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RE: Are you looking for a scene, someone to play or use... - 2/3/2009 10:06:45 AM   
IrishMist


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i am here to annoy IrishMist as much as she does me 

Aww shucks...I sure do feel special

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RE: Are you looking for a scene, someone to play or use... - 2/3/2009 12:31:00 PM   
Naberius


Posts: 98
Joined: 1/7/2009
From: Dalton, GA
Status: offline 		I'm here to meet new folks, and possibly find a new girl. I've been in the life now for 28 years, and it's been 10 years since I lost my 3 slaves to an accident that devastated me and destroyed the family (poly). The grieving is over and I must move on and am doing so. 

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RE: Are you looking for a scene, someone to play or use... - 2/3/2009 1:18:28 PM   
MidMichCowboy


Posts: 665
Joined: 3/23/2007
Status: offline 		Wow, I'd like to thank everyone for the honest answers that they have given.
I know I get questions on distance.
I have a ummms, 23 who is autistic (severe) and deaf. But, miracle of miracles, he is doing great. He just got a paying job and he is attending school. He is also the kindest person than any of you will ever meet. Every lady I have been involved in, loved him, probably more than me.
I also had twin girls age 8 and a boy age 9. They all go to advance placement school. They are very precocious and loving. They would welcome a new mom, with open arms. But, I see my kids 3 or more times a week. I'm a very active father. I also give riding lessons and train horses. I'm involved in community and work at the hospital. So, distance ... almost impossible. I wish it wasn't. There are a lot of lovely ladies out there. I have made some wonderful friends of all nationalities, sexual preference, gender and role. I do cherish my friends.
As for my preference for a woman who I can throw over my saddle or my shoulder, I can't help that. It's part of being a barbarian. I don't think I've ever really explained that part well. But, it is a very large part of who I am. I'm the guy who walks across crosswalks causing cars to slam on their brakes. I intimidate people, except ummms. They seem to see inside of me. I'm loud at times and I've been called brash. But those are parts of me.

I do thank everyone for the answers and hope to get more.

By the way ... the description of what I'm looking for .. is probably less than 5 percent of the stuff I've written on the profile and journal. When I say diarrhea of the pen, I'm not kidding.

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RE: Are you looking for a scene, someone to play or use... - 2/3/2009 1:34:09 PM   
KnightofMists


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ORIGINAL: MidMichCowboy

. So tell me please, what do you want and why?


Many things but nothing specific except what it can bring to my life and I look for these many things because it will enhance my life in some way.

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RE: Are you looking for a scene, someone to play or use... - 2/3/2009 2:35:54 PM   
MissMorrigan


Posts: 2309
Joined: 1/15/2005
Status: offline 		Given my fondness for food I'm not the kind of gal you can throw over your saddle or shoulder. Your requirements are simply that, yours, and you should never need to make any kind of apology or explain them. We all have our requirements, I am fully aware that some people are going to find the broadness of my backside unattractive and I'm fine with that. I have a penchant for a man with an athletic physique and who is no shorter than a six footer, any kind of flabbiness on a man turns me cold. Those are my requirements and believe me when I say I've had more than the occasional person call me a 'hypocrite' as a result. We are what we are. The day I allow others' opinions and perspectives to dictate what I enjoy I'll book myself in for aversion therapy, and they can pay my bills while I'm enjoying the rest.

You seem a sweetheart, I hope you find your Tina Thumb.
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ORIGINAL: MidMichCowboy
As for my preference for a woman who I can throw over my saddle or my shoulder, I can't help that. It's part of being a barbarian. I don't think I've ever really explained that part well. 


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RE: Are you looking for a scene, someone to play or use... - 2/3/2009 2:58:06 PM   
kristileigh


Posts: 1078
Joined: 3/23/2008
Status: offline 		i was looking for a Dom last year when i signed up. i am no longer looking as i now have a Master.
i am here for the boards  and i have made friends here. So.......with Masters blessing i am still here.

slave kristi


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RE: Are you looking for a scene, someone to play or use... - 2/3/2009 3:19:05 PM   
Evility


Posts: 915
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Status: offline 		Just here for the forums.

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RE: Are you looking for a scene, someone to play or use... - 2/3/2009 3:32:53 PM   
MasterMoon1978


Posts: 5
Joined: 1/26/2009
Status: offline 		I am here to find that someone that I can connect with. That someone who will care enough to do exactly as they are told. If I make a few friends along the way all the better. 

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RE: Are you looking for a scene, someone to play or use... - 2/3/2009 5:10:24 PM   
ThundersCry


Posts: 892
Status: offline 		Well...finding someone to use ain`t a bad idea...
 
I am just looking for a slutty slut...with NO hangups about being one!
 
Now the cherish part? ahhh...thats kinda pushin` the envelope...

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RE: Are you looking for a scene, someone to play or use... - 2/3/2009 11:31:59 PM   
MissMorrigan


Posts: 2309
Joined: 1/15/2005
Status: offline 		just wanted to add to the above... while we all have our preferences/requirements in a potential mate, those requirements are often demoted to preferences and occasionally, like a bolt from the blue, those preferences are forgotten and we're taken by complete surprise.

