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DomCT2002 -> RE: FInding Partners? (3/10/2004 11:01:00 AM)
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Why must this be trolling or insulting to some. As Many know the lifestyle itself bears witness to the fact it is really an underground lifestyle not highly admired by the general public and not accepted by the general society in the United States. Yet in other countries around the world people are allowed to look for partners for what ever lifestyle they prefer without any predujice or discrimination.
Second point to make is this it is not in every state as in connecticut where the lifestyle is kept and held in check by few members of it by way of the internet and chat programs. If it were so public in Connecticut or other states in the United States then it would be much easier to find partners in general.
Third Point to be made, these forums are for open discussions for all in the lifestyle, and for contacting other in these lifestyles for discussion and to ask questions are they not?
Fourth point while munches are nice and so are clubs, some of us prefer not to attend them for different reasons, whether thay be you are looking for a poly relationship, you are cheating on a spouse or your just too damn shy to go to one. So, even though they be available in NY and some Munches are available in Connecticut, the clubs that were in Connecticut were shut down due to arrest for prostitution and other fines, at least one i know of anyway, and the others in the Hartford area to me do nothing for me.
To come here and say ok, I am a 47 year old, white male/ 165lbs. brown eyes, brown hair looking for a submissive woman in Connecticut who maybe into the same things I am is not wrong in my opinion or trolling. To find a submissive woman who is into bondage, breast play, spankings and using toys such as vibrators, dildos, french ticklers, floggers, paddles and crops and needs a dominant controlling male to make her complete and fullfill her wishes should not be wrong or trolling. It is basically stating what I am into, what I am looking for and what I wish to be in a relationship with and who. Also, how is a submissive woman to know who or what is available out there unless it is put to the public and explained to them, as to who is looking and for what reasons? To find an intelligent, mature, individual into the same lifestyle and who has a sense of humor, one must state what one is looking for in many aspects. Such as Limitations also, like for me, no children, no urination, no scat, no permanently marking of the body, no knife play or cutting of any kind. I am not sadistic, but sensual and willing to explore the possibilities of such a relationship in the D/s or Bdsm lifestyle with a woman looking for a experienced and sensable man, who like controlling his woman in and othe rof the bedrrom to certain extents.
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