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RedMagic1 -> RE: Define Vanilla, Go On ...... (2/23/2009 9:01:13 PM)
I definitely know masochists who get pierced or inked because they are jonesing for endorphins.

Sfortzando -> RE: Define Vanilla, Go On ...... (2/23/2009 9:04:46 PM)
Ah, but are they a kink for GreedyTop? If they are, we might be able to give her back her CM membership. Otherwise...she's doomed to vanilladome for all of eternity. It's a very serious mater, people.

RedMagic1 -> RE: Define Vanilla, Go On ...... (2/23/2009 9:08:35 PM)
She gets a free pass because she married someone whose idea of "casual dress" would make most of the doms on the site step aside when he walks down the street.

Sfortzando -> RE: Define Vanilla, Go On ...... (2/23/2009 9:14:54 PM)
That's true. That completely negates the 'complete revulsion towards anything about BDSM' clause. Congratulations, GreedyTop! You're not vanilla!

GreedyTop -> RE: Define Vanilla, Go On ...... (2/23/2009 10:03:33 PM)
[sm=alien.gif][sm=mrpuffy.gif][sm=yourock.gif][sm=yahoo.gif][sm=skiprope.gif][sm=pompom.gif]

girlygurl -> RE: Define Vanilla, Go On ...... (2/23/2009 10:20:35 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: MidMichCowboy He was the person who convinced me I was brave enough to go to Rocky Horror Picture show in drag (God knows you won't have to worry about that happening again, I blinded over a dozen people). OK M, I'd love to see pictures of you dressed up for the Rocky Horror Picture show. I bet you looked hawt!! [:)] I did the same thing many years ago with a girlfriend. We had a blast. Labels that have negative connotations are never OK with me, and I realize that this is subjective as we all have our own opinions on what negative is. I didn't realize that "vanilla" was so negative until I read another thread regarding the "label" A label like vanilla as LB said, is simply a jargonistic term and that's how I see it. It's not a bad thing in my opinion.

feydeplume -> RE: Define Vanilla, Go On ...... (2/24/2009 6:17:09 AM)
ok, I give in. I toootally want to see you hawt one now. I know, i know... I just some newbie looking for eyecandy, but with a line like "She gets a free pass because she married someone whose idea of "casual dress" would make most of the doms on the site step aside when he walks down the street" I wanna see his yumminess. would i just perv your profiles? (i tend not to bother looking at profiles because i actually am here for the brains, not the bodies)

RedMagic1 -> RE: Define Vanilla, Go On ...... (2/24/2009 6:19:39 AM)
I tell ya fey, I've been at a few weddings. And the bride is always hot. White dress, glowing happy like the sun... what's not to like, you know? This is the first wedding I've ever attended where uberhetero me said, "Whoa! The groom is smoking, too!"

piratecommander -> RE: Define Vanilla, Go On ...... (2/24/2009 2:54:53 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: feydeplume ok, I give in. I toootally want to see you hawt one now. I know, i know... I just some newbie looking for eyecandy, but with a line like "She gets a free pass because she married someone whose idea of "casual dress" would make most of the doms on the site step aside when he walks down the street" I wanna see his yumminess. would i just perv your profiles? (i tend not to bother looking at profiles because i actually am here for the brains, not the bodies) Perv away, not a problem, and actually, yes, the stepping aside thing happens ... I'm not egotistical, but I am honest and that includes with myself, "casual dress" is hard to achieve if you look through my wardrobe, I have many friends and aquaintances who are understanding yet not "kink" people, the most confusion of onlookers or passers by comes from being in a regular pub with regular looking friends and the "swiped" glances become regular, my non kink friends find it really funny but in a sympathetic way I think. I have brains too if that helps. Pirate

feydeplume -> RE: Define Vanilla, Go On ...... (2/24/2009 3:01:51 PM)
awww you are a cutey! My M doesn't get people to cross the road to avoid him. They stop and stare and then small children ask him why his hair is so blue and their mother's look daggers at me. You are a hawtness, no doubt and lovely legs go a loooong way with me

GreedyTop -> RE: Define Vanilla, Go On ...... (2/24/2009 3:08:48 PM)
He is yummy, isnt he, Fey? grins smooches RM yeah... smokin' hawt indeed! (and thanks for the sweet words about me.. :* )

feydeplume -> RE: Define Vanilla, Go On ...... (2/24/2009 3:11:26 PM)
feel free to perv mine if you want. He only has the one up and it is so not his best pic, but i still heart him

BKSir -> RE: Define Vanilla, Go On ...... (2/24/2009 3:27:51 PM)
Vanilla: /vəˈnɪl[image]http://cache.lexico.com/dictionary/graphics/luna/thinsp.png[/image]ə or, often, -ˈnɛl[image]http://cache.lexico.com/dictionary/graphics/luna/thinsp.png[/image]ə/ [image]http://cache.lexico.com/g/d/dictionary_questionbutton_default.gif[/image] Show Spelled Pronunciation [vuh-nil-uh or, often, -nel-uh] –noun 1. any tropical, climbing orchid of the genus Vanilla, esp. V. planifolia, bearing podlike fruit yielding an extract used in flavoring food, in perfumery, etc. 2. Also called vanilla bean. the fruit or bean of this orchid. 3. the extract of this fruit. –adjective 4. containing or flavored with vanilla: vanilla custard. Origin: 1655–65; < NL < Sp vainilla little pod, equiv. to vain(a) a sheath (< L vāgīna sheath) + -illa dim. suffix (< LL)[image]http://cache.lexico.com/dictionary/graphics/luna/thinsp.png[/image] Now then, who is all sexy and pervworthy? I wanna see! [:D]

GreedyTop -> RE: Define Vanilla, Go On ...... (2/24/2009 3:32:30 PM)
perved both profiles ;)

beargonewild -> RE: Define Vanilla, Go On ...... (2/24/2009 4:27:48 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: pinkwind So, you will be challenging every definition then? Those for slave and submissive, Master and Dom, switch and curious, top, bottom....the list goes on. Every definition is subjective, there is no one definition taken as the definitive by enough folk to make it a standard, and if someone tried to set such standards for a "lifestyle" or a "community" they would be cut off at the knees, socially if not physically! Seems to me, Pirate wasn't trying to challenge that unwritten common acceptance of the tern "vanilla" but to garner what the general consensus of what is considered vanilla and what isn't. We all know that the modern english language is constantly changing thus having a common acceptable definition will eliminate misinterpretations and such. Sorry but I strongly disagree that every definition is subjective. That only applies in certain areas and not in all situations.

lateralist1 -> RE: Define Vanilla, Go On ...... (2/24/2009 4:30:21 PM)
I don't like labels. But we have to use some of them to communicate initially. I use vanilla in two ways. One to describe my husband in general terms. The fact that someone else may not describe him in that way is irrelevant. I think a lot of confusion arises from the fact that sometimes we assume that people are interested in BDSM because of their sexuality. Whereas actually it maybe nothing to do with sexuality. Two to describe any activity that could not be considered anything to do with Bondage Discipline SadoMasochism. Although if it involves an act of domination then some would consider it BDSM. I don't. Domination can be either vanilla or BDSM in my opinion. I don't consider all vanilla activities boring. I don't use it about sex. Whether sex is boring or not for me doesn't depend on what I do it depends on who it's with.

beargonewild -> RE: Define Vanilla, Go On ...... (2/24/2009 4:38:01 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: BKSir Now then, who is all sexy and pervworthy? I wanna see! [:D] ME!!!!!!!

GreedyTop -> RE: Define Vanilla, Go On ...... (2/24/2009 5:13:49 PM)
yes you are!

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