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taziesubguy -> Experiences of female superiority in real life.. (2/16/2009 3:59:46 AM)

I think humiliation was what lead me to realize that i am a sub. in my
childhood. one of the few such incidents was in my school days, when
most of the times we guys lost to the girls team in the usual boys vs
girls sports tussles in school ..after these defeats the usual
bragging by the girls were on and we guys were badly teased and
"humiliated" every time we lost to the girls .. these were my first
experiences of female superiority and males inferiority in my life
.. I just love to watch wherever females beat males , whether it is
on a sports field or in a work place or in a reality tv show and its
started to be kind of accepted everywhere now .Initially i remember i
dint liked girls winning in my childhood but slowly and surely i
started accepting that females are truly the superior sex and i was
lucky that i learnt it quite early in my life ..I think thats how I
accepted and loved the concept of female supremacy and female
domination in my life and i feel so lucky that i learnt my lessons so
early in life. Did anyone here too had similar experiences of female domination in real life. Would love to hear such experiences and celebrate female domination and supremacy.. cheers..




MoGa -> RE: Experiences of female superiority in real life.. (2/16/2009 4:24:50 AM)

Female supremacy [:'(] 
 
Sorry I can't say more.
 
MoGa




chezzy71 -> RE: Experiences of female superiority in real life.. (2/16/2009 4:43:42 AM)

Just the opposite in my life.Most of the girls had a strong Catholic upbringing and Italian parents..need i say more.My dad was so strong physically he could and did carry an old refrigerator on his back up two filghts of stairs  and i am talking something that needed at least two guys to move.The point??Mom was the strongest of the two and quite frankly,ran the house.As for the girls i grew up with,of course there were a couple who went against the grain so to speak...they really enjoyed beating on the guys and yes..roping them up once in awhile.I wonder if they are lifestylers today??..No matter.




subtlebutterfly -> RE: Experiences of female superiority in real life.. (2/16/2009 4:50:44 AM)

oh the bloody "I'm a sub because that's what the upbringing made me become" always makes me want to become dominant.. and the bloody female supremacy always makes me want to throw up[:'(] wohoooooo lets throw a party because the females won wohooo $&#&"%%"%#&%$/)(!!




CatdeMedici -> RE: Experiences of female superiority in real life.. (2/16/2009 6:02:48 AM)

That's awesome that you can define where, when and how it came about--bravo! I would be careful though in not equating FemDom with Female Supremacy--its not the same--though there are FemDom FemSup Dominas out there, there are just as many who aren't---as you can see--tread carefully in that department.

edited to add a t to read, not enough coffee this morning




littlesarbonn -> RE: Experiences of female superiority in real life.. (2/16/2009 6:46:08 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: CatdeMedici

That's awesome that you can define where, when and how it came about--bravo! I would be careful though in not equating FemDom with Female Supremacy--its not the same--though there are FemDom FemSup Dominas out there, there are just as many who aren't---as you can see--read carefully in that department.


Not only that, but female supremacy is also NOT female superiority. It can be, but that does not make it always be. Some people use the terms interchangeably, and that forces a lot of supremacists into a category that they don't necessarily belong in or desire. This is part of the reason why I rarely get involved in debates or discussions over this part of femdom activity, because people keep trying to paint me into a corner where I don't actually exist.




MsFlutter -> RE: Experiences of female superiority in real life.. (2/16/2009 7:47:45 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: CatdeMedici

....I would be careful though in not equating FemDom with Female Supremacy--its not the same--though there are FemDom FemSup Dominas out there, there are just as many who aren't---as you can see--tread carefully in that department....

edited to add a t to read, not enough coffee this morning


Oooo - thank you, Cat - now you can start a discussion of FemDom/FemSup - I would find that very educational !




chezzy71 -> RE: Experiences of female superiority in real life.. (2/16/2009 8:26:19 AM)

I have been giving this some thought for awhile...now before i say what i am about to,i am not very experienced in titles given to others,or what the protocol may be.I didn't want to hijack the thread to make another so i will ask this question...does a submissive like myself have to believe in female superiority??I don't know the exact definition but it would seem to me that like male superiority,the title wreaks of inequality.I am openly submissive and will submit freely and have for that matter to Mistress Cat as i am in training.With that said,i know in my heart who is in control but i also believe in my heart that we are equals as we pave our way through all the pitfalls and great things that make up a relationship.If one is made to feel inferior to another,how can you have a growing relationship???Please be kind in your responses..i am not out to hurt anyone's feelings.




iSyllogism -> RE: Experiences of female superiority in real life.. (2/16/2009 9:48:22 AM)

Personally I don't relate to this at all.




Lockit -> RE: Experiences of female superiority in real life.. (2/16/2009 9:53:02 AM)

What is superior about beating someone up(?)... just about anyone can do that! lol  They have to perform miracles to be superior in my mind.




DVsFox -> RE: Experiences of female superiority in real life.. (2/16/2009 10:05:43 AM)

I love female dominance, because I am in a very successful and very happy female-led relationship.

