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RE: Mistress monitoring your diet/fitness - 1/29/2009 2:40:55 PM

feydeplume

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PINCH!!!!!!

I think it is great if you want to change unhealthy habits and you can make living a healthier life part of your D/S. I really am having trouble seeing where BDSM comes into it, other than using bondage on the fridge....

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RE: Mistress monitoring your diet/fitness - 1/29/2009 3:23:26 PM

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When people really LOVE each other, why wouldn't they encourage mutual healthy living? Having a D that cared that much would be the ultimate!

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RE: Mistress monitoring your diet/fitness - 1/29/2009 6:30:53 PM

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Sure, there are some folks who have health issues, medications, etc. But most of us, especially Americans, me included, gain because food is abundant, cheap, and delicious.

Here's the problem with your statement:

If you have insulin resistance, normal calorie counting diets won't work.

It's estimated that 1 in 4 people have insulin resistance.

There a number of ways that you can become insulin resistant. One way is to have a hereditary syndrome like I do. Another way, is by over consuming refined carbs over a sustained period of time.

So, someone who "gains because food is abundant, cheap, and delicious" is very likely over consuming refined carbs, which means that they may have permanently damaged their systems.

So, until you've had the blood tests for the possible reasons for weight gain, you really don't know if you're normal.

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RE: Mistress monitoring your diet/fitness - 1/29/2009 6:38:07 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: feydeplume

(sorry can't help myself)

PINCH!!!!!!

I think it is great if you want to change unhealthy habits and you can make living a healthier life part of your D/S. I really am having trouble seeing where BDSM comes into it, other than using bondage on the fridge....

I'm thinking the D part. The Discipline part. Self Discipline of course and then guidance and directional discipline from the D type. The Sado and Maso could come in with mental sadism (ie he's eating chocolate cake while you suck on an orange) and the maso side could be physical.. if you are a masochist your reward could be a good long flogging, caning, or whatever your pleasure was. Bondage could also come into play.. Perhaps you are tied to the chair and can only eat what you are being fed and that is the only time you get to eat.

Just my own random thoughts..i do love the idea of positive posters on the wall of the new business, cold calling "want to loose weight?! here's a new plan Let us whip those pounds off!" we should get a celebrity to endorse it... i bet paris hilton would look hot in a ball gag..

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RE: Mistress monitoring your diet/fitness - 1/30/2009 2:45:34 AM

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My previous Mistress took control of my diet from the outset. In particular, She wanted to ensure that i ate more green vegetables. For 6-8 weeks, i had to send Her weekly reports of everything i had eaten or drank. After that, She trusted me to keep it up without the reports and i have ever since - that was about 3 years ago now.

The only difficulty was with the amount of water i had to drink. i confess that i was never able to stick to that. Overall, i believe She left me much healthier and for a while i stopped getting so many colds (though the bad weather in the UK over the last year or so has changed all that).

My current Owner has focussed more on my alcohol intake, which is now drastically reduced. My previous Mistress did not control my drinking so much as She was a drinker Herself and my drunken exploits amused Her.

i had no problem with either Mistress exercising such control as i could see it was in my best interests. i was not sure about the water, but We/we discussed this and She allowed me some flexibility.

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RE: Mistress monitoring your diet/fitness - 1/30/2009 5:19:17 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: sparkyRBF

Just my own random thoughts..i do love the idea of positive posters on the wall of the new business, cold calling "want to loose weight?! here's a new plan Let us whip those pounds off!" we should get a celebrity to endorse it... i bet paris hilton would look hot in a ball gag..

That might make her almost bearable, sad that there is NO chance of using her own panties as a gag...

Anyhoo. Good point about the D and working BDSM into so many workable diet control games. I was thinking more about the food prep itself, portion control, grazing behavior, comfort eating, nutritional education, the careful build-up of strength and cardio work outs, and all the really serious dull parts of monitoring someone elses food and exercise. *sigh*

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RE: Mistress monitoring your diet/fitness - 1/30/2009 6:32:40 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: feydeplume

quote:

ORIGINAL: sparkyRBF

Just my own random thoughts..i do love the idea of positive posters on the wall of the new business, cold calling "want to loose weight?! here's a new plan Let us whip those pounds off!" we should get a celebrity to endorse it... i bet paris hilton would look hot in a ball gag..

That might make her almost bearable, sad that there is NO chance of using her own panties as a gag...

Anyhoo. Good point about the D and working BDSM into so many workable diet control games. I was thinking more about the food prep itself, portion control, grazing behavior, comfort eating, nutritional education, the careful build-up of strength and cardio work outs, and all the really serious dull parts of monitoring someone elses food and exercise. *sigh*

(thought of paris n panties but i don't think they make em in 'no-ass' size)

A good point. But adding the BDSM into the dull parts of monitoring someone elses food and exercise could only make it not dull. i would think. Like in the other post about how much is vanilla vs D/s. just having the intent behind it.. knowing you are following the D's will would make it more interesting.. for me at least.

