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RE: Curious what you all think...esp younger folks - 2/11/2009 7:22:38 PM

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In order to be done (oh god i can't believe i'm saying this) "right" bdsm and especially the lifestyle must be understood and engaged in maturely. I stand with pretty much everyone else- the age gap doesn't matter, but your goals, his goals, and where the two of you are wanting to go do.

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RE: Curious what you all think...esp younger folks - 2/11/2009 9:45:19 PM

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Serioulsy? I think it would be great for him to have an awesome role model, a great, open start to BDSM, and someone so caring about his well-being. Besides, how awesome for you to find such a sexy young thing to play with! Have fun!

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RE: Curious what you all think...esp younger folks - 3/1/2009 1:06:28 AM

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i was 18 when M.S. was your age........and still unbelievably happy. i wouldn't change what i've experienced with Him for the world, He has shown me so much, opened my eyes to things i never imagined doing, and even though some of them terrified the good little christian girl that was inside of me...haha the fear is still there everytime but, i do whatever without question and love every second of it because, i'm totally and completely pleasing Him. It's well worth it with the right person trust me.

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RE: Curious what you all think...esp younger folks - 3/1/2009 2:09:04 AM

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I think if he is truly interested and is wanting to learn then there is no problem. Weather he is 19 or 50. I myself wish I had someone at the moment to help me and discuss this with me. I am 22 and very interested myself but am just coming into realizing my interest and not having anyone to direct me. So I say go for it, don't have him lie to his parents but they don't need to be told what he is doing since he is and adult himself.

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RE: Curious what you all think...esp younger folks - 3/1/2009 3:02:37 AM

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ORIGINAL: crouchingtigress

I have not been here in a while, a big Aloha to every one I have missed.

Ok my question.

How do you feel about a 40 year old, training a 19 year old in the ways of leather and the lifestyle and to be my houseboy.

Hello crouchingtigress,

Is the 'this is him" link about the 19 year old?

Nope I've found out that he is older.
Well I would say, if he is willing, and you
have asked all those question which we're
given here, it will B fine.

Enjoy your day!

Warm Greetingz

GoddezzT`

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RE: Curious what you all think...esp younger folks - 3/1/2009 3:36:56 AM

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If you read Her profile, She is a switch, the "this is him" is the Master she currently serves--I believe the post is about someone else.

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RE: Curious what you all think...esp younger folks - 3/1/2009 5:09:08 AM

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Firts he outta be greatly honored to even be considered by....you...

He would never forget you...thats for sure...

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RE: Curious what you all think...esp younger folks - 3/1/2009 9:08:58 AM

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I think it's fine if a 40-year old and a 19-year old play together. But there are some important things: You cannot be a party to someone's lying. If he is not mature enough in his life and his relationship with his parents to tell them at least part of the truth (I'll be back tomorrow, I'm at a friend's house, etc.) without drama, then it's not going to work.

A recent situation happened to me, (almost 40 years old), I started a relationship with a 19 year old. But he lied to his parents about where he was, my age, etc. The mom did some kind of search on me, found out the truth, and went BATSHIT. Being immature, he was really affected by this. I never lied to her, and discouraged him from lying to her, the whole time, but still I had to suffer the consequences. The bad part of this was that I really liked him (against all guidance, sometimes you like a person).

There were other problems too, that wasn't the only one, but I am just writing to say that lies are going to be discovered and the fallout could be dramatic. These people suggested that they would not pay for college if their son were to continue the un-desirable relationship. Do you want that for the young man you're involved with? If he can't tell the truth to the people who presumably love him most in the world, do yourself and him a favor and stay away.

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