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Hello fellow deviants - 2/28/2009 6:02:58 PM   
MainFragger


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I am a Philly based photographer, that up till now has been a voyeur. I have attended parties like Shock Therapy (and future variants) and Vesago. I've been to two Diabolique's. This is not yet a lifestyle for me, but I am curious to explore my nature and my limits, and do the same for willing ladies.

At first, I am looking for some flirty fun with mild abuse, but as I go along, I expect to get much more serious as a switch.

Its taken me some time to really decide I want to go ahead with this, but one of the first indications to me that it might be worth exploring is actually when I wore the costume you see in my profile at Diabolique. I had been photographing events for close to 2 years at that point, and no one really seemed to pay much attention to me (except for some camera whores).
But that night, ladies couldn't wait to come up to me and pet the goods...or at least the costume on the goods.. Either way, it got me thinking. I have many friends and acquaintances that are lifestylers, and have been invited to experiment, but I must admit, this is something I don't want to share with friends. If I do this, its my own thing. I prefer to experiment with someone who is more of an acquaintance who I won't see ALL the time like I do with my friends.

I am not physically fit, but I am picky. I want what I want out of life, and taking or giving orders to someone who I am not at least a little attracted to will not work. Reality or "she's beyond you" has nothing to do with anything as far as I'm concerned. When I go to a supermarket, I get the food and snacks I want. I view women the same way. I won't settle for someone who will not keep me physically and mentally interested.

I hope to hear from some of you soon..

MainFragger/Brian
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RE: Hello fellow deviants - 3/1/2009 2:26:58 PM   
MainFragger


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Status: offline 		A little about my costume in the picture.. Just for giggles..
As I mentioned, I'm a Photographer, and I wanted to be able to photograph Diabolique.. The first year I tried to do so, they told me that they were full up for photographers, but if I'd be willing to volunteer at the event in some other way I'd get my foot in the door for the following year. So I did. I worked collecting at the front door.

Now the thing is, I admit I was a bit naive, and I didn't realize that even volunteers were required to be dressed for the event. As far as fetish dress/gear..I had nuttin..And I showed up just after my day job. Poor form, despite my good intentions. So, I had to improvise. After discussing with the person running the event, we came up with a simple but not so elegant resolution..Off came my pants, and I was wrapped like a mummy in saran wrap.

Well, for the most part, everything from there seemed to go smoothly.. But at the end of the night, I was also told, "Next time, you'll have to be prepared, because as it is, some people complained you were underdressed."

OK.. A Year goes by. Now I am a guy that is 270 lbs. 5'11. and I basically look perpetually 9 months pregnant but is other wise propotional for the rest of my body.. And I decide..fine..they want to complain I'm not fetishy enough..I'll see if I can't make them wish I wasn't as fetishy this year.. So I go on the hunt for a leather thong. After shopping around, I realized finding something in my size that wasn't too expensive was out. So I settled upon the Latex Nun Suit.. And in the spirit of fun, Passional (where I got the suit) offered me a pair of free Passional sheer panties if I proudly displayed them while walking around. Since I was going for "wrongness"..I said "ABSOLUTELY!".

I got a good giggle when I showed up, and the doorman (who was overtly gay, and was actually wearing the leather thong I'd hoped to acquire) took one look at me and said, "That is wrong!" I smiled evilly and said, "I know!"

However, much to my surprised, many of the ladies came up to see me that night. And one of them at a later event asked me why I didn't dress up more often.. Well, truthfully its because I wasn't really ready for that on an on-going basis.. But I am now hoping to expand my horizons, and will be picking stuff up over the next year to properly fit either Dom or Sub moods... And un future events, instead of rebelling against my surroundings, I will be all too happy to join in on the fun..

MainFragger/Brian


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RE: Hello fellow deviants - 3/1/2009 2:43:35 PM   
GreedyTop


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Status: offline 		Welcome! And great story :) Enjoy yourself!

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RE: Hello fellow deviants - 3/1/2009 9:19:01 PM   
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RE: Hello fellow deviants - 3/1/2009 9:45:32 PM   
MainFragger


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Status: offline 		Dare I ask? Should I run? Or just pretend to until she catches up?