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RE: Mistress monitoring your diet/fitness - 1/30/2009 11:00:54 AM

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I'm not sure about the *demanding* bit, as that hasn't really occured........but I've enlisted M's help to get to fitness goals. I'm very careful to ensure that it's REALLY what I want as he's far more meticulous and consistant than I am. There is never any reward for getting where *I* wanted to be, apart from the biggest reward, which is getting where I wanted to be...lol.....but there sure have been penalties for not sticking to agreed plans.

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RE: Mistress monitoring your diet/fitness - 1/30/2009 11:26:05 AM

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Excuse me, but wouldn't the masochists just gorge themselves to NOT lose weight and thereby earn a free beating?

The idea of a kinky telemarketing center is devine though. Think of the possibilities!

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RE: Mistress monitoring your diet/fitness - 1/30/2009 11:29:51 AM

feydeplume

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Perhaps a masochist would if they were PURE (hehheee) masochist. However a submissive probably wouldn't unless it was a sort of cry for help. There is a biiiiiiiig difference between masochism and submission, though they are not mutually exclusive.

*trys really hard NOT to think about kinky Ponsi (is that the right word?) schemes, really really hard. Must...Not...Plan....World domination (or submission!)... With....Kinky....telemarketers?* Ok there is something really wrong with the idea, isn't there. oh well

< Message edited by feydeplume -- 1/30/2009 11:32:03 AM >

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RE: Mistress monitoring your diet/fitness - 1/30/2009 11:58:38 AM

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Excuse me, but wouldn't the masochists just gorge themselves to NOT lose weight and thereby earn a free beating?

Then the masochist would be beat as a reward and not, as a punishment. You've got to reverse your thinking.

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RE: Mistress monitoring your diet/fitness - 1/30/2009 12:53:19 PM

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I was posting the question as a submissve, not a masochist. But even still, the reward for the masochist would be getting the kind of corporal stimulation he/she enjoyed. (If you want to be caned on Saturday night, get down to one-thirty.)

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RE: Mistress monitoring your diet/fitness - 1/30/2009 4:00:13 PM

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I dont need to lose weight, but I am expected to exercise. It is not anything that I have to report, when he visits he can tell by making me run the flights of steps to my condo. If I am out of breath, he will tell me to exercise more.

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RE: Mistress monitoring your diet/fitness - 1/30/2009 9:27:55 PM

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It could be a double-edged sword for me, since I've long struggled with weight issues and an eating disorder. On one hand, if she were a good Mistress, I think she would be able to help me maintain a healthy, balanced diet. On the other hand, I could easily see myself slipping back into patterns of anorexia and/or bullimia in an effort to please her if the focus was on weight/shape as opposed to health/fitness.

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RE: Mistress monitoring your diet/fitness - 1/30/2009 11:40:29 PM

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My girlfriend, (Who I guess in a way is my mistress) we monitor eachothers diets and fitness, because, we both like the same food, so if I find out shes dieting I tell her NO! because if she diets I have to

But, I just want her to enjoy the foods she loves.

She packs it away but my God she is so slender and has such a hot body, I don't know how she does it, She doesn't mind that Im a fat slob either

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RE: Mistress monitoring your diet/fitness - 1/31/2009 9:05:09 PM

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my Ma'am does not demand me to maintain a certain weight but on the other hand She encourages me to be good to my body and to excercise, i love that She celebrates my accomplishments and is very positive with Her thoughts.
it makes me want to work so much harder to make Her smile

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RE: Mistress monitoring your diet/fitness - 2/1/2009 6:37:59 AM

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ORIGINAL: Sfortzando

It could be a double-edged sword for me, since I've long struggled with weight issues and an eating disorder. On one hand, if she were a good Mistress, I think she would be able to help me maintain a healthy, balanced diet. On the other hand, I could easily see myself slipping back into patterns of anorexia and/or bullimia in an effort to please her if the focus was on weight/shape as opposed to health/fitness.

This is why I am focused on health and not being any specific magic number. Both for myself and anyone I should be responsible for. In your case, I am aware that many that suffer eating disorders also do not see their own beauty and value. Something else that should be stressed by the dominant. I would also be careful with humiliation or any comments that could be perceived by you as being negative or critical about the body or appearance.

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RE: Mistress monitoring your diet/fitness - 2/1/2009 6:39:59 AM

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ORIGINAL: HardToTame

She packs it away but my God she is so slender and has such a hot body, I don't know how she does it,............

God help her when she hits the "magic" age.........

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RE: Mistress monitoring your diet/fitness - 2/1/2009 6:52:37 AM

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It can take years to reset body image in a person's mind. I hope you bring this issue up early with any D so that they have a chance to get educated about the process and that you are comfortable including them in your medical issues.

That said.... Hugs and WoooHoooooo for you! Lookin' for love rather than lookin' in the mirror!

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RE: Mistress monitoring your diet/fitness - 2/1/2009 7:51:42 AM

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I had anorexia as a child so my Daddy's know not to monitor what I eat or force me on any diets.

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