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RE: i know, this has been discussed before.... - 2/25/2009 2:25:00 PM

InTonguesslave

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i love you all - i mean it.

you know its funny how things come along. today i went to a beauty parlour, i just felt like i needed to be..., i dunno, pampered i spose. this beautiful woman floated up to me, her face radiated something and her eyes shone and as i looked closer i realised that her platinum hair was white and her beautiful face might have been 40 or 60 i couldnt tell. but it was her serenity and aura that wowed me and i nearly burst into tears (laughing at myself) - external doesnt matter when you shine like that.

the oddest thing yet was as i paid for my treatment one of the white feathers i pick up whenever i see them fell out of my purse and she said 'oh angel feathers!, i pick them up too' and the oddest even than that, turns out she's looking for a podiatrist and i am looking for an extra venue - funny isnt it how things happen - because now im going to work there and breath in that amazing haven once a week.

so i feel really healed by you lot

, Sir sent me a wonderful email and now i get to work in heaven one morning a week.

i feel really tearful though - in Sirs email he said that im now with someone who wants all of me, its not just about being wanted for my body anymore. i think that maybe thats half of it. men wanted me because my body was arranged a certain way now i dont have that body i cant believe any man would want me. that is a shallow way of thinking, i know - and im trying to grow up here

and i am - and this thread has helped so much - and to think i wanted to come back and pull it, but i missed the edit window.

xxxx each time i come back to read another post i feel that whatever i say will sound so inadequate, a simple thank you doesnt feel enough - but i do thank you xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

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RE: i know, this has been discussed before.... - 2/25/2009 5:52:19 PM

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RE: i know, this has been discussed before.... - 2/25/2009 6:17:49 PM

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I was talking with a sweet young guy at work who is seriously obnoxious about aging and women. Of course, i thumped him on the head - and he said "ow - you are fine - you have a great personality!!!!!

of course, i thumped him again! But what he said actually made sense. Women once out of the first blush of beauty could curl up and die - or go with their strengths. I'm not gorgous, or slim or beautiful or any of those other things that men proportedly want - but i have a man crazy in love with me - telling me that i am his world, and all his actions reflect this. I firmly believe that i am attractive - and have a great personality - and i feel beautiful when i am with him. Clinically i know that i am not beautiful, or slim or even toned - but if only one person thinks i am beautiful then by goddess - I AM. And a major part of my beauty is my personality.

I can have all the lumps and bumps in the world, but in someones eyes i am beautiful. And i feel the same way about my Sir. He is an old coot - and i love every wrinkle, grey hair and smile line on him. I wouldn't change a thing about him - and i think he feels the same way about me. - no, make that, i know he feels the same way about me.
Personality plus a body that doesn't make grown humans want to vomit = beauty.

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RE: i know, this has been discussed before.... - 2/26/2009 1:10:10 PM

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I am overweight and i have a surgery scar on my stomach. Master does not care he loves me and he thunbks i am beautiful. He was once telling how beauriful i am. I said even my ugly scar? He kissed it and said i love you scar because it is part of you. Just remember as long as you Master sees you as beautiful and desiriable it shoul not matter what anyone (yourself) included thinks.

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RE: i know, this has been discussed before.... - 2/26/2009 5:38:14 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: CalifChick

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ORIGINAL: InTonguesslave

well, thats half the problem...... he wants to pierce my nipples and lead me around some london dungeons completely butt naked!!! i nearly had apoplexy when he said that - 'you want me to do WHAT!!!!!!!!!!!!

Okay, so put on a blindfold the first time or two. What you cannot see, does not exist!

Cali

That is actually a wonderful suggestion

I am quite shy and insecure with others (especially other Doms) seeing me naked, so the first time I played with another sub (her Dom and my Sir were watching us) I asked for a blindfold....immediately there was just she and I in the room

and I felt much more at ease.

That option is still there if it's ever needed again, but over time I've become a bit more confident - and Sir never leaves me alone with other Doms anyway so I feel completely safe

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RE: i know, this has been discussed before.... - 2/26/2009 8:24:39 PM

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Sir says he isnt interested in me for just my body that i have a personality he enjoys and i make him laugh and that it isnt all about sex and anyway he thinks im sexy and beautiful and that should be enough.

Just remember....each and every time you refuse to believe what your Sir has told you....you are effectively calling him a liar. Either you believe he tells you the truth, or you don't trust him enough to believe what he says.

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RE: i know, this has been discussed before.... - 2/26/2009 11:59:37 PM

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There is an article here that i posted some time ago that you may find helpful:
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