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sravaka -> americanness (2/26/2009 7:05:28 PM)

Ok.  I have a question.

I come here semi-often, and read the political threads, and have my own thoughts about them.... but i'll put said thoughts aside to ask this:

Where [on earth] do you [whoever you may be] get your ideas of what "being American" is/means? 

I have my own ideas of what this (Americanness) entails....  and don't claim that mine is any more or less valid than yours-- after all, we all have passports, don't we?  (parenthetical intentionally left blank)

Be honest, please.  Where do your ideas come from?  From your parents?  From your early education (please specify)?   From life experience processed later in the game? What?

I think most of the conflicts come down to this. (Hint:  conservatives, liberals, and liberatarians alike are all convinced that they alone are true to "Americanness")

I have no delusions that these conflicts can be resolved, but I'd very much like to understand their sources better, and will appreciate any input.





aravain -> RE: americanness (2/26/2009 7:11:20 PM)

~FR~

My criteria for Americanness is simple:

Are you an American Citizen, or attempting to become one?

If yes congratulations, if no, sorry you're not an American.

Does anyone else believe it's that simple? I don't think so D:




kdsub -> RE: americanness (2/26/2009 7:11:34 PM)

You are what you live ...plain and simple..I have been many things over my life...liberal when I was in school... conservative when I had to support my family...now issues drive me not a party... But i may change again when my environment requires it.

Butch

ps the freedom to do this makes me an American




sravaka -> RE: americanness (2/26/2009 7:16:20 PM)

laughing...  you're taking the fun (?) out of the question, aravain....   let me rephrase....

Among those who have or aspire to American citizenship, and make claims about what "americanness" entails...."  where do you get your ideas?

For that matter, if you do NOT have American citizenship and do not aspire to it, where do you get your ideas about what this weird ass complicated place means, and what are they?

Better?  :-)





SpinnerofTales -> RE: americanness (2/26/2009 7:23:38 PM)

quote:

Where [on earth] do you [whoever you may be] get your ideas of what "being American" is/means?
quote:

ORIGINAL: sravaka


My idea of Americanness, I will admit, was formed when I was very young. I remember the lessons that I learned in social studies and history class and I was proud, so very proud that we were the good guys. We didn't pick people up in the middle of the night and make them disappear. We didn't persecute people for being different. We may not have been perfect, but when there was something wrong, we could peacefully and within the system change them. We were strong enough, determined enough and loved freedom enough that we didn't have to do the evil things that the communists and the fascists and the monarchists of the past resorted to in order to prop up their morally bankrupt positions. God damn it, we were the good guys.

And now, many years later, I still think we can be the good guys. I have seen changes, not in everything but a lot of things that show that there is hope. Women are no longer denied the vote among other indignities. It is no longer a generally held belief that black people make good farm machinery. It's been over sixty years since we last put a whole group of people into concentration camps. All those things show a potential for improvement.

And, to me, my Americanness is that I will continue to speak out to make my country a better, stronger and more ethical country in the best way I can.

I do not consider my way the only way. I do not want those who disagree with me to be silenced. In fact, should any try to silence their voices, I would support them as if it were my voice being stilled. I do not think that they hate America. I merely think that their view is mistaken.

About eight years ago, President Bush enjoyed a 90% approval rating. I was one of the 10%. Now, partly because I and the other members of that 10% spoke out, we have changed, without bloodshed or revolt, the entire shape of our administration. That to me is America at it's best. And being part of that system, despite all it's flaws and failures, is what I consider my Americanness.

Hope that answered your question.





aravain -> RE: americanness (2/26/2009 7:36:24 PM)

Um... same answer?

Then again, I think that measuring 'how' American someone is... is quite silly.




GreedyTop -> RE: americanness (2/26/2009 7:36:41 PM)

wow..nicely said, Spinner...




kittinSol -> RE: americanness (2/26/2009 7:38:25 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: sravaka

laughing...  you're taking the fun (?) out of the question, aravain....   let me rephrase....

Among those who have or aspire to American citizenship, and make claims about what "americanness" entails...."  where do you get your ideas?

For that matter, if you do NOT have American citizenship and do not aspire to it, where do you get your ideas about what this weird ass complicated place means, and what are they?



