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cloudboy -> RE: Kinda upset. (1/17/2006 10:45:00 AM)
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ORIGINAL: KCMOLucky
I know, it's the same old sob story of a jilted Domme. But damnit, I was just so excited about this ONE. I was SO into him, and anticipated talking to him, and he just leaves like it doesn't make a difference in the world.
Don't they people know that us Domme's turn down people every day? And some of them might be serious. We've said "No, thanks, I'm dedicating my time to so and so" instead of pursuing someone else that might pan out, and they completely disregard every email, every conversation, and every shred of concern and care that we have for them. When will they learn that we're people, too? That being abandoned hurts us, too?
I am sorry for your bad experience. I know these are cliches, but I always try to maintain a sense of humour about things -- cause you never know what other people are going to do, especially when you have not met them face to face. A few laughs mixed with tears is a divine self indulgence no one can ever take away from you. Its also fun to talk to yourself about it. This is important, because you're about the only witness around who can appreciate the situation. After you've finished discussing it, let him have it, right there into the air and space in front of you ---- remember ---- the rehearsal diatribe where you always get the last word --- is often better than an actual audience diatribe. MB venting is good. Running yourself down is bad. Being disappointed is good, getting disillusioned is bad. You get the idea.
Be careful, b/c in 52 years, if for whatever reason you go sour, you might turn mean and curmudgenly like Veronica, where your solace and pride reside in no-strings-housework. And you know what V. likes to say, "promises, promises."
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