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RE: Straight up question - 2/2/2009 6:06:51 PM

LadyMedusa

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WOW,I NEVER HAD A RESPONSE THAT TOOK ME SO LONG TO FIGURE OUT HOW TO ANSWER.

Basically this woman has an addiction to the bottle that a Domme can NOT and should NOT be the one to try to solve. (I think I will answer this as a Domme who may have been there) ... I see this woman having problems and I know a huge part of me wants to step in and say something, but the other part feels for the b-day girl and her family. I am not sure they would want me to step in and handle their issues.They have spent years enabling this woman to keep doing what she does. It is time for an intervention, to not be the one who has to prop Mom up at a party, she should have been taken home by another sibling, and left there to wallow in her own misery. it is time for all these children to stage an intervention... don't y'all think?

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RE: Straight up question - 2/3/2009 5:43:43 AM

FloridaMistresse

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Honestly I am appauled that she brought her daughter, it tells Me they have an extremely unhealthy relationship. The Co dependence is over powering the daughters ability to experience life.

I assume it was not a play party? Alcohol and play are not good mixers. Now I am not a prude, I just think that there should not be booze at a play party (or drugs)

I also think the party organizers should not allow the women back. she is a hot mess and needs to clean up her act. I can tell you I have had an experience were we had a bottom that was a drunk, we did not know it at the time. W/we had a girls w/e, and there was booze. It was a vacation type w/e, with a little play but nothing edgy, mostly just girls being girls, this one girl was clearly an alcoholic, and we told her after we saw her in action,that she was not allowed back in this venue, unless she cleaned up. It puts the people hosting the party in a very dubious circumstance, not to mention it disrupts the enjoyment of the attendess.

you of course did the right thing, but I think the organizers or the group etc, need to put parameters on peoples behavior at a Ds party, much like a dungeon monitor.

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