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TazDevil -> RE: The "S" doesn't stand for stupidity (2/24/2009 2:12:46 PM)
am... yes on line Dom with bad spelling should of know me 8 years ago the last post was with Word P so I don’t know why you can't understand it (kicks word P) maybe I should just walk away now?... a rose by any other name would smell as sweet

SylvereApLeanan -> RE: The "S" doesn't stand for stupidity (2/24/2009 2:13:41 PM)
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LaTigresse -> RE: The "S" doesn't stand for stupidity (2/24/2009 2:15:58 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: TazDevil am... yes on line Dom with bad spelling should of know me 8 years ago the last post was with Word P so I don’t know why you can't understand it (kicks word P) maybe I should just walk away now?... Well now that you've suggested it.........

dreamerdreaming -> RE: The "S" doesn't stand for stupidity (2/24/2009 2:35:29 PM)
LadyPact, I have no time to read this thread, I am too busy packing for my month long date with the basement. In Turkey. giggles But seriously, thank you for this very timely post. You are amazing, and wonderful. If I had been as clueless when I was submissive, as some of the subs on the forums lately... I'm sure I wouldn't have lived long. Since there are so many threads from so many clueless submissives lately, I'm going to have to resort to cutting and pasting from my previous posts from now on, when confronted with the same idiocy. I mean really, who has the time?

kallisto -> RE: The "S" doesn't stand for stupidity (2/24/2009 2:39:35 PM)
Great post LadyPact. But the ones that actually need to read it and understand it, well, probably won't even read it. [8\|]

BoiJen -> RE: The "S" doesn't stand for stupidity (2/24/2009 2:43:40 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: LadyPact This is just a friendly little reminder. It will be a quick one, as I'm sure this thread has the life expectancy similar to those on castration or other extreme topics. However, after the last few threads that I've come from, I feel it needs to be said. Ladies and gentlemen, boys and girls, the actual acronym BDSM stands for bondage, discipline, sadism, and masochism. General lack of intelligence, or the actions of those who can be included in the category therein, aren't it. If it sounds like a dumb ass idea when there's no kink involved, there's a chance that it's a dumb ass idea even if there is kink involved. If the activity would be stupid to engage in with your boyfriend, it doesn't get any better just because you're calling that person "master." If she was anyone other than "mistress," would you really be sending money to a woman you've never met, except over the internet? Seriously, people, put yourselves in check. As they say, ignorance is a lack of education. Stupidity is chosing not to be educated when the potential is available. (And the clock begins on either the deletion or the moving of this thread. One..... two...... three......) LadyP, As much as I agree with you in principle...have you randomly read any of the profiles of the "s"type males on the other side? If the "s" doesn't stand for "stupid", then I don't know what it means...at least in regards to those individuals. B-bet you wish I had a brain D-dumber than a brick S-we've discussed this part M-man you look pretty...why don't you let me do what I wanna do? Cheers! MsKitty's boi

Lockit -> RE: The "S" doesn't stand for stupidity (2/24/2009 2:49:44 PM)
Because of something said in a post by someone I respect a lot, I decided to be a bit kinder or more flexable when dealing with certain things on the other side, trying to be a bit more understanding. I let someone slavish talk to me that I normally wouldn't have spoken to. He started that worthless... ignorant... newbie... lost... only limit's and do whatever my dominant says bit. I quickly, no mincing of words told him to cut that shit out of the conversation and get real with me. Within moments... I was talking to a different man. Of course I don't still talk to him and have gone back to my less kind and flexable, understanding stance.. but it proved to me, a lot of it is an act. I think a lot of that comes from some of the chat room expectations and play. There seems to be a lot of people who are used to dysfunctional relationships and have few skills, but still... the extreme ignorance and lost is way too hard to believe.

InTonguesslave -> RE: The "S" doesn't stand for stupidity (2/24/2009 3:08:39 PM)
hm!! - the rules of engagement are the same here as anywhere, more so probably. i think people get swept along by the fantasy of on line, its all so exciting and fun. bells ring and little red flags pop up from time to time but they ignore them because they want to believe it will all work out in the end with the wonderful caring Dom theyve found. i honestly do believe that these women believe that we have wall to wall good guys queing up to sweep us sweet s'types off our feet and that there really couldnt possibly be any selfish egocentric fantasists lurking in the shadows behind the computer screen. it beggars belief i know - when i started out aol had a Dominance and Submission chat board, along with other harmless things like oragarmy for beginners, and of course it was filled with naive idiots, and i was one of them, squabbling and squaking and having lots of fun. predators swooped down on us from time to time and one by one we got picked off - well, i was smart, ofcourse [:)] and told most of them to fuck off. there was one experienced Domme who kinda kept a wary eye on us all, bless her and took me under her wing a little bit. but i saw the madness back then, women of all ages getting seriously more than they bargained for and coming back on to the D/s board shrieking blue murder. they lived to tell the tale, or im supposing they did, some never came back atall.

windchymes -> RE: The "S" doesn't stand for stupidity (2/24/2009 3:31:48 PM)
I don't know why they call it "common" sense when apparently it isn't so common. [8\|]

Lockit -> RE: The "S" doesn't stand for stupidity (2/24/2009 3:32:53 PM)
ROFL windchymes!

