Feeling Down

Collarspace Discussion Forums

Home Login Search

Feeling Down

View related threads: (in this forum | in all forums)

Logged in as: Guest

All Forums >> [Casual Banter] >> Off the Grid >> Feeling Down

Page: [1]

Login

Message

<< Older Topic Newer Topic >>

Feeling Down - 2/6/2009 11:54:20 AM

susie

Posts: 1699
Joined: 11/21/2004
Status: offline

I am generally not a moody person and I tend to be cheerful through most things. The staff at the hospital were surprised that I was so up beat following my operationa and radiotherapy. So why is that today for no apparent reason I feel the most down I have felt in a long long time. Its been made worse by the fact that Master has been called away on a family emergency and will be gone overnight and much of tomorrow.

How do you get over feeling miserable like this. I am just not used to it.

Post #: 1

RE: Feeling Down - 2/6/2009 12:00:42 PM

JustDarkness

Posts: 1461
Joined: 7/25/2008
Status: offline

uhmmm..... that is hard to answerit happens...it will pass...spoil yourself some and think of your MAsterbut stay busy.....no sad music.....

(in reply to susie)

Post #: 2

RE: Feeling Down - 2/6/2009 12:30:36 PM

cjan

Posts: 3513
Joined: 2/21/2008
Status: offline

susie, what goes up must come down and, thankfully, what goes down must come up. That's life. It will change and blow over. In the meantime, be your own best friend and take good care of yourself. Pamper yourself as you would a good friend who is feeling as you do.

_____________________________

"I never saw a wild thing sorry for itself. A bird will fall ,frozen , dead, from a bough without ever having felt sorry for itself."- D.H. L

" When you look into the abyss, the abyss also looks in to you"- Frank Nitti

(in reply to JustDarkness)

Post #: 3

RE: Feeling Down - 2/6/2009 12:37:43 PM

LaTigresse

Posts: 26123
Joined: 1/15/2006
Status: offline

Indulge yourself. Let yourself cry if you have to, then have your favourite dinner and dessert. Watch your favourite movie or tv programme, or read something you love. Take a nice long hot bubble bath if that is your thing. Just spoil yourself rotten and make sure you get a good night of sleep.

_____________________________

My twisted, self deprecating, sense of humour, finds alot to laugh about, in your lack of one!

Just because you are well educated, articulate, and can use big, fancy words, properly........does not mean you are right!

(in reply to susie)

Post #: 4

RE: Feeling Down - 2/6/2009 12:40:20 PM

slaveboyforyou

Posts: 3607
Joined: 1/6/2005
From: Arkansas, U.S.A.
Status: offline

You know what I do when I feel like that? I act like a kid again, I go do something fun. Remember when you were a kid? You could have fun anywhere. I have a secret....*whispers*...you still can. I can have a grand ol' time anywhere.

(in reply to susie)

Post #: 5

RE: Feeling Down - 2/6/2009 12:45:32 PM

susie

Posts: 1699
Joined: 11/21/2004
Status: offline

Thanks all. I have just spoken to Master which made me feel a bit better. Just typical that he has to be away on a night that I am feeling like this. Still thats life.

I think the idea of a hot bath with a good book sounds like a good way to go.

hugs all

(in reply to slaveboyforyou)

Post #: 6

RE: Feeling Down - 2/6/2009 2:04:14 PM

Vendaval

Posts: 10297
Joined: 1/15/2005
Status: offline

Spoil yourself, susie. You deserve it after all those medical experiences.

_____________________________

"Beware, the woods at night, beware the lunar light.
So in this gray haze we'll be meating again, and on that
great day, I will tease you all the same."
"WOLF MOON", OCTOBER RUST, TYPE O NEGATIVE

http://KinkMeet.co.uk

(in reply to susie)

Post #: 7

RE: Feeling Down - 2/6/2009 3:00:38 PM

Lucylastic

Posts: 40310
Status: offline

Feel better soon Susie, I usually have a long hot bath, some trancy music, some candles burning and a glass of red wine when I feel down.
Take care of yourself and hopefully it will hep somewhat
Lucy

_____________________________

(•_•)
<) )╯SUCH
/ \

\(•_•)
( (> A NASTY
/ \

(•_•)
<) )> WOMAN
/ \

Duchess Of Dissent
Dont Hate Love

(in reply to Vendaval)

Post #: 8

RE: Feeling Down - 2/6/2009 6:22:13 PM

popeye1250

Posts: 18104
Joined: 1/27/2006
From: New Hampshire
Status: offline

quote:

ORIGINAL: slaveboyforyou

You know what I do when I feel like that? I act like a kid again, I go do something fun. Remember when you were a kid? You could have fun anywhere. I have a secret....*whispers*...you still can. I can have a grand ol' time anywhere.

Slaveboy, good advice!
You know what I've been thinking about doing that I havn't done in eons, Bowling!

_____________________________

"But Your Honor, this is not a Jury of my Peers, these people are all decent, honest, law-abiding citizens!"

(in reply to slaveboyforyou)

Post #: 9

RE: Feeling Down - 2/6/2009 6:31:43 PM

chiaThePet

Posts: 2694
Joined: 2/4/2007
Status: offline

Picture me naked.

