Termyn8or
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I see I have touched off a flame here, luckily not a flame war. Even to say 'WTF were you thinking when you said that ?' is not the same as saying 'you are full of crap'. I have learned the difference long ago, as I have learned to try to see both (every) side(s) of an argument. Now an argument doesn't mean what you see on Jerry Springer, where all the arguers do is piss each other of. To me an argument is supposed to be you trying to convince another of your point of view and vice versa. To alienate or insult them is totally counterproductive. To actually LISTEN gives you a few things, first of all you find out what you're up against. If you haven't heard the other's reasoning yet you can't pick it apart, and that is if you still disagree. Yes, I have actually been proven wrong (believe it or not , lol), On a lesser scale you might see why they have these misconceptions on the subject. To win an argument is to educate the opponent. To lose is to learn. Sometimes there are gray areas as well. I am open to all these experiences. Now I must address this one point before going 10-7. To those who may think that my view of reality is not right, please state your case, don't simply make that foolish allegation. My mind works as a lattice, like gears, you feed it input it must mesh. It must fit with at least some etablixhed facts. Who is going to tell me that our Country living in debt off a fiat currency is good, and that we need oil or for some reason control of Iraq so bad it is worth our soldiers' lives. Or would you perhaps purport that your TV news is actually fair, unbiased and complete ? If I indeed have a misperception about reality, I would really like to know about it and at that point I shall reconsider my opinions. ? But then, until conviced I shall not do so. You are cordially invited to convince me that I am wrong. In fact I welcome it. Just remember, you must convince me, facts and logical reasoning are about all that are going to accomplish this. My view of the human condition might be considered gloomy, but I think it is accurate. I don't mean to discourage either, but sound plans for a recovery are needed and will likely come from a grass roots movement, not some megalopoly controlled program. As much as they would like to, they cannot control your thoughts. Think about it. T
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