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RE: Mistress monitoring your diet/fitness - 2/1/2009 9:39:36 AM

JustStephen

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I personally believe that diets don't work for the simple reason that you can't really be on a diet forever and what happens when you stop?
I do however, believe in re-training ones eating plan because this is something that can be stuck to forever and it tends to get people to an ideal weight without losing too much.
Maria and me are both fairly slim so we don't worry about this but recently I have worried about her physical fitness. She used to work for a living with horses and that involved riding up to 5 hours a day. Now she just sit on her arse in an office and her walk to work is only 10 minutes. I gave her a choice and told her that I wanted her to start working out and to try and do it off her own back but if she couldn't motivate herself then I would take over things and make her do it.

Yes I am her personal trainer now!!

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RE: Mistress monitoring your diet/fitness - 2/1/2009 10:37:53 AM

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I think it would be helpful for me personally; the biggest potential for "issues" would be failure triggering a depressive episode.
It would be too much work for my partner, though.

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RE: Mistress monitoring your diet/fitness - 2/1/2009 8:24:39 PM

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This is getting a wee bit OT, but...

Numbers are the Devil. I can think of nothing more hellish than weighing yourself three times per day, and being devistated if you gain a tenth of a pound.

"I would also be careful with humiliation or any comments that could be perceived by you as being negative or critical about the body or appearance."

I hope I someday find a Domme like you! :)

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RE: Mistress monitoring your diet/fitness - 2/2/2009 3:16:38 AM

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I hope I someday find a Domme like you! :)

Taaaa Daaaaaaaaa!!!!

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RE: Mistress monitoring your diet/fitness - 2/2/2009 3:39:05 AM

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I think it completely depends how it is done to be honest. If its insults and wearing me down it would not be good for me at all. But I do think it could be really motivating. It just depends. It has to be done in the right way. I think possibly the best is to encorage healthy eating by both partners eating the same way. I really wouldnt want it to be a big dramatic thing though because of my own issues with food and weight.

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RE: Mistress monitoring your diet/fitness - 2/2/2009 4:20:13 AM

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I think it completely depends how it is done to be honest. If its insults and wearing me down it would not be good for me at all. But I do think it could be really motivating. It just depends. It has to be done in the right way. I think possibly the best is to encorage healthy eating by both partners eating the same way. I really wouldnt want it to be a big dramatic thing though because of my own issues with food and weight.

i totally agree. i have and continue to have issues with food (i battle with bullemia) and Sir would never make any issues about weight for that reason. He and i are both making an effort to eat more healthily and He has me on a continuous order for me to do half an hour excercise each day. He will not punish me for missing a day due to outside influences that need my attention, but it is noted when i tell Him that i have had to forgo my task for any reason. i am grateful for my task as it means that i am not only pleasing Him, but getting myself fit too.

This is a delicate area for lots of folk and it all depends on the way it is spoken about and dealt with. If done in a compassionate, non judgmental way, it can i am sure be healthy for Aall concerned! Afterall, fit and healthy subs mean more fun for Masters and Mistresses lol!

gabrielle x

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