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What are sesations and experiences you find most enrich... - 2/12/2009 6:31:40 PM

underlimited

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I think we can all agree that BDSM provides a huge amount of feelings, experiences, and sensations one can feel. I am curious to find out Dominant/submissive sensations and experiences they find most enriching in their relationship (but also play), switches are welcome too.

If you can shed some light on psychological aspects, or describing it creatively, even better! I am trying to write an essay on this.

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RE: What are sesations and experiences you find most en... - 2/12/2009 6:40:44 PM

Aileen1968

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I get the most intense mental and physical reactions from having no control and no choices. Being bound and at his mercy is overwhelming to me and makes my brain go fuzzy. As does being told that I will endure whatever he feels like inflicting on me for the simple fact that he finds it extremely pleasing. It all works in my brain to make me desire him more and more.

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RE: What are sesations and experiences you find most en... - 2/12/2009 7:20:14 PM

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I had to stop fucking cuz my dick was sore.....One of my favorite cessations of all time. It felt good to stop but the bitch was still jonezing for my dick!

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RE: What are sesations and experiences you find most en... - 2/12/2009 7:26:00 PM

DisenchantedLife

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OMG its DOMIGUY!

Jesus..... please protect me from your followers

lol

double lol.......

I just saw its still there, but didnt see it a minute ago.

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RE: What are sesations and experiences you find most en... - 2/12/2009 7:28:33 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: domiguy

I had to stop fucking cuz my dick was sore.....One of my favorite cessations of all time. It felt good to stop but the bitch was still jonezing for my dick!

Well, if ya cant cut the mustard, let her find a Hot Dog that can! Ya know?

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RE: What are sesations and experiences you find most en... - 2/12/2009 7:44:26 PM

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I have always loved pain and for the longest time have considered myself a masochist who loves the feeling of the whip administered by a Strong Dominant Woman.

Recently I became a slave to a Woman who uses my enjoyment of pain as a reward which is great but She has also opened up a lot of feelings within me that i only had an inkling existed within me. Since I have been Hers She has trained me to have a Pavlovian response to Her approval. I find myself doing more and more for Her and submitting further into Her world just so I can get her "good boy" rewards.

I love the feeling of having pleased Her and Her response to same. It is such a rewarding experience for me to be able to garner Her approval and I become very happy when I have pleased Her.

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RE: What are sesations and experiences you find most en... - 2/12/2009 8:43:58 PM

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quote:

describing it creatively,

Ah, you need your essay written for you. I charge for that.

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RE: What are sesations and experiences you find most en... - 2/12/2009 8:49:40 PM

chezzy71

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I am head over heels for my Mistress...there is no greater sensation that that.

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RE: What are sesations and experiences you find most en... - 2/12/2009 9:02:44 PM

lusciouslips19

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quote:

ORIGINAL: chezzy71

I am head over heels for my Mistress...there is no greater sensation that that.

And her for you .Just so long as you keep paying her tribute. But all you who wants a slice, your membership is such a deal at 24.95 a month membership!

edited cause: sorry I was referring to Love2servexx

< Message edited by lusciouslips19 -- 2/12/2009 9:07:58 PM >

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RE: What are sesations and experiences you find most en... - 2/12/2009 9:30:19 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: antipode

quote:

describing it creatively,

Ah, you need your essay written for you. I charge for that.

**laughs** I had the same thought!

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RE: What are sesations and experiences you find most en... - 2/12/2009 9:56:50 PM

alicexlikesxacid

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For me, the most powerful feeling and erotic sensation is simply when He pulls on my collar. i love my collar, and i love the way it feels against my neck when i'm outside proudly wearing it.
i also love the way He looks at me when He is intensely pleased with me; or the looks He gives me when He think i'm not paying attention.
i love the way it feels when He is spanking me and turning my butt to jelly and i'm across His lap... Especially when His member twitches.
When He orders me into positions just to have me that way because it pleases Him.
When He attaches the leash to my collar and has me crawl behind Him.
When He simply holds me and gently pets me.
When He kisses me.
When He tells me He loves me.
Simply, i love Him, and everything He does to/for/with me is a sensation and experience that i find completely enriching.

Personally, i agree with the above who thinks he is just trying to get U/us to write his essay for him.
If he can use what i posted, good for him.
i personally found this post relaxing and gratifying. It was nice to put into text what i was feeling, and to remind myself partially why i love my Master.
Of course the above isn't the only reasons, nor the most important.

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RE: What are sesations and experiences you find most en... - 2/12/2009 10:28:27 PM

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When I'm pierced and suspended on the meat hook, the initial pain gives way to shock and the quiet
almost peaceful trembling of my limbs. The gasps for air disallow even the slightest plead for mercy,
as my throat closes tightly, then billows in intense panicked rushes. My skin becomes moist and
molten, perspiration teases my brow then slips along the furrow, landing with stinging laughter
into my eye. For the briefest of moments, the catastrophic waves of throbbing intensity crashing
between my shoulder blades as metal kisses flesh, require minimal respite. I wince from the salty
burn inflicted against tender cornea, as the slight movement of my quivering body reignites the
exquisite lash of cold steel as she seduces torn flesh. The breath whispering in my ear is not my own.

