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Sundew02 -> RE: Tributes and Fakers – Have we all become cynics? (8/14/2004 3:16:59 PM)
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sots, I may be repeating advice already given, but I wanted to respond to what I believe you are asking. I could be wrong, smile, and have been known to be on other occassions (rare, laughing).
I too miss the flesh to flesh meets of years ago. Where you planned to attend an event (ball, weekend retreat etc). You knew most, if not all that attended were at least D/s curious and hopefully were Dom/mes, Sub/slaves seeking a partner. Now we must deal with the internet. It's very simple for someone to learn the words and type them. It's very hard for someone to pull that off face to face.
On another trend there was a question who would you like to meet? Laughing, just about everyone that I post with that seems real. I have discussed this with my D/s friends here as well. The fact is that unless someone has alot of time and money to set up an event that would peak the interest of a large number, it isn't going to happen.
I live in the heart of the midwest. The coasters have greater access to more people in the lifestyle. Who would want the expense and inconvenience of coming here? Nor could I take the time and money to fly to NY, SF or NO, wherever.
My only suggestion is look around you in your area. How far can you comfortably drive to be with a Domme? Circle it on a map and limit your search to that area. Look on the events postings and see if there are any munches or social opportunities that you can attend. Post there as well, to ask if there are any in your area. Not much help, but then when you can't exactly put an ad in the local paper "looking for D/s events", we do what we can to make connections. Sundew
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