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What would you call an ass hole s-type - 1/25/2009 9:17:15 AM   
oceanwynds


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Status: offline 		After reading a couple threads on ass hole Dom., I began to wonder what would you call an ass hole s-type? What type of personality traits would she show?

Thank you for reading this post and posting.

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RE: What would you call an ass hole s-type - 1/25/2009 9:20:09 AM   
CatdeMedici


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Status: offline 		In My book, its called "off the buddy list"--whether male,female, sub or Dom, I have no use for assholes.

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RE: What would you call an ass hole s-type - 1/25/2009 9:30:39 AM   
oceanwynds


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Status: offline 		Understands Catde, still though am pondering what traits make up an ass hole s-type. Would it be the me me syndrome? Just curious about the traits.

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RE: What would you call an ass hole s-type - 1/25/2009 9:40:53 AM   
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Status: offline 		lemme finish lunch and i will put in my two cents. For starts i would say the sort that TELL the D that they don't do (yadda yadda yadda) and go on for pages, basically saying you better fit my fantasy exactly or you are a faker. or the ones that are all follow you around saying "tell me what to do, please please" but won't do what you tell them, just keep sucking up your time and effort. And of course there are the ones that  want to turn the tables (wink) and humiliate the D. And hey how about the ones that are bitter, crass, paranoid, and have way too much baggage to fit on a large airplane and expect you to "deal with it, its the way i am".

*scampers off to eat*


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RE: What would you call an ass hole s-type - 1/25/2009 9:51:59 AM   
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Status: offline 		- Do-me boys (and girls) who mistakenly believe it's all about them, their happiness, their fantasies
- Nothing is ever their fault; all the Dom/mes they were with before were the problem
- Rude or angry a good deal of the time
- Have nothing to offer in terms of play space, toys, skills or experience. They think it's an honor for me to take them on, provide everythng (at my expense, of course) and 'train' them the way they want to be trained
- Email a Dom/me and when they receive a response back, disappear
- Talk at length to all their friends about everything you did together, including critiques

How's that for a start?

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RE: What would you call an ass hole s-type - 1/25/2009 10:01:28 AM   
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Status: offline 		the same traits that make anyone an asshole...

being narcissistic, bitchy, loud, obnoxious, gossipy, rude, petty, mean, angry, shows no class or manners..just to name a few.

It doesn't matter if they're dom, sub or anything else they wanna call themselves. People are people and the same traits hold true no matter what side you put yourself on.

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RE: What would you call an ass hole s-type - 1/25/2009 10:02:31 AM   
MissJana


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Status: offline 		WOW! That describes many of the subby males I have come across. One of the main reasons I went pro. LOL. At least I was being paid for my time and aggravation.

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RE: What would you call an ass hole s-type - 1/25/2009 10:20:33 AM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: oceanwynds

Understands Catde, still though am pondering what traits make up an ass hole s-type. Would it be the me me syndrome? Just curious about the traits.


For Me, yes its the me me, do me, all about me, you have to change you life to match me--there are also two very key traits for Me---argumentative snd negativism--those two things just don't cut it for Me---I had a sub like that--it all had ot be done his way, based on all HIS experience, Dominas had to act this way or that--however that did not keep him from living nicely off Me and My short lived good graces.

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RE: What would you call an ass hole s-type - 1/25/2009 10:29:57 AM   
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Status: offline 		A computer, 6 pack of beer, spouse at the mall, kids in school and pooooooooof, another “online Dom/me” is born.  In contrast, there is a so called “submissive” match for the “Online Dom”. 

If lack of self understanding equates to ignorance,
and self ignorance leads to incorrect self categorization,
and incorrect self categorization means the socially accepted labels don’t truly fit,
and label conflict rises up as a control issue and spawns the belief labels don’t apply,
and that dominant little bastard with a confused or damaged self image and control issues claiming to be a “submissive” starts patrolling these forums passing out bad advice to newcomers that labels are confining instead of defining,
and they pollute threads claiming the boundaries and relationship styles that define our BDSM community don’t exist. . . well, that particular kind of asshole is called a “not-so-subby”.
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A computer, 6 pack of beer, spouse at the mall, kids in school and pooooooooof, another “not-so-subby” is born.