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RE: Are you looking for a scene, someone to play or use... - 2/4/2009 10:58:17 AM   
BalletBob


Posts: 1645
Joined: 7/14/2005
Status: offline 		I am here mostly to find friends, and read the forums. If by chance I find someone local, (Which is next to impossibe in the "State of Confussion...NJ), then that would be great. I would like to have some Play Sessions with them, as long as SHE got as much fun out of it as I did. Like I had years before. Untill then, I post, read and have some fun. Maybe too, I can find some new ideas to try along the way.

Always learning, sub BalletBob



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RE: Are you looking for a scene, someone to play or use... - 2/4/2009 3:05:34 PM   
daddysliloneds


Posts: 1351
Joined: 6/28/2006
Status: offline 		i'm just here to read and write in the forums; it's a good way to waste a little time while i'm procrastinating the paperwork pile.

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RE: Are you looking for a scene, someone to play or use... - 2/4/2009 4:16:04 PM   
MsDDom


Posts: 368
Joined: 1/1/2009
From: GA
Status: offline 		to meet people on a general networking level... i wanted to meet other people in the lifestyle so i ventured online first before delving into the community (where i live). it is easier and quicker to chat online about topics.

if i meet someone and we connect relationship wise (i dont scene, play, or fantasize--it is a way of life), then it will happen...i am open to it.  it is not my primary reason for being on CM...more secondary.


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RE: Are you looking for a scene, someone to play or use... - 2/4/2009 5:48:40 PM   
sblady


Posts: 433
Joined: 9/28/2007
Status: offline 		I joined Collarme to learn more about D/s, M/s, TPE, etc., after the Dom I'd been chatting with for over a month disappeared.  Although I was only seeking "platonic" friends, during my learning stage I met a few Doms IRL.  I'm currently in a relationship with a Dom I met within my first couple of weeks on CM. 

I keep my account active for the sole purpose of keeping in touch with friends.  Oh, I'm also addicted to the forums. 

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RE: Are you looking for a scene, someone to play or use... - 2/4/2009 8:02:34 PM   
natasha66


Posts: 321
Joined: 10/14/2006
From: NJ
Status: offline 		None of the above....i have what i want and need.  Just here for the forums and to keep in touch with friends.

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RE: Are you looking for a scene, someone to play or use... - 2/4/2009 9:22:01 PM   
MsMillgrove


Posts: 260
Joined: 5/27/2008
Status: offline 		I thought I knew what I wanted,
what I was looking for.
I couldn't find it here.
Instead, I found what I needed. 
I discovered it's ok to settle for less
because sometimes less is more.

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RE: Are you looking for a scene, someone to play or use... - 2/4/2009 10:29:58 PM   
Voodali


Posts: 255
Joined: 10/2/2007
Status: offline 		I am looking for my slave and soulmate, a tall order it would appear.  I want a trustworthy, fun, compatible partner for life who just happens to love being obedient and objectified.   So far, there has always been some major hitch, some unnegotiable deal-breaker.  Mostly its just that the awesome people are the ones I'm not attracted to, or who are not attracted to me. Either that or they live the remotest part of the country that is on the exact opposite side of the globe to wherever I'm living :p.  I guess that's how it goes for most of us.  I will never give up hope, though, because I'm ornery that way.
However until I find what I TRULY want, I am not adverse to playing with certain people, because if I never find it, at least I will have spent potentially lonely hours having fun.

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RE: Are you looking for a scene, someone to play or use... - 2/5/2009 12:09:17 AM   
Nikitaa


Posts: 416
Joined: 1/26/2009
Status: offline 		I am here for writing on forums and I am here to kink date. I want to find fun men for short term kinky fun. I am in University and instead of regular college dating I want kink dating.

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I do not seek serious relationship, normal or kinky, until after college. If I find serious relationship is okay but I not seek one. I want to have fun while my boobs still point up.

< Message edited by Nikitaa -- 2/5/2009 12:10:45 AM >

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RE: Are you looking for a scene, someone to play or use... - 2/5/2009 3:38:02 AM   
MissMorrigan


Posts: 2309
Joined: 1/15/2005
Status: offline 		And ya can still have tremendous fun when they don't... I can attest to that. Besides, they keep my knees warm in the cold when I enjoy watching my boy shiver (not from revulsion, I hasten to add) and even better for breath play
quote:

ORIGINAL: Nikitaa
I do not seek serious relationship, normal or kinky, until after college. If I find serious relationship is okay but I not seek one. I want to have fun while my boobs still point up.


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RE: Are you looking for a scene, someone to play or use... - 2/5/2009 11:41:33 AM   
Nikitaa


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ORIGINAL: MissMorrigan

And ya can still have tremendous fun when they don't... I can attest to that. Besides, they keep my knees warm in the cold when I enjoy watching my boy shiver (not from revulsion, I hasten to add) and even better for breath play
quote:

ORIGINAL: Nikitaa
I do not seek serious relationship, normal or kinky, until after college. If I find serious relationship is okay but I not seek one. I want to have fun while my boobs still point up.




LOL
That was funny.

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