Nationality is a complicated thing, because of all the emotional things that are attached to it (patriotism, world wars and who won them and all that stuff), and yet it's so abysmally simple (it's the luck of the draw). I have dual nationality from birth (British and French). I live in America and am wondering whether it is worth getting citizenship: I certainly do no 'aspire' to it, because to me, citizenship is little more than an accessory. I might well apply for it when the time comes, but purely because it could make things more simple for myself and my loved ones, not because it is something to be covetted for its own sake. A nationality isn't a sign of moral uprightedness, no matter what some people out there would have us  believe.




sravaka -> RE: americanness (2/26/2009 7:41:14 PM)

I agree absolutely... and that is why many of the threads here strike me as silly.

I wouldn't presume to measure myself, but others are very quick to say, that THIS or THAT is *American!*   Whether it's gun rights or unions....  or, you know, forced sex porn.

It makes me curious about where these disparate (not to say irreconcilable) notions come from, concretely. 

::shrug::




kdsub -> RE: americanness (2/26/2009 7:49:40 PM)

I'm far too patriotic I'm afraid but we have an old family here...by American standards... In fact where I live was first Spain then France then American... My fore fathers were not pleased when they lost their large land grants but we still have the family graveyard from the 1700's on 400 acres. The other half came to S. Carolina and lost the plantations in the war.

But just the history alone means something when I feel the dirt that generations fought and died for... silly but when you get older those things become more important.

Butch




kittinSol -> RE: americanness (2/26/2009 7:52:06 PM)

There's a seriously long road up the road from me. It's called "Lafayette Road". It's funny :-) .




kdsub -> RE: americanness (2/26/2009 7:56:43 PM)

My early family in 1651came to the Carolina's with French Huguenots ... he took a  french wife...so maybe we are related...lol

Butch




kittinSol -> RE: americanness (2/26/2009 8:01:09 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: kdsub

maybe we are related...lol

Butch


Impossible: my ancestors are not rooted in France: Jews and Scotts the lot of them. Thank goodness for that: it means you can still take me out to that restaurant that serves caviar and foie gras [:)] .




kdsub -> RE: americanness (2/26/2009 8:03:48 PM)

Sounds good I think...I have to look up foie gras first... classy are I not....[image]http://www.collarchat.com/micons/m16.gif[/image]




DomKen -> RE: americanness (2/26/2009 9:20:34 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: kittinSol
Impossible: my ancestors are not rooted in France: Jews and Scotts the lot of them. Thank goodness for that: it means you can still take me out to that restaurant that serves caviar and foie gras [:)] .

I actually know what foie gras is but I'm scottish. Maybe we could compare genealogies over toast points?[;)]




submaleinzona -> RE: americanness (2/26/2009 9:28:57 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: sravaka

Ok.  I have a question.

I come here semi-often, and read the political threads, and have my own thoughts about them.... but i'll put said thoughts aside to ask this:

Where [on earth] do you [whoever you may be] get your ideas of what "being American" is/means? 


Well, I'm new to this forum, but I've been an American all my life.  Being American can mean a lot of different things depending on the context (assuming you mean more than just U.S. citizenship). 

quote:


I have my own ideas of what this (Americanness) entails....  and don't claim that mine is any more or less valid than yours-- after all, we all have passports, don't we?  (parenthetical intentionally left blank)

Be honest, please.  Where do your ideas come from?  From your parents?  From your early education (please specify)?   From life experience processed later in the game? What?


From a Chevrolet commercial I remember as a kid.  It had a little jingle which went, "Baseball, hot dogs, apple pie and Chevrolet." 

Seriously, much of my view of "Americanness" was from my parents.  My grandparents were also pretty big influences on me, so their views of America tended to rub off on me.  One set of grandparents were staunch Republicans from the Midwest, and my other set of grandparents were staunch Democrats from California.  Both sets of grandparents were patriotic Americans in their own way, especially since they all lived through World War II and then the Cold War.  Patriotism was practically mandatory.  My father told me a lot of stories from that era as well. 

I grew up in neighborhoods where practically every house would display the flag on Flag Day, Memorial Day, Veterans Day, etc.  A few people display the flag every day.  Some still do, like my father. 