I hate female supremacy, because I feel it minimizes female dominants.  It basically states that a women doesn't lead/control/dominate man because of her own personal strength, her integrity, her intoxicating warmth, or her intelligence....rather that she's in control for no other reason than she has a vagina.  That's all she needs to be dominant, apparently.  She's entitled to it!

Just as having a penis doesn't entitle one to being dominant, neither does a vagina.

DV's Fox








Tavane -> RE: Experiences of female superiority in real life.. (2/16/2009 10:29:27 AM)

I also enjoyed "losing to a girl" when I was a child, but it almost never happened, since I was a good athlete, and didn't play with girls. I was aware that I wished I was a girl, so stayed totally away from them, since boys would be merciless if they saw you playing with girls. I knew my mother wished I was a girl, and sometimes she'd try to get me interested in girl things, but I rejected it totally, because I was ashamed of my desires, and tried to obliterate them.

You are born with desires, whatever they are, but sometimes don't understand them.  I didn't equate my enjoyment at "female superiority" (losing to a girl or whatever) with being submissive, since I had no idea that such a thing existed. It would be like a man raised who never saw a female, so would have no idea he would be excited by one; but once he saw his first one, his life would change totally. I never thought about it in terms of wanting to be the slave of a female, since I never imagined such a thing existed, but if a girl wanted to do something to me, like comb my hair, or read my palm, or whatever, (being in control of me), I experienced great, but undefined, pleasure, and never understood it until I was many many years into being an adult, and realized that mistress/slave relationsips existed.

When I was in the Army, I got lucky, and was transferred from the infantry to a clerk school, and then an advanced clerk school, where I was the distinguished graduate, and I had a college degree. Our entire class was ordcred to Vietnam (the first time anyone from that school was sent to the war). Then a female officer called me in for an interview,and I had no idea what that was about, so just answered her questions. I was a bit uncomfortable with being so subservient to a woman, having to say "yes ma'am", and stuff, but did feel pleasure from it, too.  Then I was told that she liked me, and was going to have my orders changed, so I'd not to to Vietnam, and would be her secretary for my entire time in the Army. I was embarrassed at the idea of being a woman's secretary, since those were sexist times, and I was as educated as she was, and you need to be totally subordinate in the military, all the time, which I hated. She tried her best, but was unable to change my orders, and I went to  Vietnam, and in a way I was relieved, because of my male ego, but from a submissive point of view, the idea gave me immense plesaure, which I didn't understand.




eponavet -> RE: Experiences of female superiority in real life.. (2/16/2009 10:48:41 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: DVsFox

I love female dominance, because I am in a very successful and very happy female-led relationship.

I hate female supremacy, because I feel it minimizes female dominants.  It basically states that a women doesn't lead/control/dominate man because of her own personal strength, her integrity, her intoxicating warmth, or her intelligence....rather that she's in control for no other reason than she has a vagina.  That's all she needs to be dominant, apparently.  She's entitled to it!

Just as having a penis doesn't entitle one to being dominant, neither does a vagina.

DV's Fox







Interesting post....you put it into a perspective i had not thought about, because admittedly, i know very little - to nothing - about it.  Thanks.[:)]




taziesubguy -> RE: Experiences of female superiority in real life.. (2/16/2009 11:42:51 AM)

Thanks a lot for at least one simple straight answer otherwise what you get here at CM is some unrelated answers which are way different then what you expect at  the start of the thread.. I started a simple thread which said " experiences of female superiority in real life" and what  i clearly meant by that was, has anyone else also has  gone through similar experiences like mine and whether anyone else also enjoys battles with opposite sex where females come on top ..as simple as that.. i enjoy such experiences and would like to ask everyone here that "am i entitled to feel the way i feel and enjoy" or is there someways better then others.. people who do not enjoy female domination in this way or who do not enjoy female supremacy in such a way should have avoided this thread please, because i am getting some very weird answers where few people are trying to define the words "female supremacy" and " female domination" and everyone has their own version of the same. I have studied bit more then what i have enjoyed in my life and for god sake i am tired of legal definitions in my life now..I would also like to give an advice to others , as i have received the same through this thread now and that is- people who are more into definitions should pursue with further studies. Please give me my right to be happy and please everyone have "smile on their faces" cause thats whats most imp. in life .. cheers .. lol..

quote:

ORIGINAL: Tavane

I also enjoyed "losing to a girl" when I was a child, but it almost never happened, since I was a good athlete, and didn't play with girls. I was aware that I wished I was a girl, so stayed totally away from them, since boys would be merciless if they saw you playing with girls. I knew my mother wished I was a girl, and sometimes she'd try to get me interested in girl things, but I rejected it totally, because I was ashamed of my desires, and tried to obliterate them.

You are born with desires, whatever they are, but sometimes don't understand them.  I didn't equate my enjoyment at "female superiority" (losing to a girl or whatever) with being submissive, since I had no idea that such a thing existed. It would be like a man raised who never saw a female, so would have no idea he would be excited by one; but once he saw his first one, his life would change totally. I never thought about it in terms of wanting to be the slave of a female, since I never imagined such a thing existed, but if a girl wanted to do something to me, like comb my hair, or read my palm, or whatever, (being in control of me), I experienced great, but undefined, pleasure, and never understood it until I was many many years into being an adult, and realized that mistress/slave relationsips existed.

