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RE: Final rant before cancelling my account - 2/7/2009 1:13:04 PM   
genuineservant


Posts: 8
Joined: 12/17/2005
Status: offline 		Thank you very much for the valuable feedback.  Like I said, I may be mostly to blame for not succeeding in finding what I am looking for.

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RE: Final rant before cancelling my account - 2/7/2009 1:14:52 PM   
ladynlord


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Status: offline 		I understand his frustration, but speaking as a Domme, I get many letters from Male subs. An attentive reading of My profile shows that I am not interested in Male subs and neither is My partner. I would consider it a waste of time to reply to each letter and point out that the writter had obviously overlooked, or ignored, or refused to take the time to discover that very salient fact....one that I have made perfectly clear. In fact, in writing a reply, I feel certain that I would point out the "error" and then proceed to make some less than kind remarks, that would be called for, but would end up being demeaning to ME for losing My temper and forgetting My southern charm. So consider that fact... as She may be doing both of you a favor!

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RE: Final rant before cancelling my account - 2/7/2009 1:18:27 PM   
Knite064


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quote:

ORIGINAL: Nikitaa

quote:

ORIGINAL: genuineservant

see what I mean!  Now I can rest happily.  Thanks


If you knew how many messages most dominant women receive you would understand. I do not wish to use my whole day sending responses to men I have not interest.

What happens when woman sends "no thank you" message. I will tell. She gets response asking "why." Now the reply mail adds to the new mail and inbox catches fire from overload.

If you receive no reply then person is not interested. Move on.

I sent away 7 pages of replies in 7 days. Most said no-thank you. I received so many replies to my replies, asking why or insulting me. I no longer reply to most messages. Some men were gentlemen but most only wanted what they wanted and cared not for my desires.

I am 250 pounds and very ugly. This is why I have no picture. Imagine how many messages the pretty women receive.

I make edit...
I change "a" in woman to "e"

We should keep thread responses on file for next man ranting of no responses. I think I will cut and paste save my responses.

Wow that is one crap diet your on.....sue them ....i mean i saw your picture only last week and.......

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RE: Final rant before cancelling my account - 2/7/2009 1:22:45 PM   
subtlebutterfly


Posts: 2230
Joined: 6/15/2008
From: Not your hood
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quote:

ORIGINAL: genuineservant

I have been a member of CM site for many months and have approached numerous people whom I found compatible with what I am looking for.  I typically send out a detailed respectful introduction email asking if there is any interest in pursuing further correspondence or conversations.  With a few rare exceptions (3), the recipients do not even bother to respond with a least "no thanks", "go to hell", "not interested", or even "go-fish".  It cannot take more than 10 seconds to make this courteous gesture. I guess that Ms. Manners has checked out from this site.   


Farewell, you will not be missed.

*no I don't know you at all....it just felt like a response that fitted, it's not supposed to be taken seriously*

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RE: Final rant before cancelling my account - 2/7/2009 1:24:00 PM   
peppermint


Posts: 5171
Joined: 10/18/2005
From: Montana
Status: offline 		As others have pointed out, submissive men far outnumber Dominant women which makes it more difficult for you to find what you are seeking.  There are several ways you can increase your chances of finding that special lady.  You can increase your chances by posting here in the forums.  Posting gets you noticed...favorably if you do intelligent, thoughtful posts and not solely whines or complaints.  You can also increase your chances of finding that Dominant woman by attending munches in your area.  Volunteer for the group and you'll get noticed more often.  You can also go to events.  A recent one in my area was the Southwest Leather Conference.  There are also volunteer positions at those events.  By volunteering you meet the greatest number of people and they see you as being willing to be of service.  It's your chance to make a good impression and the person you assist today might know someone who is looking. 

By the way, a stranger sending unsolicited mail on a web site should not consider a non answer to be rude.  No answer  means...NOT INTERESTED.  It is NOT rude to not answer mail you did not ask to have sent.  I do not chat on the phone with all the salespersons who call me just because they took the time to call me.  Nor should be expect an answer from someone you do not know and who does not know you. 

However, if you wish to give up your search, there is nothing I will do to make you stay here.  You are an adult and can leave anytime you wish.  Weekly someone complains about people being rude by not answering mail.  You are one of many many who have done so.  It was a bit childish to complain and then say you were leaving cause no one would play by your personal rules.  But as I have said...YOUR choice...your tantrum.   

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RE: Final rant before cancelling my account - 2/7/2009 1:24:07 PM   
FullCircle


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quote:

ORIGINAL: JustDarkness
you should have spent more time on the forum..less with the profiles. Works way better.

The forums contains a tiny fraction of the total people on the site, added to that is the fact that many use the forums to discuss things. It's not so focused on the meeting people aspect as a lot here are already involved. Although I've heard that argument, the two sides have distinct functions and there isn't much overlap IMO.

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RE: Final rant before cancelling my account - 2/7/2009 1:26:21 PM   
DrkJourney


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Joined: 5/6/2007
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quote:

ORIGINAL: Nikitaa
I am 250 pounds and very ugly. This is why I have no picture. Imagine how many messages the pretty women receive.


Not helpin' lying to the boy, been reading your post, everyone knows you're a sweetie

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RE: Final rant before cancelling my account - 2/7/2009 1:27:47 PM   
JustDarkness


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quote:

ORIGINAL: FullCircle

quote:

ORIGINAL: JustDarkness
you should have spent more time on the forum..less with the profiles. Works way better.

The forums contains a tiny fraction of the total people on the site, added to that is the fact that many use the forums to discuss things. It's not so focused on the meeting people aspect as a lot here are already involved. Although I've heard that argument, the two sides have distinct functions and there isn't much overlap IMO.
 oh..yes the writers are few..but for sure plenty of readers that we don't see.Most that contact me..never write here..but read here.That is why they contact me (don't aks me why..lol)But they learn a lott about you when you write here. More then just from having a profile.