Go ahead sweetie.

I don't mind.

chia* (the pet)

_____________________________

Love is a many splendid sting.

You can stick me in the corner, but I'll probably just end up coloring on the walls.

(in reply to susie)

Post #: 10

RE: Feeling Down - 2/7/2009 5:55:48 AM

corysub

Posts: 1492
Joined: 1/1/2004
Status: offline

All great suggestions here. I've tried them all..particularly the "red wine" and it does help a bit. The main thing hon is that you are out
of the hospital and can look forward to your Masters return. Maybe thinking about some way to surprise him might cheer you up..."wink"
Maybe some people here might have some ideas in that regard..betcha!

(in reply to susie)

Post #: 11

RE: Feeling Down - 2/7/2009 6:06:23 AM

scarlethiney

Posts: 492
Joined: 8/22/2008
Status: offline

quote:

ORIGINAL: susie

I am generally not a moody person and I tend to be cheerful through most things. The staff at the hospital were surprised that I was so up beat following my operationa and radiotherapy. So why is that today for no apparent reason I feel the most down I have felt in a long long time. Its been made worse by the fact that Master has been called away on a family emergency and will be gone overnight and much of tomorrow.

How do you get over feeling miserable like this. I am just not used to it.

Susie, your body has been through a shock. Surgery effects your system not just physically but emotionally. You may need extra vitamins and minerals. Call a friend to come over and have them give you a foot massage with some wonderful aromatherapy lotion that has peppermint in it. The physical touch and the peppermint scent are very uplifting. Aromatherapy is a wonderful tool for altering your mood.
Above all else be patient with yourself your body is going through a healing process. It's ok to feel down trust me it will pass.
Sending good thoughts and wishes you way!

scarlet

_____________________________

"The words 'I am...' are potent words; be careful what you hitch them to. The thing you're claiming has a way of reaching back and claiming you." - A.L. Kitselman.

see my profile masterkspet

(in reply to susie)

Post #: 12

RE: Feeling Down - 2/7/2009 6:08:35 AM

simpleplan2

Posts: 461
Joined: 7/5/2008
Status: offline

When I picture you naked, I see cousin Itt.

(in reply to chiaThePet)

Post #: 13

RE: Feeling Down - 2/7/2009 6:20:33 AM

susie

Posts: 1699
Joined: 11/21/2004
Status: offline

Thanks for all the advice and lovely pm's. It did help. Shows what a lot of nice people there are on the forums.

(in reply to simpleplan2)

Post #: 14

RE: Feeling Down - 2/7/2009 6:26:46 AM

DarkSteven

Posts: 28072
Joined: 5/2/2008
Status: offline

susie, sounds to me like you're having the natural reaction to what you went through. The hospital staff expected it and it came, just delayed. It's natural, and was to be expected.

_____________________________

"You women....

The small-breasted ones want larger breasts. The large-breasted ones want smaller ones. The straight-haired ones curl their hair, and the curly-haired ones straighten theirs...

Quit fretting. We men love you."

(in reply to susie)

Post #: 15

RE: Feeling Down - 2/7/2009 6:45:42 AM

CatdeMedici

Posts: 2257
Joined: 10/20/2008
Status: offline

quote:

ORIGINAL: simpleplan2

When I picture you naked, I see cousin Itt.

spews coffee at the screen--priceless.

_____________________________

I am the Cat, holder of the whip and chair.

"Let's see-whips, dips, chains, chips, yep sounds like a party to Me!"

(in reply to simpleplan2)

Post #: 16

RE: Feeling Down - 2/7/2009 8:05:17 AM

chiaThePet

Posts: 2694
Joined: 2/4/2007
Status: offline

quote:

ORIGINAL: CatdeMedici

quote:

ORIGINAL: simpleplan2

When I picture you naked, I see cousin Itt.

spews coffee at the screen--priceless.

Licks coffee off the screen.

Hmmm, Kopi Luwak, Indonesian Gold, $600 a pound, $50 a cup actually.

chia* (the pet)

_____________________________

Love is a many splendid sting.

You can stick me in the corner, but I'll probably just end up coloring on the walls.

(in reply to CatdeMedici)

Post #: 17

RE: Feeling Down - 2/7/2009 8:05:46 AM

NuevaVida

Posts: 6707
Joined: 8/5/2008
Status: offline

Pampering. Hot bath, a movie (go out to the movies, if you can - it's better then being secluded at home), get a pedicure. If the weather is bearable, take a walk, even a short one. It gets the blood circulating and your lungs oxygenated.

And, cliche as it sounds, know that this too shall pass.

Best wishes for you, Susie.

_____________________________

Live Simply. Love Generously. Care Deeply. Speak Kindly.

(in reply to susie)

Post #: 18

Page: [1]

All Forums >> [Casual Banter] >> Off the Grid >> Feeling Down

Page: [1]

Jump to:

New Messages	No New Messages
Hot Topic w/ New Messages	Hot Topic w/o New Messages
Locked w/ New Messages	Locked w/o New Messages

Post New Thread

Reply to Message

Post New Poll

Submit Vote

Delete My Own Post

Delete My Own Thread

Rate Posts

Collarchat.com © 2025

Terms of Service

0.094