The putrid scent of smoldering flesh rises faster and stronger than the realization brought forth of
flaming embers devouring at gluttons feast. Tender the flesh, tender the night, tender the silent
screams of moonlights darkest dreams. The fire burns brighter, melting resistance, tendrils of
softened skin flow forth pausing to hang in mid air, then as teardrops, splash into pools of surrender.
Crackling bursts to awaken a slumbering mind, which pleads for the cackles of their laughter,
that I might know the comfort as the glistening shimmer of blood spilled, resonates in adoration.

Splitting the sanity, the old victrola weaves melodious moans among the rigid rafters of nightfall.
They bellow in darkness, guttural rolls of merriment stabbing my unconscious consciousness.
I am serenaded as they deem worthy. Joy of their hearts as lyric rises in harmony to my screams.

"Baby baby don't get hooked on me"
"Baby baby don't get hooked on me"
"Cause I'll just use you then I'll set you free"
"Baby baby don't get hooked on me"

And they laugh as they sing along with Mac.

How's that.

chia* (the pet)

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RE: What are sesations and experiences you find most en... - 2/13/2009 3:11:39 AM

malloves69

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love strapon play and being fisted by my mistress

once she slides in that feeling is amazing

and when she goes in deeper im all hers until shes done with me

we do alot of awesome things together ....another one call me crazy but i love when a mistress uses sounds on me

to feel that as it slowly slides into my cockhole until its allin that feeling is pretty erotic indeed

being fisted and sounds are great ways to submit to a woman i must say ....the vibrating sounds once its in can really cause some pretty hot sensations indeed

love when she slowly fucks my cockhole with the sounds ...not too long just long enough to let me know whos in charged

have fun ..mal both holes at 1 time i thought were exit only holes a male has but with the right woman boy that sure can be wrong as they take them from you and have fun with playing with them until they take your virginity away

open me up mistress im all yours ...smile

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RE: What are sesations and experiences you find most en... - 2/13/2009 3:32:54 AM

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hi

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RE: What are sesations and experiences you find most en... - 2/13/2009 3:53:45 AM

MG4Apuppygirl

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Don't waste your ink. It has been done to death. In any case you can't justify writing an essay unless you have physically experienced what you want to write about.

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RE: What are sesations and experiences you find most en... - 2/13/2009 4:43:31 AM

feydeplume

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Post 12-15 should not be read by people that spent too much time studying/appreciating surreal movement. Chia, as always your purple crayon rawks. And Hi there to Mr. Random.

Just for a moment picture Chia with a follow spot pulling a "poor Yorick I knew him well" while dangling from a suspension harness. As Chia pauses *meaningfully* every few lines Mallove69, dressed as a CanCan girl pranced back and forth joyously crying out his lines (with or without the kicks, your choice). A sudden pause, stage goes dark, and lovellyaman in suit and tie appears on a balcony a la Juiet, says his bit, lights off. And the sound track suggested by Chia kicks in for the end of the scene.

Talk about performance art.

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RE: What are sesations and experiences you find most en... - 2/13/2009 6:13:43 AM

lusciouslips19

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quote:

ORIGINAL: malloves69

love strapon play and being fisted by my mistress once she slides in that feeling is amazing and when she goes in deeper im all hers until shes done with me we do alot of awesome things together ....another one call me crazy but i love when a mistress uses sounds on me to feel that as it slowly slides into my cockhole until its allin that feeling is pretty erotic indeed being fisted and sounds are great ways to submit to a woman i must say ....the vibrating sounds once its in can really cause some pretty hot sensations indeed love when she slowly fucks my cockhole with the sounds ...not too long just long enough to let me know whos in charged have fun ..mal both holes at 1 time i thought were exit only holes a male has but with the right woman boy that sure can be wrong as they take them from you and have fun with playing with them until they take your virginity away open me up mistress im all yours ...smile

Ya know. I dont know about others but your postings can be quite annoying. I can wonder if its a realtionship at all. maybe just fanttasy as you appear to stil be looking on your profile. After all this is the only thing you ever post on is fisting or strap on. Its down right boring and one dimensional that this is all you ever talk about.

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RE: What are sesations and experiences you find most en... - 2/13/2009 6:22:54 AM

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To the OP. You have to have your own experiences and then perhaps you may want to write about then. I could sit here and describe in detail how Hemp felt as I was tied ip Shibari style, or the sting of a bug zapper. I can tell you of paddlings or even the fire cupping and breath play from the weeked. But they are My experiences. Go out and get your own and then if you choose you can write about it.

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RE: What are sesations and experiences you find most en... - 2/13/2009 6:45:31 AM

feydeplume

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quote:

If you can shed some light on psychological aspects, or describing it creatively, even better! I am trying to write an essay on this.

there is another thread, just a day or two ago about the psychological aspects of pain and humiliation. Perhaps you can start you paper there. Also you can use that cute little "search" feature provided by the lovely people that let us play here and see how many times this topic has come up and how many ways it has been answered. That way YOU can write you paper and learn something from the research as well.

I hope that doesn't sound bitchy, nah bitchy is fine. do you research, it's your paper. If it is an interview paper, then do your research and approach individuals to interview.

sigh.

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RE: What are sesations and experiences you find most en... - 2/13/2009 6:47:43 AM

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So tell us all mallloves69, just exactly how those "vibrating" sounds feel when they are shoved in the eye of your penis, up into your bladder. Do you piss all over your mistress when she is fucking you ever so slowly with them?

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