Nice to see youare the Goddes of Sarcasm, I am the God of the really bad and amazingly painful pun. Believe it or not, my puns have some sting to them. I have actually knocked some people unconcious from a pain overload with some of my punnier jokes.

"Because I'm EVIL! Yeah, baby... EVIL!"

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RE: Hello fellow deviants - 3/1/2009 10:41:22 PM   
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Dare I ask? Should I run? Or just pretend to until she catches up?

*sits in the corner giggling to herself*


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RE: Hello fellow deviants - 3/1/2009 10:50:11 PM   
Juliannadelion


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ORIGINAL: MainFragger

Dare I ask? Should I run? Or just pretend to until she catches up?

Nice to see youare the Goddes of Sarcasm, I am the God of the really bad and amazingly painful pun. Believe it or not, my puns have some sting to them. I have actually knocked some people unconcious from a pain overload with some of my punnier jokes.

"Because I'm EVIL! Yeah, baby... EVIL!"


I love a good Pun!  From a Nun, lol........  Welcome.  I hope you find lots and lots of snacks to your pleasing.!

I have the same costume, but not in latex.  I flip a coin to decide if I'm going as the Nun or the catholic school girl.....

I'll be sitting next to Lady Wyld watching her boobage jiggle, while she giggles

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RE: Hello fellow deviants - 3/2/2009 2:48:08 PM   
CalifChick


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ORIGINAL: MainFragger

Dare I ask? Should I run? Or just pretend to until she catches up?


The "she" in question is actually a "he"... full username is CJan.  He has a thing for nuns.  Not too sure how he feels about a nun with a beard and a mustache though! 




Cali


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RE: Hello fellow deviants - 3/2/2009 3:31:18 PM   
MainFragger


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Status: offline 		Ah...In that case, I'll run a marathon.  Sorry, I don't judge people for being gay, but as a personal choice I am overtly heterosexual and there is an "Exit Only" sign on my behind..


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RE: Hello fellow deviants - 3/2/2009 3:35:39 PM   
camille65


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Status: offline 		I adore being in costume though rarely have the chance, there is always a feeling of freedom when I get to 'be someone else'.

Welcome to the boards as well to ya.


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RE: Hello fellow deviants - 3/2/2009 3:53:36 PM   
CalifChick


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ORIGINAL: MainFragger

Ah...In that case, I'll run a marathon.  Sorry, I don't judge people for being gay, but as a personal choice I am overtly heterosexual and there is an "Exit Only" sign on my behind..




Sigh.  I tried to point him to this thread, but he scoffed at me.  All you damn heterosexual men are just soooo inflexible!  Seriously!


Cali


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RE: Hello fellow deviants - 3/2/2009 6:51:33 PM   
MainFragger


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ORIGINAL: CalifChick

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ORIGINAL: MainFragger

Ah...In that case, I'll run a marathon.  Sorry, I don't judge people for being gay, but as a personal choice I am overtly heterosexual and there is an "Exit Only" sign on my behind..





Sigh.  I tried to point him to this thread, but he scoffed at me.  All you damn heterosexual men are just soooo inflexible!  Seriously!


Cali



Not so much inflexible as resolute.  I have experimented with men in the past, and after a few tries, decided it wasn't for me. 
My parents brought me up to try the beans before I throw out good food.  But after I have done so, they respect my decision and don't put them on the plate any more, and they know me well enough to know that I'll never again order them on my own.  I'm not inflexible in trying new things, but once I have, If I don't like it, I am not likely to feel a need to try it again.      

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RE: Hello fellow deviants - 3/3/2009 4:23:11 PM   
MyWorldCT


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ORIGINAL: WyldHrt

quote:

Dare I ask? Should I run? Or just pretend to until she catches up?

*sits in the corner giggling to herself*



Get out of the corner girl.. I have not told you to go there yet ;-)

Oh and Welcome you pregnant male nun!!   wow.. my spell cheek just gave the finger

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