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MARAA -> Where are... all others? (3/1/2009 6:13:12 AM)
I know sex is important here, no problem, but is it ALL? Where are the endless,spiritual, breathtaking meeting between a Dom/Mistress and their subs? Where are the connection? Where are --well Icould go on. Many that talk with me mention sex,sex sex as overshadowing object. Nothing against it but its so weary not taking everything else as just as important. To me,if there are no connection,and he can prove to me hes in balance there-forget it I just say. Im not a barbie.

CatdeMedici -> RE: Where are... all others? (3/1/2009 6:26:11 AM)
It takes time and patience, you will find tons who thin thi sis to solicit free sex, or to whom BDSM is all about kinky sex, but there are also stories of couples here who met seeking what you do---so time, patience and a tough skin. Welcome to the boards by the way! We look forward to more postings.

chamberqueen -> RE: Where are... all others? (3/1/2009 6:50:29 AM)
A lot of people who come to sites like this are looking for easy sex. That is their main goal. It's kind of like panning for gold - you have to get rid of a lot of extraneous dirt to find the beautiful nuggets.

DarkSteven -> RE: Where are... all others? (3/1/2009 6:56:31 AM)
It's their right to talk about sex forever if they wish. It's your right to end the conversation at any time.

daddysliloneds -> RE: Where are... all others? (3/1/2009 7:09:37 AM)
did you really come here expecting people to talk to you or treat you differently than if you had met them in person in a night club or on the streets? i hear more people talk about sex on a daily basis than i do 'take your breath away, romantacism'?

Huntertn -> RE: Where are... all others? (3/1/2009 7:14:07 AM)
Its here...just take your time and seperate the chaff from the gold...but its here...

pinkwind -> RE: Where are... all others? (3/1/2009 7:54:02 AM)
Not all of us are here to talk about sex, or at least copulation. There are some celibate folk here.

peppermint -> RE: Where are... all others? (3/1/2009 8:09:07 AM)
Many who talk to you, especially if it's online contact, are not interested in BDSM at all....only sex. Since this is online you can easily delete mail or click yourself out of chat if you become offended. My Dom and I knew each other 3 months real time before there was any sex, so it is possible to build a relationship before jumping into bed with someone. In the meantime we spent countless hours getting to know each other.

CatdeMedici -> RE: Where are... all others? (3/1/2009 8:13:14 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: DarkSteven It's their right to talk about sex forever if they wish. It's your right to end the conversation at any time. You know you are one damn prophetic dude.

DesFIP -> RE: Where are... all others? (3/1/2009 9:48:03 AM)
No endless spirituality here. Right now he's working on taxes and I'm doing laundry. For us it's just real life which is better shared because we are better being with each other than we were alone. Oh yeah, and hot sex is awesome.

AquaticSub -> RE: Where are... all others? (3/1/2009 12:23:25 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: MARAA I know sex is important here, no problem, but is it ALL? Where are the endless,spiritual, breathtaking meeting between a Dom/Mistress and their subs? Where are the connection? Where are --well Icould go on. Many that talk with me mention sex,sex sex as overshadowing object. Nothing against it but its so weary not taking everything else as just as important. To me,if there are no connection,and he can prove to me hes in balance there-forget it I just say. Im not a barbie. Erm... we don't have a spiritual, breathtaking meeting between us. We have a simple, strong bond that ties us together through love, laughter and tears. I'm very fond of the song from Hello Dolly "Love is only love". But hang out on the forums more. Granted we are all perverts but sometimes we talk about lofty things. [;)]

YoursMistress -> RE: Where are... all others? (3/1/2009 1:59:15 PM)
Maybe it's just the threads I pick out and read, but it seems to me that sex is by no means the most popular topic in these fora. Perhaps because of my own lack of expertise and experience I am just overlooking those discussions. But in my opinion, if you see lots of sex here, it's because you are looking for it. yours

RedMagic1 -> RE: Where are... all others? (3/1/2009 2:23:36 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: AquaticSub Erm... we don't have a spiritual, breathtaking meeting between us. OMG... you are sooooo fake.

oceanwynds -> RE: Where are... all others? (3/1/2009 2:43:49 PM)
Good luck Op I didn't come here looking for someone special, but came to get more of an understanding of what BDSM is and what I could take with it. I live daily a spiritual life and seriously sex or no sex is not what holds me inspired to Sir.

Hissltora -> RE: Where are... all others? (3/1/2009 3:25:52 PM)
It all depends on your definition of spiritual...to me, the act of serving, of living, of eating and gasp having sex all are spiritual, are all very basic but still acts of divine life. So yeah, disucssion regarding the more carnal aspects of life can still be spiritual. And breathtaking can be fun, but not very often. Then you just get dizzy, maybe pass out. (Unless the dizzy is what you are going for.) I agree with the pps... Don't like it, you can press fast forward, as Jay-z would say. slave tora

AquaticSub -> RE: Where are... all others? (3/1/2009 4:02:22 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: RedMagic1 quote: ORIGINAL: AquaticSub Erm... we don't have a spiritual, breathtaking meeting between us. OMG... you are sooooo fake. cries You found me out! If you lick me you'll find I'm not human at all, I'm made of candy. (Seriously, lick me. I'm butterscotch.)

MARAA -> RE: Where are... all others? (3/1/2009 4:33:18 PM)
Well of course bdsm can be about sex but its so boring when you cannot involve other things as well.. I guess I just grew tired of Doms talking endlessly about sex in their profiles.. come on.. youre gonna do it anyway sigh

RedMagic1 -> RE: Where are... all others? (3/1/2009 4:38:09 PM)
Block those doms. When I look on this site, I hide the profiles of women who talk primarily about sex or slavery. And I'm a horny man. But I have no interest in opening the door to a wankfest that will never result in real-time meeting.

FelineFae -> RE: Where are... all others? (3/1/2009 4:51:05 PM)
perhaps it is possible that spiriutality and sexuality are not interily separate? in relationships, one tends to have more sex and first time meetings, so in my mind it kinda makes sence to me that people talk a lot about sex, imho.[;)]

windchymes -> RE: Where are... all others? (3/1/2009 5:17:21 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: DarkSteven It's their right to talk about sex forever if they wish. It's your right to end the conversation at any time. But that's so..........simple. There MUST be a more difficult way! [8\|]

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