TranceTara
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Thank you Mod Eleven. And, if I am out of line here please feel free to delete this post or email me.
I thought the OP had a valid post and was brave to ask such a personal and perhaps embarassing question. There is a thread for humour for those who wish to make jokes and such. The OP was concerned, wanted to please his wife and see if he could go further.
If it were I who had made the post, I would have felt quite vulnerable and not wished to post any more questions. Yes, I can crack jokes and take pot shots at myself. I just do not like strangers to assume such familiarity with me.
I can see most of you are good friends and have a lot of fun together which is great. In my opinion this was not the place. I have always thought the BDSM community to be a community where one can get answers as well as have fun. This thread seemed to be more for answers.
And pukie, I am sorry you got such treatment. There were some good posts as to being careful and I know you got some more information in your Cmail. It is not worth getting angry or offended over. You asked a very valid question and as I mentioned in my letter I have known of gay men who have a lot of experience in this area and use it as a means of spiritual growth as well as pure pleasure.
If there are any new people out there that are very shy and had a similar question and now feel like you have no one to turn to, please do not let this discourage you. People like to have fun and that is okay. Read the posts, see who answered the questions in a way you like and vibrated with and email those people on CM. Don't shut down out of fear.
Resorting to name calling is not way to solve any problem. To say, "I felt offended and was looking for an answer," would be a better way of going about it. And sometimes, "I am sorry," can do wonders.
I like this passage in John Maxwell's book, Relationships 101:
A SHORT COURSE IN HUMAN RELATIONS
The least imporant word: I
The most important word: We
The two most important words: Thank You.
The three most important words: All is forgiven.
The four most important words: What is your opinion?
The five most important words: You did a good job.
The six most important words: I want to understand you better.
And yes, I feel that pertains to a D/s or M/s relationship as well.
Forgive me if I have offended anyone, that was not my intention. Perhaps I am too much the idealist in dreaming of a world where we can deal with each other in a respectful manner. I did not mean to hijack the thread Moderator 11. Forgive me for that.
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for me there is a big difference though as a huge strap on in length means that the female is really able to get into it body and mind. i always fantasised about a Mistress shagging me with one so that she got so into it that she came and when i produced a 12 inch 3.5 dildo for a female that also had huge balls on it and she strapped it became like Dr Jackel and Mrs Hide. She was really getting off on how much she was going to give me and as she tried it out and see that she could go for it she really let go. she actually came 6 times whilst shagging me and that was the most amazing time i have ever had for strap on play. the thing about width as well means that it is a much more overwhelming experience as i am consumed by all the feelings inside as opposed to around my ring piece 
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