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RE: Domination and pain - 1/22/2006 4:35:26 PM

Petruchio

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Sounds like a *switch* to me.

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RE: Domination and pain - 1/22/2006 5:59:45 PM

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Nope I am 100% slave slapping Dom thanks and I prefer to define my sexuality myself rather than have someone else do it for me based on the content of one message post.

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RE: Domination and pain - 1/23/2006 10:44:03 PM

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ORIGINAL: MstrTiger

Nope I am 100% slave slapping Dom thanks and I prefer to define my sexuality myself rather than have someone else do it for me based on the content of one message post.

Yes, of course you're right. I was referring to Notanaddict in the OP.

But… did I read a posting in which you asserted all men are gay? Or am I thinking of someone else? Apologies in advance if I misattributed that.

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RE: Domination and pain - 1/24/2006 1:02:07 AM

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The point I made about you judging other peoples sexuality still stands even if it was referring to the OP and not to myself though you might want to conceder pressing the large ‘post reply’ button in future rather then the one on peoples individual messages so that the ‘in reply to’ on the message you post comes up with the correct persons name. With regards to your quote, yes you have misattributed it, I don’t think all men are gay, I in fact think saying such a thing is utterly ludicrous I have never posted anything that would imply or suggest that I held that somewhat bizarre opinion.

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RE: Domination and pain - 1/24/2006 6:39:16 AM

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ORIGINAL: Notanaddict

I have quit a dominating personality, I always have.. but when i first joined this site, i imagined it more appropriate to list myself as a sub, for one reason... I like pain, and not so sure i could give it...

but thru reading forums, reading articles, and talkin to people, i realized I cannot submit my power to anyone..

How did u realize u were a domme?
Did u instantly like givin pain, or was it a process..

I know i could really enjoy flogging someone, have only tried light light stuff... but dunno how i would react when i get to teh pont were it starts hurting..

My Domination and My kink are two different strands that entwine to make a whole--I do not need to administer pain to be the Domme I am, I am always was in control, it is My nature-- it was later that I discovered the other aspect--that inspires Me--it does not change My dominance.

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RE: Domination and pain - 1/24/2006 10:13:33 PM

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The point I made about you judging other peoples sexuality still stands

You're missing the point that the OP was asking for our opinions.

I regret you were offended I pressed the wrong buttons.

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RE: Domination and pain - 1/24/2006 10:46:46 PM

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As much as I like experimenting with pain I don’t think a Dom needs to give it to a sub providing they have a different way of expressing the power exchange within there relationship. Sadists gain sexual pleasure or some other form of gratification from inflicting pain and suffering onto another person. The main source of satisfaction for many sadists is exerting a controlling influence over the masochist and also by seeing the indirect pleasure being experienced by them. Many masochists do not gain direct pleasure from the pain they are subjected to though they do gain satisfaction when it is used under the pretext of enforcing authority. Many masochists also like to see that the person who is using them is gaining pleasure from the experience, it is not entirely an attempt to satisfy there own lust for punishment.

Regardless of how true your statement is, there are always exceptions to the case. Other wise you wouldn't have the expression "Topping from the Bottom."

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RE: Domination and pain - 1/25/2006 7:30:05 AM

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know a Domme who will bottom once in a while depending on the person and you do not have to give up your control. The other possibility you could be a switch since you are explore this lifestyle try Bottoming for the only thing you do is experience and no power exchange the conventional way. So many focuses on the power exchange they forget bottoming and topping is part of our lifestyle. We all got started in the lifestyle by Topping some one and while some one else bottom for us. I use to tie up my X wife before I discover this lifestyle and also there a friend who enjoy bondage. The young lady would bottom to me all the time just explore this there aspect of the lifestyle.

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