< Message edited by JustDarkness -- 2/7/2009 1:29:45 PM >

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RE: Final rant before cancelling my account - 2/7/2009 1:28:52 PM   
peppermint


Posts: 5171
Joined: 10/18/2005
From: Montana
Status: offline 		I had a nice reply all written out....then checked the OP's profile only to find it is gone already.  (shrugs)  No one would play by his rules so he's going to take his toys and play with someone else.  His choice.  

< Message edited by peppermint -- 2/7/2009 1:29:28 PM >

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RE: Final rant before cancelling my account - 2/7/2009 1:36:08 PM   
Katchoo


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Joined: 11/11/2007
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quote:

ORIGINAL: genuineservant

It cannot take more than 10 seconds to make this courteous gesture.    


Okay, maybe it only takes ten seconds. But if I let my inbox go I typically have fifty unwanted messages or more awaiting me. How much time does it take from my week to open, read and respond to each one? After a while this gets OLD.

Which is exactly why I hide my profile the majority of the time... if I wanted spam, I'd be on the luncheon meat isle.

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RE: Final rant before cancelling my account - 2/7/2009 1:37:39 PM   
Nikitaa


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Joined: 1/26/2009
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quote:

ORIGINAL: peppermint

I had a nice reply all written out....then checked the OP's profile only to find it is gone already.  (shrugs)  No one would play by his rules so he's going to take his toys and play with someone else.  His choice.  



He not gone. He just making new profile name to use things he learned in this thread. I am waiting for his message now. :-)

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RE: Final rant before cancelling my account - 2/7/2009 1:39:50 PM   
Nikitaa


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quote:

ORIGINAL: DrkJourney

quote:

ORIGINAL: Nikitaa
I am 250 pounds and very ugly. This is why I have no picture. Imagine how many messages the pretty women receive.


Not helpin' lying to the boy, been reading your post, everyone knows you're a sweetie


I AM NOT A SWEETIE! I AM FEARED POLISH DOMINANT DOMINATRIX DOMME!!

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RE: Final rant before cancelling my account - 2/7/2009 1:45:11 PM   
sambamanslilgirl


Posts: 10926
Joined: 2/5/2007
From: Chicago, IL
Status: offline 		usually when i tell someone "no thanks" - i get a "why not ...i think we're compatible" reply back.

deleting the message without responding saves my the unnecessary headaches.

so bye-bye ...good luck ...bon voyage etc etc

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RE: Final rant before cancelling my account - 2/7/2009 1:45:47 PM   
Honsoku


Posts: 422
Joined: 6/26/2007
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quote:

ORIGINAL: Nikitaa
I AM NOT A SWEETIE! I AM FEARED POLISH DOMINANT DOMINATRIX DOMME!!


Suuuure you are. You adorable little sweetheart, you.
*pinches cheeks*
*runs*


< Message edited by Honsoku -- 2/7/2009 1:46:48 PM >

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RE: Final rant before cancelling my account - 2/7/2009 1:46:05 PM   
Knite064


Posts: 169
Joined: 1/21/2009
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quote:

ORIGINAL: Nikitaa


quote:

ORIGINAL: DrkJourney

quote:

ORIGINAL: Nikitaa
I am 250 pounds and very ugly. This is why I have no picture. Imagine how many messages the pretty women receive.


Not helpin' lying to the boy, been reading your post, everyone knows you're a sweetie


I AM NOT A SWEETIE! I AM FEARED POLISH DOMINANT DOMINATRIX DOMME!!


Awww thats soooo sweet and cutesy

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RE: Final rant before cancelling my account - 2/7/2009 1:47:06 PM   
Lynnxz


Posts: 4813
Joined: 10/3/2006
From: Atlanta
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quote:

ORIGINAL: Nikitaa



I AM NOT A SWEETIE! I AM FEARED POLISH DOMINANT DOMINATRIX DOMME!!


*panic*

*hide*

On a side note, I think I had a vicious scary intimidating polish dominatrix do my eyebrows yesterday... they still hurt.


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RE: Final rant before cancelling my account - 2/7/2009 1:48:46 PM   
dreamerdreaming


Posts: 2839
Status: offline 		*cowers in fear of Nikitaa*

:o)

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RE: Final rant before cancelling my account - 2/7/2009 1:51:48 PM   
dreamerdreaming


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quote:

ORIGINAL: peppermint

I had a nice reply all written out....then checked the OP's profile only to find it is gone already.  (shrugs)  No one would play by his rules so he's going to take his toys and play with someone else.  His choice.  


When it says "profile not found" he may have just hidden it.

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RE: Final rant before cancelling my account - 2/7/2009 1:59:35 PM   
Nikitaa


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quote:



Awww thats soooo sweet and cutesy



Is funny people in forums think I am cute. When I send messages to submissive men informing them about my kink I receive replies informing me I am too mean.
I wonder if my sub think I am adorable when I am walking on him with my boots. I will ask.

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RE: Final rant before cancelling my account - 2/7/2009 2:02:22 PM   
KataNykanen


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Joined: 2/4/2009
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quote:

ORIGINAL: Nikitaa

I AM NOT A SWEETIE! I AM FEARED POLISH DOMINANT DOMINATRIX DOMME!!



You better believe her, I can tell.
All my female ancestors from my mom's side were Polish, and they all were everything Nikitaa tells. My mom used to frighten the shit out of me until I became a not-so-feared, just-a-bit-polish, not-so-dominant, little-of-a-dominatrix, similar-to-a-domme myself. Maybe I'd turned out better if born in Poland too ...

:)=) 


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