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PeonForHer -> RE: "I'm married...and all the dommes on CM are pros" (2/7/2009 7:21:35 AM)
Oddly enough, many think the work kinky also means devoid of any morals or standards. Indeed.

Madame4a -> RE: "I'm married...and all the dommes on CM are pros" (2/7/2009 7:35:51 AM)
Funnily enough, about 6 months ago I had someone call me promiscuous -- because I was open to more partners than he was and had play partners in my life. I looked the word up and read him the riot act -- including being clear that I'd had sex with only two people in the last two years and they were a primary and sort of secondary partner... that while I don't consider myself monogamous.. I'm not promiscuous... grin ... just remembered all that.. sorry for the rant

MsDDom -> RE: "I'm married...and all the dommes on CM are pros" (2/7/2009 7:38:09 AM)
my response is always..."why are u here...and why are u messaging me"? i am not a pro, but in all honesty, how can a married man serve?

LookieNoNookie -> RE: "I'm married...and all the dommes on CM are pros" (2/7/2009 7:52:14 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: DominaSmartass So I heard this line earlier tonight and it drove me to post! How can a married man rant about how all the "dommes" are fakes and pros when he openly admits to being married, looking to "serve" behind his wife's back? I'm confused. What does a persons marital situation have to do with their having an opinion about people (in this case, women) who sell sexual or other similar related services? The fact that a man might be upset at a woman for being able to charge for her charms is indeed laughable...but no more so than the ongoing amazement women seem to have for men and their ways as well.

RichieB -> RE: "I'm married...and all the dommes on CM are pros" (2/7/2009 7:57:09 AM)
I will train a married man if his wife is willing to sit in and watch.... Oh, and I will not charge you.[:D] Diane

LadyPact -> RE: "I'm married...and all the dommes on CM are pros" (2/7/2009 8:06:58 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: MsDDom my response is always..."why are u here...and why are u messaging me"? i am not a pro, but in all honesty, how can a married man serve? Gee, would you like to ask the married man who's lived with Me for the past couple of weeks? Done all of My laundry? Accompanied Me to every local and semi-local event that I've had the whim to go to and takes care of all of My other needs? If you can think of the way he's not serving Me, I'd be glad to consider it.

Lockit -> RE: "I'm married...and all the dommes on CM are pros" (2/7/2009 8:13:21 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: LookieNoNookie quote: ORIGINAL: DominaSmartass So I heard this line earlier tonight and it drove me to post! How can a married man rant about how all the "dommes" are fakes and pros when he openly admits to being married, looking to "serve" behind his wife's back? I'm confused. What does a persons marital situation have to do with their having an opinion about people (in this case, women) who sell sexual or other similar related services? The fact that a man might be upset at a woman for being able to charge for her charms is indeed laughable...but no more so than the ongoing amazement women seem to have for men and their ways as well. You are confused...

LookieNoNookie -> RE: "I'm married...and all the dommes on CM are pros" (2/7/2009 9:50:00 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Lockit You are confused... (You aren't the first).

LadyConstanze -> RE: "I'm married...and all the dommes on CM are pros" (2/7/2009 10:00:01 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: MistressAinCT The fact is most of the Domina want someone who is available, and most of us sadists want people we can mark. I used to hear, "I am a masochist-but don't mark me". I hate to admit this, but I have yet to figure out how to NOT MARK a masochist who wants more, more, more! Oh, I can give you a few hints, but they better be REAL hardcore masochists ;)

hardbodysub -> RE: "I'm married...and all the dommes on CM are pros" (2/7/2009 10:08:57 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: DominaSmartass So I heard this line earlier tonight and it drove me to post! How can a married man rant about how all the "dommes" are fakes and pros when he openly admits to being married, looking to "serve" behind his wife's back? It boggles my mind! The logic bombs are exploding left and right and there's no convincing men like this that those of us who are not making money off it are not likely to put all that time and effort into a man who belongs to someone else already. Sigh...another day, another rant. Who wants to cheat with a pro? That hardly even feels like cheating. When you have to pay for it, it's like being married! Actually, there's no reason for guys to complain about pros. Everyone knows all women are ho's. You can't get anything from them without giving something. By the way, all men are ho's, too.