When I was in the Army, I got lucky, and was transferred from the infantry to a clerk school, and then an advanced clerk school, where I was the distinguished graduate, and I had a college degree. Our entire class was ordcred to Vietnam (the first time anyone from that school was sent to the war). Then a female officer called me in for an interview,and I had no idea what that was about, so just answered her questions. I was a bit uncomfortable with being so subservient to a woman, having to say "yes ma'am", and stuff, but did feel pleasure from it, too.  Then I was told that she liked me, and was going to have my orders changed, so I'd not to to Vietnam, and would be her secretary for my entire time in the Army. I was embarrassed at the idea of being a woman's secretary, since those were sexist times, and I was as educated as she was, and you need to be totally subordinate in the military, all the time, which I hated. She tried her best, but was unable to change my orders, and I went to  Vietnam, and in a way I was relieved, because of my male ego, but from a submissive point of view, the idea gave me immense plesaure, which I didn't understand.





Lashra -> RE: Experiences of female superiority in real life.. (2/16/2009 12:27:03 PM)

I do not believe in female supremacy anymore than I believe in male supremacy. I do not think what a person has between their legs makes them "supreme" it is what they have between their ears that does.

My Father used to tell me a story about his Aunt who was a very lively woman with a big heart and always laughed. He said that he and his brothers used to play football on their farm and whenever they picked teams they would end up fighting over who got his Aunt on their side. Because as he said "She was tougher than any man I played against, she'd chase you and throw you down hard enough to knock the wind outta you.". No touch football for Auntie, she was the tackling type. [:D]

~Lashra




Tavane -> RE: Experiences of female superiority in real life.. (2/16/2009 2:14:29 PM)

Males and females are equal, except as to size, aggression, and physical strength, and that's just a generalization, with many exceptions. I don't see how anyone can contest that. There are some types tasks which males or females are "better" at, but again, these are gross generalizations, with lots of exceptions. They don't permit women to be combat soldiers, which makes no sense, since many women exist who are bigger, stronger, and more aggressive than lots of men. I was only 5'8" and 120 lbs when I got drafted, and they had no problem making me a combat soldier. I remember wondering if I'd escape the draft because I was underweight/too slender, but they looked at me in my underpants and put for my body build, "medium." LOL. I don't believe women should be drafted, but do believe that if a woman actually wants to live that terrible life, then she should be able to do it. 




taziesubguy -> RE: Experiences of female superiority in real life.. (2/16/2009 6:15:31 PM)

My thread has nothing to say about female supremacy or female domination but simply to the fact that i love instances where women come on top and i really love it..nothing wrong with that i hope ..would love to hear if any domme or a sub too enjoys it ..as simple as that, nothing complex please..lol..



quote:

ORIGINAL: Lashra

I do not believe in female supremacy anymore than I believe in male supremacy. I do not think what a person has between their legs makes them "supreme" it is what they have between their ears that does.

My Father used to tell me a story about his Aunt who was a very lively woman with a big heart and always laughed. He said that he and his brothers used to play football on their farm and whenever they picked teams they would end up fighting over who got his Aunt on their side. Because as he said "She was tougher than any man I played against, she'd chase you and throw you down hard enough to knock the wind outta you.". No touch football for Auntie, she was the tackling type. [:D]

~Lashra





beeble -> RE: Experiences of female superiority in real life.. (2/17/2009 3:40:06 AM)

quote:

Tavane wrote:
Males and females are equal, except as to size, aggression, and physical strength, and that's just a generalization, with many exceptions. [...] I don't believe women should be drafted...

This seems to be floating dangerously close to a contradiction, unless either
  1. women being generally smaller, less aggressive and less physically stronger, are generally unsuited to soldiery; or
  2. you don't believe that men should be drafted, either.
Personally, I don't see why I, a lightly-built non-aggressive person should be drafted because I have a penis, while a lightly-built non-aggressive person with a vagina wouldn't get drafted.

beeble.




beeble -> RE: Experiences of female superiority in real life.. (2/17/2009 3:49:49 AM)

quote:

taziesubguy wrote: My thread has nothing to say about female supremacy or female domination...

Um.  Dude?  Here's your first post from the thread.  Emphasis mine.
quote:

... slowly and surely i started accepting that females are truly the superior sex and i was lucky that i learnt it quite early in my life ..I think thats how I accepted and loved the concept of female supremacy and female domination in my life and i feel so lucky that i learnt my lessons so early in life. Did anyone here too had similar experiences of female domination in real life. Would love to hear such experiences and celebrate female domination and supremacy.




OttersSwim -> RE: Experiences of female superiority in real life.. (2/17/2009 6:21:20 AM)

He wants experiences, and is instead getting opinions...tells you something about the subject I guess.  [;)]




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