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RE: Are you looking for a scene, someone to play or use... - 2/6/2009 10:51:12 AM   
alianora


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Status: offline 		My main reason for being here is the forums; I enjoy conversing with others. However, I am also looking for a LTR; this is a secondary reason for being here though.

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RE: Are you looking for a scene, someone to play or use... - 2/6/2009 7:32:20 PM   
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ORIGINAL: MidMichCowboy

Why are you on CollarMe? Are you looking for people for scenes or play sessions? Are you looking for someone for sex with some kink? Do you want someone that will take care of you? Someone to make money from? Someone to support you or serve you? Or are you looking for someone to share your life with? I'm asking because as I perve profiles, I see people who seem to want a toy or object to use. I see others who seem to want to disappear from the world into a fantasy world. Some seem to want more and some don't seem to have any idea of what they want. So tell me please, what do you want and why?


Considering that I haven't been "on" much lately, it's a good question.

I'll tell you what I tell people in person.  I'm always looking for play partners.  Just because I have a sub does not mean that I don't play with others, so that is always a possibility.

As to the other stuff, no, I'm not looking for kinky sex.  No, I'm not looking for anyone to pay for play or support Me in any other way financially.  Service is nice and I certainly don't argue with those who offer it.  I already have people who I share My life with, but I'm also poly so adding to the family isn't out of the question if there's a good match.

Otherwise, I'm here for the forums.  I enjoy the conversations here.  After being around the site for a couple of years, I've gotten to cyber know many of the regular posters and there are some good folks.  I appreciate the personalities that come through in the writing.  Not to mention, it's a great place to kick around ideas when one can't sleep. 


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RE: Are you looking for a scene, someone to play or use... - 2/6/2009 8:27:39 PM   
malloves69


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Status: offline 		mal loves the forums  ecspecially if they deal in strapon play and being fisted  am i looking for another mistress ? ..gawd i love our times together just wish it was more then once or twice a week  when im with my lady my mistress ....it is the best times of my week for me now since my kids are away in college   would love a more fulltime thing but sometimes it gets hard ...ecspecially on the weekends ...she makes me smile  i sure hope she never grows tired of me it sure is hard finding another mistress to play with  she knows my ass and prostate well and she has trained me well to ..have fun mal

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RE: Are you looking for a scene, someone to play or use... - 2/7/2009 4:52:35 PM   
MyWorldCT


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quote:

ORIGINAL: MidMichCowboy

Why are you on CollarMe? Are you looking for people for scenes or play sessions? Are you looking for someone for sex with some kink? Do you want someone that will take care of you? Someone to make money from? Someone to support you or serve you? Or are you looking for someone to share your life with? I'm asking because as I perve profiles, I see people who seem to want a toy or object to use. I see others who seem to want to disappear from the world into a fantasy world. Some seem to want more and some don't seem to have any idea of what they want. So tell me please, what do you want and why?


Yes to all the questions above, except the money part.

When I moved back to Connecticut after being in California for almost 15 years, I bought a house, moved in started to paint, then my brother and his 2 children moved in.  I then found-out that Connecticut's Scene was nothing like in LA.  I used to go to clubs in LA or even San Francisco (kink and BDSM clubs) with groups of 12 to 20 friends, there was always a party going on somewhere, and it was great.

But I moved back to CT and my "old friends" were now "old", married, not so much into going to clubs and could barely get any from their wives once every three months.  It was all very depressing, but I started asking around and found CM, Fetlife, the Society, and WMPE.  I still have lots ot explore in all of those, but I am giving it a college try (whatever that means).

When my brother moved out 2-3 weeks ago, I deleted my old profile (SirJM) which was more about looking for a kinky and fun distraction, and created a new profile, which was what I ultimately wanted.

Ideally, I would like to find someone who will gladly walk down the same path as me.  She would be valued, well pleasured, respected, and happy... and I would feel the same, in a Dom kind of way  

I can't tell you how much I hate forums, but this one has been given an exemption.  I feel that the people who contribute on here are very well spoken, intuitive, care deeply about this lifestyle and those in it, and have a solid sense of realism.  It is a nice contrast from some of the people's profiles on the other half of this site.


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RE: Are you looking for a scene, someone to play or use... - 2/7/2009 7:05:28 PM   
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RE: Are you looking for a scene, someone to play or use... - 2/8/2009 12:09:34 AM   
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RE: Are you looking for a scene, someone to play or use... - 2/8/2009 7:03:46 AM   
QueenIsis


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Status: offline 		I'm here in search of a submissive life partner, with whom I would share many vanilla activites, as well as BDSM, but always with the underlying power exchange in place.

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RE: Are you looking for a scene, someone to play or use... - 2/8/2009 7:05:14 AM   
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RE: Are you looking for a scene, someone to play or use... - 2/8/2009 7:20:44 AM   
subangi


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Status: offline 		I would love to find a Master who's goal is to mold me into the slave of his dreams.  Being slave/submissive is a part of my personality and soul,  and it is proven in every aspect of my life even since childhood.  To find someone who can truly teach, guide, and refine that part of me  is all I wish for.   This may sound corny, but I would love to be the missing piece that completes  his puzzle of happiness.

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RE: Are you looking for a scene, someone to play or use... - 2/8/2009 12:30:47 PM   
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RE: Are you looking for a scene, someone to play or use... - 2/8/2009 12:53:51 PM   
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RE: Are you looking for a scene, someone to play or use... - 2/8/2009 1:44:17 PM   
MyWorldCT


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ORIGINAL: feydeplume

Didja' check under the couch? I think i saw the cat playing with something earlier. 


Nope.. those weren't keys... that was my heart... stolen by a frisky puss.... 

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RE: Are you looking for a scene, someone to play or use... - 2/8/2009 7:43:27 PM   
pinnipedster


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Status: offline 		Ultimately I'd like to find someone to share my life with.  But I know that could be a long search.  In the meantime, play partners would be welcome, as would friends.  And new ideas and sharing of resources are worth exploring, too.

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RE: Are you looking for a scene, someone to play or use... - 2/10/2009 9:18:56 PM   
Sir Daddy


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Status: offline 		I'm here to share insights and meet people that won't freak out about my life choices.  The vanilla crowd can be so judgmental.

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RE: Are you looking for a scene, someone to play or use... - 2/11/2009 3:22:19 PM   
Prinsexx


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quote:

ORIGINAL: MidMichCowboy

Why are you on CollarMe? . I see others who seem to want to disappear from the world into a fantasy world.

I'd like to disappear from a fantasy world and get real. Way too many fantasists IMPO
Also here for friends to support and especially at the moment for those friends who support me. And thank you for being one of those friends Mich.


< Message edited by Prinsexx -- 2/11/2009 3:24:38 PM >

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RE: Are you looking for a scene, someone to play or use... - 2/11/2009 3:30:06 PM   
MidMichCowboy


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ORIGINAL: Prinsexx

Also here for friends to support and especially at the moment for those friends who support me. And thank you for being one of those friends Mich.



Anytime my dear.

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RE: Are you looking for a scene, someone to play or use... - 2/11/2009 9:03:18 PM   
StormsSlave


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Status: offline 		 I discovered this site looking for some kinky lingerie to wear for My Lord, and stuck around for the conversation.  It really was my lightbulb moment, as someone said already.   Up until stumbling into here, I thought we were just having seriously twisted, weird sex.  Well, we ARE having seriously weird twisted sex, but now I know we're not alone!! 



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