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Reciprocate when promised ( photos ) - 2/12/2009 3:08:48 PM   
thehelp


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Status: offline 		When you contact someone asking for face photos, and promise to send one in return, the return photo should show your face. Duh. It should not be of you looking behind you & away from the camera. Also, photos on profiles should be of the same person, and that person is generally expected to be you. Seems obvious, but it evidently needs saying. Unfortunately, I'm no longer likely to respond with photos nor post any. A few bad apples ruin the barrel. Its too bad.
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RE: Reciprocate when promised ( photos ) - 2/12/2009 3:11:38 PM   
Lockit


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Status: offline 		Who are you helping or why do you feel the need to say it?  Why tell us?

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RE: Reciprocate when promised ( photos ) - 2/12/2009 3:12:55 PM   
DiurnalVampire


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Status: offline 		Photos on the profile can be you, they can be showing off your bondage, your equipment, former or current partners...

Granted its a little annoying if someone asks for a face pic and then doesnt reciprocate... but there is no rule saying you have to go along with it either. Next time, why not say "you first?"

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RE: Reciprocate when promised ( photos ) - 2/12/2009 3:13:32 PM   
RedMagic1


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Status: offline 		Putting it in his profile or journal would be too logical.  It's better to start a thread that makes a statement instead of asking a question.  That's a good way to impress people.

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RE: Reciprocate when promised ( photos ) - 2/12/2009 3:39:00 PM   
MarcEsadrian


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quote:

ORIGINAL: thehelp

When you contact someone asking for face photos, and promise to send one in return, the return photo should show your face. Duh. It should not be of you looking behind you & away from the camera. Also, photos on profiles should be of the same person, and that person is generally expected to be you. Seems obvious, but it evidently needs saying. Unfortunately, I'm no longer likely to respond with photos nor post any. A few bad apples ruin the barrel. Its too bad.


With all respect, that's not a good reason to stop sending your photos or make them unavailable. Basing what you do upon the actions of others is no way to live or socialize.

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RE: Reciprocate when promised ( photos ) - 2/12/2009 3:40:20 PM   
DarkQc


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Status: offline 		I'm sure that's frustrating but would you really want a photo from someone who acts that way? Perhaps we need to implement a photo escrow service.

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RE: Reciprocate when promised ( photos ) - 2/12/2009 3:43:48 PM   
BondageBarbieX


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Status: offline 		I have my settings so I see only profiles with photos and I do not return messages to profiles with out photos.

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RE: Reciprocate when promised ( photos ) - 2/12/2009 3:44:11 PM   
Jeptha


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ORIGINAL: DarkQc
... Perhaps we need to implement a photo escrow service.

An interesting idea.
Negotiations often do falter at that point, before they get started.

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RE: Reciprocate when promised ( photos ) - 2/12/2009 3:47:07 PM   
feydeplume


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Status: offline 		I offer to act as the escrow account. I just got a new BIG hard drive and i never get cock shots (pout). As a plus, I have poor facial recognition, so i won't know it's you when i see you in person!


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RE: Reciprocate when promised ( photos ) - 2/12/2009 3:52:33 PM   
persephonee


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Status: offline 		feye...remember the ole chestnut about never saying never to a Dom?....you just got yerself into quite a pickle there...id help you out, but i print out all the cock shots i get and then record myself shredding them and then send that back....

...thats what im supposed to do with them, isnt it?

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RE: Reciprocate when promised ( photos ) - 2/12/2009 4:13:13 PM   
feydeplume


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Status: offline 		*snort* darn and that was the last of my white grape juice. Time for more seran wrap or my laptop!

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RE: Reciprocate when promised ( photos ) - 2/12/2009 4:54:05 PM   
DesFIP


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Status: offline 		Why not be glad that they show how incompatible they are early on? Now you don't have to waste more time with someone you couldn't form a relationship with.

Beyond that, why not ask about their feelings towards exchanging photos and see if they need more time than you are willing to wait. Because if the first email is a funny one liner, the second one is too early to demand a face shot. Are you talking to them, or want to know if they turn you on enough to start talking first? Because women frequently want a sense of beginning compatibility before they are willing to give out pictures. Maybe go at their pace and see if you get better responses.

Or continue to make them uncomfortable and not get what you want, and have the satisfaction of calling them all fake.

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RE: Reciprocate when promised ( photos ) - 2/12/2009 5:09:15 PM   
DarkSteven


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Status: offline 		I guess I'm missing the point.  It takes me two minutes to send a face pic.

If someone doesn't reciprocate, a polite reminder may be in order.

To be very blunt, thehelp, you're a male sub looking for a Domme, like a whole bunch of others.  Posting here and whining and lecturing us on proper protocol will not help your chances of getting a Domme one bit.


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RE: Reciprocate when promised ( photos ) - 2/12/2009 8:45:36 PM   
kdsub


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Status: offline 		You are always taking a chance with photos...Even if they sent one how can you be sure it is really them?...Believe me this happens often.

Are you not here to take a chance?... Like the rest of us you will need to hope for the honest and sincere and deal with the liars.

If you don’t take that chance how can you expect Collerme to serve your purposes?

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RE: Reciprocate when promised ( photos ) - 2/13/2009 11:02:30 AM   
Jeptha


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quote:

ORIGINAL: feydeplume

I offer to act as the escrow account. I just got a new BIG hard drive and i never get cock shots (pout). As a plus, I have poor facial recognition, so i won't know it's you when i see you in person!


*must...get....new.....hobby*

I'd consider that. I'd much rather send a photo to you than directly to someone who wrote to me; "saw ur ad please sendpic" ...

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