One thing that my grandfather (the Democratic one from California) instilled into me very early in life is, whenever I didn't want to eat everything on my plate at mealtime, he would go into a long lecture about how so many children around the world are starving and how glad they'd be to have what we have here in America.  So, out of a sense of guilt he instilled into me, I ended up eating something I didn't want to because of the starving children all over the world.  (I never could understand that logic, actually.)  He was one of those grandfathers who always complained about how we kids "have it too easy."  (He was right.)  He was a Democrat and tended to sympathize with working people, which is his reason for supporting the Democratic Party in the first place. 

My other grandparents didn't trust the Democrats at all.  They were Republicans mainly out of tradition.  But they made a real big deal out of the Fourth of July in some of those small towns.  Those were some of my fondest memories as a child, going to family reunions at my dad's hometown in Minnesota.  The whole town in a festival spirit - everyone knows each other or is related to someone.  A big picnic where all our relatives gathered in prayer in honor of our nation's birth and to thank God that we are part of a great nation.  It was fun, and it gives one a warm feeling inside. 

Of course, this was in the late 1960s/early 1970s, which was a rather tumultuous time in our history (as I later came to find out).  I was just a kid at that time, so I didn't really grasp what was going on until a few years later. 

One thing that was also important on both sides of my family was one's family tree and family "tenure" within America.  My maternal grandmother's family was very much into that, and they even had a book with our family's coat of arms in it.  They didn't come over on the Mayflower, but they arrived a few years after that in what is now the state of Maryland.  My paternal grandfather was of French lineage and was always proud of the French contribution to the American Revolution and with Lafitte's help during the Battle of New Orleans. 

Oh, and of course, many in my age group also grew up with songs like "The Battle of New Orleans" and the "Ballad of Davey Crockett." 

quote:


I think most of the conflicts come down to this. (Hint:  conservatives, liberals, and liberatarians alike are all convinced that they alone are true to "Americanness")

I have no delusions that these conflicts can be resolved, but I'd very much like to understand their sources better, and will appreciate any input.


They're all Americans.  America started out as a divided nation in many respects. 

I also remember conflict when I was younger.  People were upset over Watergate, Vietnam.  Conservatives would rail against the "pinkos" and "liberals" and called them "un-American."  And a lot of these divisions were evident within the Democratic Party, which tends to be full of contradictions anyway. 

But on the other side of that, liberals were arguing that what our government was doing both domestically and around the world, was what was truly "un-American."  So, the argument is always going to be a bit fuzzy, and it really depends upon one's values or point of view. 

The Cold War also added another dimension to it all, since we were stockpiling nuclear weapons to protect the Free World from the Communist Bloc.  When I was in high school in the early 1980s, Reagan was President at the time.  I was in Arizona by that time, and there are a lot of retirees and WW2 vets (but not as many as there used to be).  One was a retired Brigadier General who served under MacArthur in the Philippines.  He was an interesting guy.  He came to our history class one day and showed us a film from the American Conservative Union advocating "Peace Through Strength," which was essentially Reagan's policy at the time.  It was pure propaganda, though, as it was talking about the Soviets were coming to get us.  They got Cuba, then Nicaragua, and then, they would get Mexico and then the United States.  That's what this film was trying to convey. 

I remember questions being phrased in such a way as, "Are you in favor of the President's Strategic Defense Initiative, or, like the Communists, are you against it?"  I even recall when those who were against aid to the Nicaraguan Contras were called "traitors."  That kind of talk can get pretty ugly, actually. 

Politics is a dirty business.  (That was another one of my grandfather's favorite sayings.)  They're going to use whatever trick in the book to win the election.  They're mostly panderers.  They'll just tell people what they want to hear. 

The average conservative or liberal is pretty much just that.  They believe what they believe, they both think they're right, and they consider themselves moral, decent, compassionate, and honorable.  But they'll associate their ideological opponent with the worst thing in the world. 

So, I don't know.  Things are feeling a bit dicey these days.  Hard to tell which way the wind is going to blow. 

