favorite old tech school sweat shirt (you know, the sweaty one)!   How could guys being guys be scary?

I find it hard to belive that Lockit, AAkasha, Tammyjo, MsStarlett. Lady Hibiscus or Venatrix could be scared of anything male.  I admit that I am an old fashioned Timber Beast.  I realize that I need polish.  On the other hand, I am house broken (sort of); I don't bite and even if I did, I've had my shots!

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I think that is all a stereotype of males. A negative stereotype (but all or *most* stereotypes have some level of truth in them). I don't think the current President of the United States fits those characteristics per se, advanced socio-economically emulating those based stereotypes, nor attracted his high class and attractively built wife with characteristics that fit those stereotypes.

I think quite often, and I'm not saying everyone, you can find feminist men and women that disparage or find intimidation in male characteristics that fought off Nazi's, conquested the Americas, built bridges, destroyed half of Europe in wars, created international law, built civilization, and developed most systems of modern life thatr give us convience.

I'm not White, and I don't like many things Whit males have historically done (what I regard as negative anyways), but it's popular today to disregard their historical contribution to many of the things we enjoy today (minus the creation of the USA which propaganda would have you believe was the greatest thing ever created in human history).

Being a rugged male, is not necessarily bad, it's a trait and a necissity that allowed the French and Anglo-Saxon mountainmen to surivive in the Westward conquest of the what is now the United States. That may not be a collection of traits needed in Parisian society, cosmopolitan and urban as it is, but in the Rocky Mountains?

A dominatrix would likely be more akin to the nobility and officer class that have always took the fields of Europe in war, especially in the circa 17th century or so. They would come to the rural rugged area carried in class and fine style. Pampered. Empolying (whipping maybe or at least driving by determined command) the type of men you describe into an area of work that would produce a well ordered, and run camp, if not creating easy, Eden like existence for her.

Maybe different men are good for different things? I don't know.

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RE: Are Women afraid of maleness? - 1/23/2009 7:55:32 PM   
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Well *I* don't, and I would never accuse my PimpDaddy of any such ickiness!!  We are merely responding to the OP which was referring to a silly book.

All the men around me are good at massages and cooking lovely meals!


You DO like your sausage, don't you, AuntieH ?


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RE: Are Women afraid of maleness? - 1/23/2009 7:58:13 PM   
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mmmmmmmmmsausage!

(whoops, BANTER, sorry!)

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RE: Are Women afraid of maleness? - 1/23/2009 8:12:21 PM   
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mmmmmmmmmsausage!

(whoops, BANTER, sorry!)

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RE: Are Women afraid of maleness? - 1/23/2009 8:14:54 PM   
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she LOOOOOOOOOOVES her sausages!!!

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RE: Are Women afraid of maleness? - 1/23/2009 8:20:43 PM   
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*Snort x10*

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RE: Are Women afraid of maleness? - 1/23/2009 8:23:46 PM   
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It ain't so. I"m not afraid of maleness, why should I be? I think the radio person was speaking for herself and generalizing quite a bit. She wants to sell books, she needs to make it dramatic so it appeals to the masses. One thing is for certain, I'd never buy her book.

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RE: Are Women afraid of maleness? - 1/23/2009 8:58:50 PM   
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I have no fear of male behavior. It is easily modified and controlled.  Certain male behavior baffles me and makes me question the mental stability of the men in question, prime examples being naked football fans painted in their teams colors in sub-zero temperatures and that chest bumping in the air gesture when their team scores.
 
If a potential is not house-broken he will sleep out in the garage inside the dog kennel, be fed and watered from bowls on the ground and piss outside.  And if he is missing innoculations then off to the sadistic doctor he goes!  Gags are in order if he has issues with chewing the furniture or attempting to bite people. 

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On the other hand, I am house broken (sort of); I don't bite and even if I did, I've had my shots!


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