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How Do You Find a Bi-F - 1/20/2006 12:12:18 PM   
MistressJP


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Status: offline 		I don't get it. I've been looking for a sane bi-female sub or switch to share with Him as a surprise. Is it my location (NNJ)? Have I not been looking long enough (the better part of a year)? It seems that the women listed as bi are only looking for male Doms, and I can understand that--most women don't want to "freelance", but I believe I have exhausted all my options on this site. Anyone have any suggestions? I am desperately seeking.......JP
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RE: How Do You Find a Bi-F - 1/20/2006 12:17:02 PM   
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Status: offline 		The competition for bi f subs is enormous, especially for ones who are open to non-monogamous situations. Once you add the sane in there...well you see the problem.

Why don't you just order an escort for a night?

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RE: How Do You Find a Bi-F - 1/20/2006 1:28:28 PM   
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Status: offline 		I wish there was a bi - curious option. I don't consider myself bi but I do consider myself bi curious. I wonder if other females who have bi in there profile would want the same option?

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RE: How Do You Find a Bi-F - 1/20/2006 1:36:11 PM   
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I wish there was a bi - curious option. I don't consider myself bi but I do consider myself bi curious. I wonder if other females who have bi in there profile would want the same option?

I'm sure some would and some wouldn't. We all have variations on the scale. Just be yourself. Trust me, if you are just bi-curious, this isn't the scenario you want as your first explorations. Make your first time fun, secure, enjoyable and positively memorable. Not as a command performance toy.

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RE: How Do You Find a Bi-F - 1/21/2006 11:02:08 AM   
fastlane


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Status: offline 		It's not that hard, really.
You have stated your desire, now wait.
Also, look at profiles and contact the Bi's.
Lastly, cross your fingers, toes and who knows?

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RE: How Do You Find a Bi-F - 1/21/2006 11:08:34 AM   
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RE: How Do You Find a Bi-F - 1/24/2006 7:02:14 AM   
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ORIGINAL: LuckyAlbatross

The competition for bi f subs is enormous, especially for ones who are open to non-monogamous situations. Once you add the sane in there...well you see the problem.

Why don't you just order an escort for a night?


Ahhh yes, sane. I am picky in that department. I have come across a few who would jump in, no questions asked. But...no thanks....I won't go there with such a flip person. I have to say I have made quite a few female sub friends in my search, but none who are bi

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RE: How Do You Find a Bi-F - 1/24/2006 7:04:54 AM   
MistressJP


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ORIGINAL: LuckyAlbatross


quote:

ORIGINAL: windy135

I wish there was a bi - curious option. I don't consider myself bi but I do consider myself bi curious. I wonder if other females who have bi in there profile would want the same option?

I'm sure some would and some wouldn't. We all have variations on the scale. Just be yourself. Trust me, if you are just bi-curious, this isn't the scenario you want as your first explorations. Make your first time fun, secure, enjoyable and positively memorable. Not as a command performance toy.


I do too Windy! And I agree with LuckyAlbatross. You're first experience should be the way you feel it should happen. Not at someone else's whim.

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RE: How Do You Find a Bi-F - 1/24/2006 7:08:18 AM   
MistressJP


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ORIGINAL: fastlane

It's not that hard, really.
You have stated your desire, now wait.
Also, look at profiles and contact the Bi's.
Lastly, cross your fingers, toes and who knows?

Oh but it is hard!!! I have done just as you state and am waiting and waiting. <Tapping my foot with impatience> Not only do I have my fingers and toes crossed but lately I'm walking around with my eyes crossed too. Ow!

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RE: How Do You Find a Bi-F - 1/24/2006 7:10:21 AM   
MistressJP


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ORIGINAL: fergus

yes, part of it is your location I'm afraid.

fergus

Say it ain't so fergus! We have so much here in NJ why can't we have it all?!

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RE: How Do You Find a Bi-F - 1/24/2006 7:16:33 AM   
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ORIGINAL: MistressJP
Say it ain't so fergus! We have so much here in NJ why can't we have it all?!

Again, why not an escort? Seems the perfect solution.


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RE: How Do You Find a Bi-F - 1/25/2006 2:06:53 PM   
MistressJP


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ORIGINAL: LuckyAlbatross


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ORIGINAL: MistressJP
Say it ain't so fergus! We have so much here in NJ why can't we have it all?!

Again, why not an escort? Seems the perfect solution.



First...I wouldn't even know where to begin in order to find one. Second...I think we would want the woman that we find to not just be a one night type of thing. Though if thats what we have to do just to "do it" then it is a good idea.

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RE: How Do You Find a Bi-F - 1/25/2006 2:45:13 PM   
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ORIGINAL: MistressJP
First...I wouldn't even know where to begin in order to find one. Second...I think we would want the woman that we find to not just be a one night type of thing. Though if thats what we have to do just to "do it" then it is a good idea. [/color]

Email me.

You only mention wanting a surprise playtoy. Obviously if you want it more than for one night, you either have to get a new girl each time or you don't want it just as a surprise.

You also don't mention what sort of toy it will be- sex? what type of play? For how long? Public or private?

What you are looking for is extremely rare. Someone who would make a date on your whim to come over, be used and then go home and not talk again or be involved until the next date? Highly rare. If you are open to paying however, there's lots of options open.

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RE: How Do You Find a Bi-F - 1/26/2006 8:10:58 AM   
kisshou


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Status: offline 		Have you checked out any swinger sites? You might not want it to be a one night type of thing but if the one night turns out awesome it will lead to more!

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RE: How Do You Find a Bi-F - 1/28/2006 10:45:19 AM   
MistressJP


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ORIGINAL: kisshou

Have you checked out any swinger sites? You might not want it to be a one night type of thing but if the one night turns out awesome it will lead to more!


No, I can't say I have. I do subscribe to a couple of swingers forums but I'm not sure I want to choose someone from that lifestyle.

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RE: How Do You Find a Bi-F - 1/30/2006 3:23:26 PM   
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ORIGINAL: windy135

I wish there was a bi - curious option. I don't consider myself bi but I do consider myself bi curious. I wonder if other females who have bi in there profile would want the same option?


I have never actually been with a woman, but i do consider myself to be bi... but i think that maybe Bicurious would be a better way to put it...


But I agree with this though... It is really tough to find a bi-f that isn't attatched, and wants to join another couple... That is exactly what I have been looking for... it is tough...though i have found someone that seems to fit the bill!!

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RE: How Do You Find a Bi-F - 1/31/2006 7:51:38 PM   
MistressJP


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That is exactly what I have been looking for... it is tough...though i have found someone that seems to fit the bill!!


Maybe you could give me a hint or two then. Though I have to say it may have been easier for you because of your age. Do you think?

For me, and eventually, for us, we would have no problem with a woman who is attached, with the four of us playing (more or less). We DO want to know and meet other couples also. People of the same mindset to invite over or go out with, play if it seems the right thing to do. But for the first time I am iso just a woman for his fantasy.

Thanks everyone!
JP (oh she can be attached, just come the first time without her partner).

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