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ORIGINAL: cloudboy

To put it in crass terms, because its basically a crass question, its the equivalent of asking, if you could drive any car in the world, what would it be?

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ORIGINAL: yourMissTress

The sub of my dreams would be the one that I connect with mentally, emotionally, and spiritually. The one that is open minded and generous with his thoughts and feelings. Thier body, their service, and their time are all tangible and valuable, but nothing surpasses thier heart and soul. The things that they can't physically hand over to me, the things that require the utmost trust and faith...that is what I want from a sub. [/font] [/color]

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ORIGINAL: cloudboy


Dear Mistresses,

Is there a particular kind of Male whose submission particulary excites you? Examples:

1. The POWER PROFESSIONAL: He makes a six figure salary, he owns impressive property, he makes high stakes decisions in the business, legal, or government world --- he manages many people underneath him --- to the outside world his is a leader, commander, and authority figure But he is your submissive to tie up, spank, strap into a chastity device, and do with as you wish.

2. The STUD ATHLETE: He is over six feet tall, muscular, well endowed, athletic, and good looking. He is the football / basketball player type. But he is your submissive to tie up, spank, strap into a chastity device, and do with as you wish.

3. The BRILLIANT ARTIST : He excels at some form of studio (sculpture, paintings, photography) or is a design wizard. He puts on shows in NY and LA and his work is reviewed by the New Yorker. But he is your submissive to tie up, spank, strap into a chastity device, and do with as you wish.

4. The HUMANITIES WIZARD: He has a professorial mind, is fluent in French and Russian, he travels the world, lectures on literature and culture, hosts the Cinema Series at your local art theater, and makes conversation like no one you've ever encountered before. Students hang on his every word, a recommendation from him propells young minds into prestigious graduate schools. But he is your submissive to tie up, spank, strap into a chastity device, and do with as you wish.

5. THE WELL ADJUSTED DILLETANTE: He has a good job, he's athletic but not overly studly, he reads about 5-6 books a year, takes in about 25 films a year, and he can go to the Amusement Park or the Symphony ---- finding satisfaction in each. He doesn't have any awards or shake the world off its axis --- but he can go anywhere and fit reasonably well into the surroundings and the company. But he is your submissive to tie up, spank, strap into a chastity device, and do with as you wish.

6. THE INTROVERTED SOMEWHAT MALADJUSTED GEEK: He has a brilliant mind for math, computers, chess and problem solving, but he's not to skilled with people or social with them. In your hands, you can make him do anything you want. He's your's to mold, and he is your submissive to tie up, spank, strap into a chastity device, and do with as you wish.

7. THE MALE MODEL: He makes Jude Law, Pierce Brosnon, and Johny Depp all look like piggish peasants. He is Mr. Magazine cover, Man extraordinaire. He attracts female attention by merely breathing and sipping coffee. But, he's your's to mold, and he is your submissive to tie up, spank, strap into a chastity device, and do with as you wish.

8. Other

Question #1: So, if you could choose from one of the above, who would it be and why? If your fantasy sub is not listed, describe who it would be and why that type would excite you the most.

Question #2: Which sub above least interests you and why? Who is your anti-sub?

Question #3: If you had to list subs 1-6 in order of preference, how would you list them?

Question #4: If you could pick the age of your dream submissive, what would it be?

Note: Yes, this is like a cheesy COSMO poll, still, I plead for you to let go.

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ORIGINAL: AAkasha


Why settle for one?
I am fortunate to be with a man who is a combination of all except for 1 and 3 (there's only room in the relationship for one career-person). But he doesn't have the negative qualities (introverted? no way.)

Akasha

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ORIGINAL: cloudboy

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ORIGINAL: AAkasha


Why settle for one?
I am fortunate to be with a man who is a combination of all except for 1 and 3 (there's only room in the relationship for one career-person). But he doesn't have the negative qualities (introverted? no way.)

Akasha

I, too, think two (2) "power careers" in the same relationship is bad. Not sure if I read you right, but there's a hint that introverted is negative, where if I was to speak for myself, I'd be more likely (but not guaranteed) to dislike an extrovert.

Why settle, why choose? I suppose the presupposition is you can't have everything in one person. So the problem is one of tradeoffs.

In closing, thank you for participating in this crass question. I'm not sure you addressed what I was hoping to find out, though, which was what sub would you get off on dominating most. Where would you get your greatest domination fix? Who you would find more arousing, more exciting to WHIP? From what I see, you and maybe the others too are speaking more to what sub would you really bond with and get into. Maybe this is a distinction without difference.

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ORIGINAL: MHOO314

If I am not into him, I don't give a damn to hear him beg--smiles---so the distinction to Me is the same--however, there are those that I would dearly love to take a bullwhip to---but as I have discovered with those--you tie them to a tree, beat the tree and walk away----smiles

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ORIGINAL: cloudboy

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ORIGINAL: MHOO314

If I am not into him, I don't give a damn to hear him beg--smiles---so the distinction to Me is the same--however, there are those that I would dearly love to take a bullwhip to---but as I have discovered with those--you tie them to a tree, beat the tree and walk away----smiles

Yes, and this means you are not too well suited for the human commodities market. I had dinner with three ladies the other night, ages 40, 42, and 50ish. Two were single, one by divorce and the other a widow, and the third married late (age 40.) To some degree these women were talking like I wasn't there, meaning they were being rather open about dating, sizing up men, finding a match, and decoding relationship signals. Under this umbrella came out the TALL PREFERENCE.

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Anyway, after departing their company, it occured to me why I wasn't quite 'the catch' in High School, wherein I was pint sized as a freshman (85 llbs.) Kind of funny.

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It occurred to me that "these women don't know how to talk to men." Or..."men are so difficult, women find it impossible to talk to them." Or.... "Women don't really want to talk to men, rather they prefer to talk about men with other ladies...."

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truly felt I was in another universe. And the poor men or should I say ladies ---- THE EXPECTATIONS -- THE HOPES!!! to find it all (money, social compatibility, sexual attraction, timing, committment, values, matching life puzzles, etc.) in one, single, solitary, flawed,

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Right," I thought, "two of you were married, look at you. The other one, well she is reviled by his children, yep lucky to be married. I wonder what they'd say if I told'em, yes, I'm married, but I'm married with permission..."

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ORIGINAL: AAkasha

4. The HUMANITIES WIZARD: He has a professorial mind, is fluent in French and Russian, he travels the world, lectures on literature and culture, hosts the Cinema Series at your local art theater, and makes conversation like no one you've ever encountered before. Students hang on his every word, a recommendation from him propells young minds into prestigious graduate schools. But he is your submissive to tie up, spank, strap into a chastity device, and do with as you wish.