< Message edited by ResidentSadist -- 1/25/2009 10:33:11 AM >

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RE: What would you call an ass hole s-type - 1/25/2009 10:33:31 AM   
oceanwynds


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Status: offline 		Thank you all for replying. I am curious what constitues an ass hole in a s-type and from many of your responses it is similiar to the vanilla type too.

Considering myself still a novice in my own submission, there were things that i had to relearn in what is acceptable in a Ds relationship. I do though believe every new relationship comes with different guide lines or commands. There is a difference though with vanilla and giving someone complete authority over me. I do try not to be a brat or ass about things.

I appreciate the examples people are giving.
Thank you
oceanwynds

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RE: What would you call an ass hole s-type - 1/25/2009 10:35:10 AM   
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*applauds*

< Message edited by feydeplume -- 1/25/2009 10:36:20 AM >

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RE: What would you call an ass hole s-type - 1/25/2009 10:40:58 AM   
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Status: offline 		ROFLMAO – a friend just said most people call their asshole submissives . . .  “wife or husband”. 

…sorry but it was too funny not to mention.

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RE: What would you call an ass hole s-type - 1/25/2009 10:52:36 AM   
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quote:

the same traits that make anyone an asshole...

being narcissistic, bitchy, loud, obnoxious, gossipy, rude, petty, mean, angry, shows no class or manners..just to name a few.

It doesn't matter if they're dom, sub or anything else they wanna call themselves. People are people and the same traits hold true no matter what side you put yourself on.


What she said.

Some of the other characteristics that have been posted would make someone "undesirable" to me as a sub, but not necessarily an asshole.

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RE: What would you call an ass hole s-type - 1/25/2009 11:00:43 AM   
oceanwynds


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ORIGINAL: ResidentSadist

ROFLMAO – a friend just said most people call their asshole submissives . . .  “wife or husband”. 

…sorry but it was too funny not to mention.

chuckles..grabs paper towel to clean my screen.

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RE: What would you call an ass hole s-type - 1/25/2009 11:03:27 AM   
oceanwynds


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quote:

ORIGINAL: wisdom58

quote:

the same traits that make anyone an asshole...

being narcissistic, bitchy, loud, obnoxious, gossipy, rude, petty, mean, angry, shows no class or manners..just to name a few.

It doesn't matter if they're dom, sub or anything else they wanna call themselves. People are people and the same traits hold true no matter what side you put yourself on.


What she said.

Some of the other characteristics that have been posted would make someone "undesirable" to me as a sub, but not necessarily an asshole.



That would be another way to look at traits. Yes I too find  Littlewonder's post to be excellent.

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RE: What would you call an ass hole s-type - 1/25/2009 11:05:28 AM   
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Status: offline 		I'd call them an asshole?  Orientation is irrelevant.

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RE: What would you call an ass hole s-type - 1/25/2009 11:07:00 AM   
oceanwynds


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Status: offline 		Well, I still have problems understanding the labels, though am having a better understanding. You helped me on that with another post.

Thank you for the response and more food to think about.

oceanwynds

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RE: What would you call an ass hole s-type - 1/25/2009 11:59:07 AM   
BRNaughtyAngel


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Status: offline 		An asshole is an asshole, no matter what label they carry.

But if you need an example, that thread down in the Ask a sub/slave about humiliating one's dominant until they cry might present you with what I would consider a good example.


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RE: What would you call an ass hole s-type - 1/25/2009 12:12:14 PM   
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RE: What would you call an ass hole s-type - 1/25/2009 12:18:46 PM   
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ORIGINAL: littlewonder

the same traits that make anyone an asshole...

being narcissistic, bitchy, loud, obnoxious, gossipy, rude, petty, mean, angry, shows no class or manners..just to name a few.

It doesn't matter if they're dom, sub or anything else they wanna call themselves. People are people and the same traits hold true no matter what side you put yourself on.



This is what I was trying to find the words for.

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