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subinchico -> Scarring/marking subs face, what’s the allure?? (1/30/2009 4:31:12 PM)

Some goddesses tell me why; others say they would never and eventually do anyway, why?




Lockit -> RE: Scarring/marking subs face, what’s the allure?? (1/30/2009 4:39:21 PM)

Maybe they are mad?  People will sometimes do that.  I don't know about a goddess though.  Anyone who agree's or tell's you they wont and does in my opinion was really mad or was breaking their word to you.  Either way doesn't make it right in my opinion... but some have made me mad enough to want to.  That is when I walk away... for good.  But not knowing exactly what you are talking about... it is hard to say.

Keep in mind... we are not all alike and because one might, doesn't mean all will.




Lashra -> RE: Scarring/marking subs face, what’s the allure?? (1/30/2009 7:38:53 PM)

I've never heard of anyone doing this to their sub. I know that I would never do it. The only thing I do to his face is sit on it or slap it, kiss it...nice stuff ya know.

~Lashra




chiaThePet -> RE: Scarring/marking subs face, what’s the allure?? (1/30/2009 7:42:14 PM)


Not sure, but what does this 666 on my forehead mean again?

chia* (the pet)




dreamerdreaming -> RE: Scarring/marking subs face, what’s the allure?? (1/30/2009 8:00:13 PM)

What kind of scars, and what kind of marks please?

Are we talking brands, tatoos, cutting, burns... Or just some really hard face slapping?




MsDDom -> RE: Scarring/marking subs face, what’s the allure?? (1/30/2009 8:04:08 PM)

i don't see the need in scarring/marking the face
a marking (tattoo) is suitable for the body (of my slave/sub)...  for me that is appropriate.




subinchico -> RE: Scarring/marking subs face, what’s the allure?? (1/30/2009 8:52:20 PM)

Thank you all and in response the scars are made with very sharp shoes (stilettos) or sharps put in bottom of shoes.

I never wanted them but like when it happens and the act binds me more to the mistress.

It's weird, I know




dreamerdreaming -> RE: Scarring/marking subs face, what’s the allure?? (1/30/2009 8:58:03 PM)

If you are the one bringing it up, then it seems to me they're thinking you want it.




subinchico -> RE: Scarring/marking subs face, what’s the allure?? (1/30/2009 9:37:23 PM)

I don't bring it up but I agree they may use that as a rational/their question answered in their mind.  OK, once I was talking to my present goddess about another goddess and told her how she wanted to cut my face.  Her response was "I will never do that"!  She still did.




dreamerdreaming -> RE: Scarring/marking subs face, what’s the allure?? (1/30/2009 9:52:23 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: subinchico

...OK, once I was talking to my present goddess about another goddess and told her how she wanted to cut my face.  Her response was "I will never do that"!  She still did.



Then you did bring it up!  Duh.

Sorry so snarky but geez... You really didn't see that you broached the subject? C'mon...

Also it is worth noting that the whole stilettos/face thing is a dangerous fetish. It seems rather obvious to me that the more often its done, the sooner you may be "marked" by accident.





subinchico -> RE: Scarring/marking subs face, what’s the allure?? (1/31/2009 3:24:30 AM)

Lol, (really laughing)good one!  I knew I brought it up (1/2 reasons why it's mentioned replying to you: 1. in agrement; 2. fishing for thoughts on why she did it anyway after strongly saying "I would never cut your face"!)
Thank you though and snarkyness, no worries.
cheers

quote:

ORIGINAL: dreamerdreaming

quote:

ORIGINAL: subinchico

...OK, once I was talking to my present goddess about another goddess and told her how she wanted to cut my face.  Her response was "I will never do that"!  She still did.



Then you did bring it up!  Duh.

Sorry so snarky but geez... You really didn't see that you broached the subject? C'mon...

Also it is worth noting that the whole stilettos/face thing is a dangerous fetish. It seems rather obvious to me that the more often its done, the sooner you may be "marked" by accident.






T1981 -> RE: Scarring/marking subs face, what’s the allure?? (1/31/2009 3:52:20 AM)

I'm a huge fan of bruises, just never on my face. I have work and family and non-kinky friends to answer to, and you can only use the "I ran into a door" excuse so many times before they hand you the phone number to a local domestic violence hotline.




thetammyjo -> RE: Scarring/marking subs face, what’s the allure?? (1/31/2009 6:49:25 AM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: subinchico

I don't bring it up but I agree they may use that as a rational/their question answered in their mind.  OK, once I was talking to my present goddess about another goddess and told her how she wanted to cut my face.  Her response was "I will never do that"!  She still did.


Sounds like you haven't had much luck in finding trustworthy partners... you may want to look at what attracts you to this individuals and see if you can start to determine what signs they might be sending out that they can't respect your person and your limits.




dreamerdreaming -> RE: Scarring/marking subs face, what’s the allure?? (1/31/2009 9:21:26 AM)

Did you ask them why?

All of us here can only guess, with the very limited information we have.

Only you, and those Dommes, know the particulars of the circumstances. If you are really that clueless about the reasons why something happens, that you don't really want to happen, I think it is very important to ask the only other individuals involved.

If you want to prevent recurrence...

Dammit there I went sounding snarky again. I like you, that's why I'm telling you straight, dear boy. Ask them for clarification.




Lynnxz -> RE: Scarring/marking subs face, what’s the allure?? (1/31/2009 9:25:28 AM)

You brought it up to her, you deal with it. Obviously neither of you are too bothered by it, so stop digging for pity. 




ladylucky32 -> RE: Scarring/marking subs face, what’s the allure?? (1/31/2009 10:34:55 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: subinchico

I don't bring it up but I agree they may use that as a rational/their question answered in their mind.  OK, once I was talking to my present goddess about another goddess and told her how she wanted to cut my face.  Her response was "I will never do that"!  She still did.


It sounds like you need to get to know the women better before you play.




BondageBarbieX -> RE: Scarring/marking subs face, what’s the allure?? (1/31/2009 2:31:28 PM)

This is not something I would allow.Permanent marks or any disfigurement are had limits for me.If it makes you happy though..rock on!




DominantDamsel -> RE: Scarring/marking subs face, what’s the allure?? (1/31/2009 4:51:43 PM)

-fr-

Marking my future love's face isn't going to be on my agenda.  [:-]




MsEmpwr2 -> RE: Scarring/marking subs face, what’s the allure?? (1/31/2009 7:35:45 PM)

I won't say never, but I don't anticipate this being something I will do. I have not consider this as an acceptable scenario in past and current relationships.




YoursMistress -> RE: Scarring/marking subs face, what’s the allure?? (1/31/2009 7:39:35 PM)

In the end isn't the real question whether the scars are an improvement on the original face?

yours




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