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being a submissive - 2/22/2009 2:17:57 AM

Lexiebabe

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I am very new to this. I would like to know how to behave as a submissive. Can anyone help me on that journey?

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RE: being a submissive - 2/22/2009 2:31:47 AM

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there is a search function where you can type in key words of what you'd like to know. sort of.
if you use it, you will learn how others act, dress, and feed gold fish in koi ponds, but it won't
tell you what kind of submissive you are going to be, or should be, that you gotta answer for yourself

hope this helps, and welcome to CM- feline

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RE: being a submissive - 2/22/2009 2:36:59 AM

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i have met someone who wants to be my mast, but am finding i hard to relenquish control

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RE: being a submissive - 2/22/2009 2:42:12 AM

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well, this forum is really for introductions,
soo... think of the exact reason this is an issue for; newness to submission, relationship, general fear...
and then post in either General Interest, Ask a Master or Mistress, or Ask a sub/slave.
hope this helps- feline

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RE: being a submissive - 2/22/2009 4:22:15 AM

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    If you're new to anything, you'll have at least a few problems and things to figure out. A lot of female Dommes I know actually started out as submissives, then later realized they were happier as a Dom. A lot of submissives I know started out just doing a little kinky play in the bedroom, then realized as they got deeper into things that they needed to be Dominated.
   If you stay involved in the Scene, all this will sort itself out before long. I'd suggest doing some research here; look for submissive women close to you, and see what discussion groups and munches are within driving distance. If you make friends with other submissives, things will get clear faster.
   Regarding this particular relationship, realize that having trouble giving up control can be caused by several different things, ranging from simply not being to give up control to this particular Dom to simply being a bottom rather than a submissive. This is where talking to other, more experienced submissives can really help.
   Best of luck :-)
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RE: being a submissive - 2/22/2009 6:20:51 AM

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Welcome to the learning school. Something about you as an introduction is good. There are forums that will suggest ways to behave. Mostly, take the lead from your master. A submissive works well with her dominanat so both gain from the relationship. Explore any aspect that you find interesting and talk to as many people as you can. All good ways to learn and expand in the community.

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RE: being a submissive - 2/22/2009 1:15:13 PM

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Just wanted to say hi..

I too am finding a little uneasiness in relenquishing control, but truly if you meet the right Dom/Master/Top, hopefully they can help you on this quest..

Do not be afraid to ask questions of anyone. I wish you the best of luck with whoever you choose to play with.

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