ShaktiSama -> RE: "I'm married...and all the dommes on CM are pros" (2/7/2009 11:01:03 AM)
shakes her head Yeah, I won't even discuss photography with married people if there is a "cheating" or "behind the back" vibe. And I have had men who not only tried to get me to shag them behind the back of a wife or a girlfriend, but one idiot who thought he could persuade me to assist in a lie to his lady friend. I've never been interested in a married/taken man and I never will be. Nothing turns me off more instantaneously that knowing that a man has a commitment to some other woman. And there's nothing about being used for disposable sex while some other woman gets all his real emotional and material resources that appeals to me or makes me feel dominant or in charge.

littlesarbonn -> RE: "I'm married...and all the dommes on CM are pros" (2/7/2009 4:02:39 PM)
I'm always at a loss to understand this. If I was married, finding a partner to play with seems like it would already be done for me. If my wife wasn't interested in domination or in me serving her, chances are pretty good that we wouldn't be married in the first place. I've never put in a lot of stock in the old "I discovered I'm a sub after we were married" or the ever popular "I don't think I can tell my wife about my submissive tendencies." This is the person you decided to spend the rest of your life with. If you're too ashamed to tell her what you really need, then something went wrong long before those submissive tendencies emerged.

StrictnSaucy -> RE: "I'm married...and all the dommes on CM are pros" (2/7/2009 4:11:05 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: ShaktiSama I've never been interested in a married/taken man and I never will be. Nothing turns me off more instantaneously that knowing that a man has a commitment to some other woman. And there's nothing about being used for disposable sex while some other woman gets all his real emotional and material resources that appeals to me or makes me feel dominant or in charge. That hits the nail on the head for me. SnS

Nikitaa -> RE: "I'm married...and all the dommes on CM are pros" (2/7/2009 4:14:30 PM)
I will accept married men for subs. I will give order they must love their wife and take her flowers. Every day I will give new order for new nice thing they must do for their wife. Maybe not a good idea. Their wife will become suspicious and say "do you have secret dominatirx giving you orders?"

StrictnSaucy -> RE: "I'm married...and all the dommes on CM are pros" (2/7/2009 4:21:37 PM)
Nikitaa, I have been really enjoying your posts. But 1. What do you get from this service to his wife 2. Do you think his wife would appreciate getting gifts at the direction of his Mistress Maybe you said it tongue in cheek ?

Vendaval -> RE: "I'm married...and all the dommes on CM are pros" (2/7/2009 4:31:18 PM)
Are the windows rattling and is the pillow covered with drool? [sm=sleepy.gif] quote: ORIGINAL: sirsholly quote: ORIGINAL: Nikitaa But married men are sooooo cute looks at hubby...sleeping with his mouth open, snoring like he is downing a small rain forest cute? [8\|]

hardbodysub -> RE: "I'm married...and all the dommes on CM are pros" (2/7/2009 4:37:01 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: RichieB I will train a married man if his wife is willing to sit in and watch.... Oh, and I will not charge you.[:D] Diane Will you train a single guy if he can get someone else's wife to sit in and watch?

Vendaval -> RE: "I'm married...and all the dommes on CM are pros" (2/7/2009 4:38:37 PM)
Nikitaa, If a husband who has been neglectful suddenly starts being very attentive it is also a sign that he is having an affair. Basically being nice to the old lady because he feels guilty. [sm=ballchain.gif] American slang for a wife can be either "old lady" or "ball & chain" lol In Spanish the same word is used for wife, "esposa" in the singular or for handcuffs, "esposas" in the plural form. quote: ORIGINAL: Nikitaa Maybe not a good idea. Their wife will become suspicious and say "do you have secret dominatirx giving you orders?"

Nikitaa -> RE: "I'm married...and all the dommes on CM are pros" (2/7/2009 4:43:33 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: StrictnSaucy Nikitaa, I have been really enjoying your posts. But 1. What do you get from this service to his wife 2. Do you think his wife would appreciate getting gifts at the direction of his Mistress Maybe you said it tongue in cheek ? I said as joke. When my dorm mate returns I will ask what "tongue in cheek" means. edit..... I attempt sarcasm once a month and I never use correctly. People always assume I am serious. Even when speaking and not just in writing. I use sarcasm frequently in Polish but I can not make sarcasm work in English. Friends say I emphasize wrong words when I speak with sarcasm.

Vendaval -> RE: "I'm married...and all the dommes on CM are pros" (2/7/2009 4:45:39 PM)
"Tongue in cheek" means you meant it as a joke and were being ironic.

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