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Females on top in real life.. - 2/17/2009 8:50:55 PM

taziesubguy

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I started a thread and got varied answers to the question of female superiority .. so here i have simple queries..
Right from my childhood I think humiliation was what lead me to realize that i am a sub... in my early school days, most of the times we guys lost to the girls team in the usual boys vs
girls sports tussles ..after these defeats the usual
bragging by the girls were on and we guys were badly teased and
"humiliated" every time we lost to the girls .. these were my first
experiences of female superiority in my life..
.. I just love to watch wherever females beat males , whether it is
on a sports field or in a work place or in a reality tv show and its
started to be kind of accepted everywhere now .Initially i remember i
dint liked girls winning in my childhood when we were humiliated and teased but slowly and surely i
started enjoying it and later loved it..
1) Did anyone here too had similar experiences where women came on top on a sports field or in your work place or somewhere else.
2) As a sub do you enjoy such female superiority over you..( I can understand as a sub we don't need any instances or experiences to feel submissive, but do subs like such instances or not ).
3) As a domme do you like such instances when females are on top and how do you feel when your sub beats you to anyting playful..Is it time for more punishments for him..
Would love to hear any such instances of female on top in your real life or your fantasies on the subject..
thanks.. cheers..

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RE: Females on top in real life.. - 2/17/2009 8:52:33 PM

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Do you have *any* real life experience with a female?

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RE: Females on top in real life.. - 2/17/2009 10:19:35 PM

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I don't play sports. I would absolutely lose a fight, because I don't/can't fight. I occasionally play cards with my brothers, or their friends, and am better than 75% of them, but that's about it. Intellectually, I'm fair to midlin'.
The point I'm trying to make, is that I am a leader when one is required in general, and I take the lead in my relationships, because it's what makes my juices flow. Your experiences, sound to me, like you grew up being a little afraid of your own shadow, and had thin skin in terms of being easily humiliated... Either that or these are fantastic, dang near unbelievable for a grown up who had a mother and women around in his life. M

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RE: Females on top in real life.. - 2/17/2009 10:49:39 PM

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Yes that's what i mentioned in the beginning of my thread.. in those formative years in school the girls tend to be more stronger and bigger then guys their age and most guys must have tasted defeat at the hands of the girls in the school..Could be a tug of war or something else .. it always happen in coed schools .
Fortunately my first girl friend very early in school really enjoyed beating me and later teasing me as she was quite big and athletic .. i used to try my best in those tussles but usually ended up losing to her.. she mad me bow before her and i can still remember her behavior of confidence and arrogance after those wins over me .. i used to hate that a lots at that time and always requested her for a rematch after every defeat but now whenever i see a girl top a guy, i just love it as i am a full fledged sub by now..

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RE: Females on top in real life.. - 2/18/2009 8:26:47 AM

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I didn't beat boys up or be mean to them unless they were a bully and deserved it. However...lol... I did dominante and used sports to do it sometimes. I even told them that if one could run faster than me, they could be my boyfriend. Only one was able to. He showed me he could beat me in something and I respected and liked that. When I played football they made me wear men's boots to slow me down. I even climbed fences... in a dress and could jump, hit a home run, shoot a hoop... you name it and was the only girl allowed to play (sports) with the boys. But... lol... if my antic's in sport's and being able to beat the guys had an effect... I do have to wonder how many realized they were submissive because of it all. lol

Poor lil fella's... come to mama... hehe

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RE: Females on top in real life.. - 2/18/2009 9:27:54 AM

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My ex was really good at pool and always used to beat me. It did turn me on - at first. Later, though, I got irritated by it. However, I found that all I had to do to rattle her game was to compliment her very warmly on her pool-playing-skills. Funny how that works.

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RE: Females on top in real life.. - 2/18/2009 11:14:51 AM

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I've never been on top, I've never been below, I've always been beside. My Domination came from My desire to do things My way and the fact that I could always do it better.

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RE: Females on top in real life.. - 2/18/2009 1:59:24 PM

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I once started chatting to a woman who'd recently got a black belt in karate. She told me that this put men off. Did very, very much the opposite for me

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RE: Females on top in real life.. - 2/22/2009 7:36:13 AM

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I don't play sports. I would absolutely lose a fight, because I don't/can't fight. I occasionally play cards with my brothers, or their friends, and am better than 75% of them, but that's about it. Intellectually, I'm fair to midlin'.
The point I'm trying to make, is that I am a leader when one is required in general, and I take the lead in my relationships, because it's what makes my juices flow. Your experiences, sound to me, like you grew up being a little afraid of your own shadow, and had thin skin in terms of being easily humiliated... Either that or these are fantastic, dang near unbelievable for a grown up who had a mother and women around in his life. M

No no i was never afraid of my own shadow and neither was i ever or am thin skinned .. what i tried to mention in the thread was how i had a fat ego about male masculinity and how i was brought to earth by losing to women in sports tussles in school which initially i hated as it hurt my ego and how once i accepted the supremacy i started liking it ..

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RE: Females on top in real life.. - 2/22/2009 8:14:51 AM

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Hmm...I remember, that in times of my primary school, there was this girl in my class...very tall, very athletic and strong. She was also training karate since she was 6, so boys rarely had any chances with her in sports. And she seemed to enjoy beating them up.

Despite of it, she didn't tease them after their defeats (I think that victory itself was pleasant enough for her ^-^). Unfortunately for boys, other girls weren't that nice and made fun of them everythime they've lost (kids can be so cruel, hihi...^-^).