A line from Three Days of the Condor:  "Ask 'em when they're running out. Ask 'em when there's no heat in their homes and they're cold. Ask 'em when their engines stop. Ask 'em when people who have never known hunger start going hungry. You wanna know something? They won't want us to ask 'em. They'll just want us to get it for 'em!"




corysub -> RE: americanness (2/27/2009 4:22:18 AM)

I believe the one common thread among all Americans is that we all believe our point of view is the right way to go. I also believe that putting a "label" on someone being liberal, conservative, libertarian, apolitical, whatever, only defines the "extreme" of that label.  Most of us cross over left or right of the line depending on the issues.  With some issue there is no line to cross since there is no disagreement among reasonable people.  Racisim, sexism, giving a helping hand to those wanting of basic needs are all issues that most of us agree are good or bad..they are not "left or right" issues.  It is the degree, the extreme of an issue that evolves into passionate disagreement. 

My views were formed early with a close family structure, the third generation of immigrants who came to America seeking only opportunity, not expecting handouts, worked hard, raised a total of fifteen children between the two sets of grandparents, of which six of the nine boys served in WW2, the two youngest serving in Korea.  We were taught to stand and say the pledge every morning, to be proud of our flag, of the men and women who died serving our country and lie buried under its cover.  I lived through VietNam and saw the disgrace to that flag, the wild joyful "hippies" of that age frolicking and laughing while the flag burned in their barnfire, and grew to hate everything they stood for... "civil unrest" rather than the rule of law.  Some of those became terrorists, set off bombs and went on to teach the next generation the ways of a radical. 

I also saw a southern governor bar children from entering a school and grew to hate what he stood for since everyone intitled to "equal" treatment under the law.  I grew even more solid in what turned out to be a conservative movement when the government took away my equal rights because of slavery brought to this country by the Kings subjects in the 1600's and ended in 1865, but I was "blamed" for this horror because I was white. I saw the patronizing of the liberal elite who treated minorities with taxpayer money, but treated minorities that worked cleaning their homes like "house slaves" all too often, working them hard and long, for low wages. 

In my family we were taught to respect your elders, to study in school, not to embarass the family with stupid actions (although I did get away with more than a few of those), and that America came first in the world...my country, "right or wrong"...  We didn't much care if the French liked us...they never did as a nation and under DeGaulle turned in their dollars for gold.  (not a bad thing to do when gold waspegged at  $36/0z)

My own readings, being lucky to grow up able to listen to conservative voices such as William F. Buckly, and other, also cultivated my current views.  "That's not fair"...life is not "fair"...but I kinda analyse issues and,  determine if it is fair..or just another poltical rip off of the public wealth.  I think that is how many Americans feel...my view is to be charitable for those in need, but fight what is not right when dollars we don't have are just sprinkled in an agenda driven spending spree as we are in today that will ultimately result in the demise of America as I knew it... 

Rahm Emanuel, the Presidents chief of staff, defined the playbook Obama is using for "change".. “You never want a serious crisis to go to waste"..It seems to me that an even deeper "crisis" would be viewed by Mr. Emanuel as an even bigger "opportunity".  There is no bi-partisanship on the part of democrats...and, I believe, the "minority" currently out of power will become stronger for the scars we suffer. 




Aneirin -> RE: americanness (2/27/2009 4:34:09 AM)

Well, for the majority of us over the pond, our understanding of what an American is, is gleaned from all the American shows we see here.

Do you really have flag break in the morning ?

Do people really call adults sir and ma'am ?




twistedreality -> RE: americanness (2/27/2009 5:19:28 AM)

In my opinion, there are many who live here and some that were even born here, that are not "Americans" . Being an "american" is a frame of mind and belief in the constitution. The rest can go away.




sunshinemiss -> RE: americanness (2/27/2009 5:26:06 AM)

Hello sravaka,

American citizenship - what is that?  It means you live in the Americas.

America is North and South America, comprised of many countries and even more cultures.  How in the world could anyone answer your questions? 

If you mean being a citizen of the United States, that is NOT being an American.  In fact it shows the arrogance of the USA in that there is not even a word in the official language for a citizen of the USA.  There is the word "American" which of course means a citizen of North or South America - Mexicans, Bolivians Uraguayans, Canadians are all Americans.  Perhaps that is the answer to your question.  Citizens of the USA are egocentric and arrogant as a culture. 

Well wishes,




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