marie2 -> RE: The "S" doesn't stand for stupidity (2/24/2009 3:39:40 PM)
If this is about the threads I think it is, the stupidity may also be on the part of those who don't realize they're being jerked-off for some loser's entertainment value.

antipode -> RE: The "S" doesn't stand for stupidity (2/24/2009 3:53:24 PM)
quote: If she was anyone other than "mistress," would you really be sending money to a woman you've never met I just experienced a perfect example. I mailed a young woman in the UK, couple days ago, who posted that her mistress wanted to sell her. She responded that I needed to communicate with her mistress, and she gave me mistress's Yahoo address. I cornered that by telling her the mistress could be in touch with me, and gave her mine. You want my money, I set the rules. Slave suggested a chat, which I don't do, and sure enough, a mail arrived from mistress by the next morning outlining the conditions and the prices, for first inspection, for a year's ownership, and for permanence. She suggested a meeting in Scotland, and she gave me a UK telephone number to call. The IP address from which the email was sent? Nigerian.... (When I mailed her to tell her I had noticed, she said she was visiting her husband in Nigeria, and would be back in Scotland next week. Yah. And the moon... [8D]

InTonguesslave -> RE: The "S" doesn't stand for stupidity (2/24/2009 4:43:37 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: marie2 If this is about the threads I think it is, the stupidity may also be on the part of those who don't realize they're being jerked-off for some loser's entertainment value. i thought that about the lurkey turkey bird - but im not so sure now - im thinking she really is that crazy - i kinda want her to be that crazy - anyway its entertainment you cant get on the telly - a zillion channels and not one decent bloody thing on.

QuixoticErrant -> RE: The "S" doesn't stand for stupidity (2/24/2009 4:46:40 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: LadyPact This is just a friendly little reminder. It will be a quick one, as I'm sure this thread has the life expectancy similar to those on castration or other extreme topics. However, after the last few threads that I've come from, I feel it needs to be said. Ladies and gentlemen, boys and girls, the actual acronym BDSM stands for bondage, discipline, sadism, and masochism. General lack of intelligence, or the actions of those who can be included in the category therein, aren't it. If it sounds like a dumb ass idea when there's no kink involved, there's a chance that it's a dumb ass idea even if there is kink involved. If the activity would be stupid to engage in with your boyfriend, it doesn't get any better just because you're calling that person "master." If she was anyone other than "mistress," would you really be sending money to a woman you've never met, except over the internet? Seriously, people, put yourselves in check. As they say, ignorance is a lack of education. Stupidity is chosing not to be educated when the potential is available. (And the clock begins on either the deletion or the moving of this thread. One..... two...... three......) Well said in any case!

SteelofUtah -> RE: The "S" doesn't stand for stupidity (2/24/2009 5:05:35 PM)
Sense like all things that were at wonce common were used up by those who did not understand it's value. Today like many non-renewable sources we are forced to find alternatives. Common Sense has been outsourced to such ideas as "I read it in a Book", "This guy who does real well said I should", "The News says people do it all the time." and "I'll learn as I go." Sure these all have symptoms of success but more often than not the desired result is not achieved. I suggest that we focus on the creation of Common Sense the Archaic practice of education and explanation rather than shaming for not already knowing and trite comments. "Common" Sence has been reduced to Semi-Precious or Precious Sense which not currently outstandingly valuable is not found just anywhere you look as it once was. Steel

SassySarijane -> RE: The "S" doesn't stand for stupidity (2/24/2009 6:51:18 PM)
Thank you LadyPact. I have been thinking so much of what you said so beautifully lately. Sooo many threads doing that. It really has me wondering how many really are as brainless and clueless and senseless (common or otherwise) as they come off and how many are just playing with all of us. Gotta be pretty close because if all of them are as they come off then the planet is doomed.

maatsubJ -> RE: The "S" doesn't stand for stupidity (2/24/2009 11:36:20 PM)
I'm writing this from the basement of my Turkish, psycho, creepy, Dom who has athlete's foot and can't use condoms, and I must say I can totally agree that the S, SHOULD NOT stand for stupid, but for many here it does. Now for the love of goodness I hope they're pretending, because I don't want to see the site in the news due to some silly submissive who let his/her genitals make the choices. Perfect timing Lady P, if only the right ones would read.

Prinsexx -> RE: The "S" doesn't stand for stupidity (2/25/2009 12:16:05 AM)
bullshit dingbats stupidity mindlessness LadyPact you said it perfectly. (I must go and read The Story of O).

agirl -> RE: The "S" doesn't stand for stupidity (2/25/2009 4:58:57 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Lynnxz Apparently not to some people, who think stupidity, and acting like a guilible teenager while in their 50's is "cute". quote: ORIGINAL: jakelogan01 does common sense really exist? i thought it was a myth Nah....the stupid part is posting about your stupidity. I rather think that a fair amount of these people know damn well they are posting tripe........and it's a bit'o' attention. I like to dash common sense now and then and do idiotic things. Common sense tells me not to tell everyone about them though......lol agirl

slaveluci -> RE: The "S" doesn't stand for stupidity (2/25/2009 5:01:35 AM)
What the OP said certainly seems obvious and I'm sure it's been said before and will be said again. Unfortunately, the people who need to read it and adhere to it most are the least likely to do so. Telling ignorant folk to "wise up" feels good but doesn't usually snap 'em out of it. If only.......................luci

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