I haven't noticed any signs of enjoyment in our class-fellows reactions, but it was long time ago. I don't think, that boys in this age like to loose with girls. Especially if we are talking about sports, which are considered a "male domain" ^-^

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RE: Females on top in real life.. - 2/22/2009 8:25:42 AM

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I was in grade school in 1973, when Billie Jean King played Bobby Riggs in the "Battle of the Sexes", and we actually set up a gender-clashing badminton game to settle things "once and for all." The girls won.

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RE: Females on top in real life.. - 2/22/2009 8:52:02 AM

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ORIGINAL: YoursMistress

I was in grade school in 1973, when Billie Jean King played Bobby Riggs in the "Battle of the Sexes", and we actually set up a gender-clashing badminton game to settle things "once and for all." The girls won.

yours

I was too in school when that battle of sexes match took place where a female tennis champ beat an older tennis champ.. i can remember that quite well and also remember i was praying for bobby riggs to beat billie jean king before the match but alas he lost and the girls in school won the bragging rights for quite somewhile..could you eleborate what happened in your school and what prompted the badminton match .. did it excite you by any chance..

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RE: Females on top in real life.. - 2/22/2009 9:00:57 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: taziesubguy

I was too in school when that battle of sexes match took place where a female tennis champ beat an older tennis champ.. i can remember that quite well and also remember i was praying for bobby riggs to beat billie jean king before the match but alas he lost and the girls in school won the bragging rights for quite somewhile..could you eleborate what happened in your school and what prompted the badminton match .. did it excite you by any chance..

Wow, I wish I could remember it more clearly. The guys were all devastated when Bobby lost, and we were so committed to restoring male supremacy. There was the expected trash talk of course, but it was never nasty. And the girls were quite graceful about it, not rubbing it in much at all after they won. In the end it didn't bother me so much to lose, although I had expected it might. Years later, I played in co-ed softball leagues, and never minded getting hit by the girls (not what you think, I was the pitcher, lol).

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RE: Females on top in real life.. - 2/22/2009 9:11:17 AM

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I use to beat guys up in grammer school and I was better then most of them in sports like kick ball and volley ball.
I'm still picking on guys at the drag strip...

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RE: Females on top in real life.. - 2/22/2009 9:16:53 AM

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I wanted bobby to lose simply becasue he was an ass towards women... to the day he died he continued to not see the lesson he should have learned that day so long ago... that had some of us girls beeming. I didn't know as a girl all he was about... but later learned he was a rough talking, women degrading man who never changed. He was a rich, sad and angry man who wanted the world, especially women, under his thumb and wasn't past putting his money out there to obtain it. Which later made me even happier he lost that day. Too bad it didn't shut the fucker up though.

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RE: Females on top in real life.. - 2/22/2009 9:46:31 AM

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I wanted bobby to lose simply becasue he was an ass towards women... to the day he died he continued to not see the lesson he should have learned that day so long ago... that had some of us girls beeming. I didn't know as a girl all he was about... but later learned he was a rough talking, women degrading man who never changed. He was a rich, sad and angry man who wanted the world, especially women, under his thumb and wasn't past putting his money out there to obtain it. Which later made me even happier he lost that day. Too bad it didn't shut the fucker up though.

I wanted him to win because i was a guy and by that time i had not accepted female supremacy and those were one of my early formative experiences of female supremacy in life..you girls must have enjoyed Billie beat bobby..

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RE: Females on top in real life.. - 2/22/2009 9:46:59 AM

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Being a member of the "HeMan Women Haters Club" at the time (I was 12-13), I guess I never realized how hateful and damaging the rhetoric was, Miss Lockit. Some things have changed a great deal since then. Some people haven't. I'm sorry that I wasn't a little more aware and sensitive.

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RE: Females on top in real life.. - 2/22/2009 9:51:42 AM

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YoursMistress... you cannot be blamed for how you thought or felt back then! Of course it is nice to know you found the error of your ways... hehe... and have found a better way of things! lol

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RE: Females on top in real life.. - 2/22/2009 9:54:01 AM

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ORIGINAL: YoursMistress

Being a member of the "HeMan Women Haters Club" at the time (I was 12-13), I guess I never realized how hateful and damaging the rhetoric was, Miss Lockit. Some things have changed a great deal since then. Some people haven't. I'm sorry that I wasn't a little more aware and sensitive.

yours

I also wanted Billie to win and hated to see him lose but now as i have accepted female supremacy , i love the tussles between men and women but love when women come on top.. i love the changes gone through the society over the years cause now days one sees women beating mean at any field .. Btw how did you change to a submissive being a women hate club member and how did you take those defeats of bobby riggs and after that again at the hand of girls in school.. you must be devastated..

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RE: Females on top in real life.. - 2/22/2009 10:01:19 AM

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I wanted bobby to lose simply becasue he was an ass towards women... to the day he died he continued to not see the lesson he should have learned that day so long ago... that had some of us girls beeming. I didn't know as a girl all he was about... but later learned he was a rough talking, women degrading man who never changed. He was a rich, sad and angry man who wanted the world, especially women, under his thumb and wasn't past putting his money out there to obtain it. Which later made me even happier he lost that day. Too bad it didn't shut the fucker up though.

You fell for it, completely. He wanted you to feel that way so he could make money off the hype. He was a supreme hustler. Everything I've ever heard from people who really knew him personally contradict your opinion completely.

Billie Jean King beating Bobby Riggs shouldn't have been victory for women at all. She was one of the best women players in the prime of her career, and he was an old has-been who never could have one a single game against any professional male player. It was Riggs who hyped it up, and created the interest in a match that, for practical purposes, didn't prove anything.
And people always forget that, prior to losing to King, Riggs thoroughly demolished Margaret Court, the #1-ranked woman tennis professional. That's the match that should be remembered.

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