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starting out with online training - 3/2/2009 4:45:54 PM   
patrickbon


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Status: offline 		I have been communicating with a Mistress I met on here, as there is some physical distance between us and she has never attempted an online relationship, she gave me the task to ask others on here how and if it can work.  We are going to meet later this spring, but she wants to begin my training before hand.  Can anyone give me some suggestions as to how this can be done, or if it can be done.  Thank you in advance for your replies
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RE: starting out with online training - 3/2/2009 4:49:44 PM   
LadyHibiscus


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Patrickbon, there is a search function at the top right hand corner of the page, if you enter "online relationships" or "online training" you will get the links for other threads that have talked about this kind of thing. 

While I don't find online stuff especially satisfying, it can be fun.  Enjoy getting to know each other. 

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RE: starting out with online training - 3/2/2009 5:19:15 PM   
dreamerdreaming


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Status: offline 		Mmkay, yet another "Domme" too lazy to come up with her own ideas. Super.

What is it with the lazy, clueless "Dommes" lately?

Email her and tell her to get down on her knees, and call you Sir. Because if you hafta come up with the ideas, then you might as well be the Dom.

I mean c'mon. She can't even make her own thread, here? She has to send you, because she can't be bothered? WTF...

Welcome to CM, patrickbon. Your screen name reminds me of Cinnabons, Yum...

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RE: starting out with online training - 3/2/2009 5:32:39 PM   
LookieNoNookie


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quote:

ORIGINAL: patrickbon

I have been communicating with a Mistress I met on here, as there is some physical distance between us and she has never attempted an online relationship, she gave me the task to ask others on here how and if it can work.  We are going to meet later this spring, but she wants to begin my training before hand.  Can anyone give me some suggestions as to how this can be done, or if it can be done.  Thank you in advance for your replies


Bud....you're 55....forgive me...I totally understand the ansgt, but you ain't 23 anymore.

If she wants to begin your training beforehand....she should do so.

If, however, she's pawned it off on us (pay attention).....here's where I encourage you to get a clue.....

GET ANOTHER DOMME!!!!

If this is your chic....she ain't much.

(Message complete!).

< Message edited by LookieNoNookie -- 3/2/2009 5:34:20 PM >

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RE: starting out with online training - 3/2/2009 5:37:01 PM   
LookieNoNookie


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Status: offline 		By the way...as an adjunct...I should add...I get the whole "I wish things could be a certain way" gig.

Others (herein) have helped me recently see that....

(It ain't so).

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RE: starting out with online training - 3/2/2009 5:37:14 PM   
LadyHibiscus


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Status: offline 		Thanks, that HAD to come from a guy for proper effect!

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RE: starting out with online training - 3/2/2009 5:38:14 PM   
LookieNoNookie


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ORIGINAL: LadyHibiscus

Thanks, that HAD to come from a guy for proper effect!


It's a gift....

(Even I don't know how I do it sometimes :) )

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RE: starting out with online training - 3/2/2009 5:56:37 PM   
dreamerdreaming


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ORIGINAL: LookieNoNookie

quote:

ORIGINAL: patrickbon

I have been communicating with a Mistress I met on here, as there is some physical distance between us and she has never attempted an online relationship, she gave me the task to ask others on here how and if it can work.  We are going to meet later this spring, but she wants to begin my training before hand.  Can anyone give me some suggestions as to how this can be done, or if it can be done.  Thank you in advance for your replies


Bud....you're 55....forgive me...I totally understand the ansgt, but you ain't 23 anymore.

If she wants to begin your training beforehand....she should do so.

If, however, she's pawned it off on us (pay attention).....here's where I encourage you to get a clue.....

GET ANOTHER DOMME!!!!

If this is your chic....she ain't much.

(Message complete!).


 LookieNoNookie, you're a sage. 

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RE: starting out with online training - 3/2/2009 6:48:27 PM   
LookieNoNookie


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quote:

ORIGINAL: dreamerdreaming

quote:

ORIGINAL: LookieNoNookie

quote:

ORIGINAL: patrickbon

I have been communicating with a Mistress I met on here, as there is some physical distance between us and she has never attempted an online relationship, she gave me the task to ask others on here how and if it can work.  We are going to meet later this spring, but she wants to begin my training before hand.  Can anyone give me some suggestions as to how this can be done, or if it can be done.  Thank you in advance for your replies


Bud....you're 55....forgive me...I totally understand the ansgt, but you ain't 23 anymore.

If she wants to begin your training beforehand....she should do so.

If, however, she's pawned it off on us (pay attention).....here's where I encourage you to get a clue.....

GET ANOTHER DOMME!!!!

If this is your chic....she ain't much.

(Message complete!).


 LookieNoNookie, you're a sage. 


(I'm considering hiring out actually....this whole Pro sub thing aint paying the rent).

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RE: starting out with online training - 3/3/2009 1:16:40 AM   
beeble


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quote:

patrickbon wrote:
I have been communicating with a Mistress I met on here, as there is some physical distance between us and she has never attempted an online relationship, she gave me the task to ask others on here how and if it can work.

It can work, as long as you're both committed and serious about it.  E-mail, chat programs and skype can all be useful but what you use them for is entirely up to the two of you.

By the way, since you've found a somebody, you might want to tweak the part of your profile that says you're still looking.

beeble.


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RE: starting out with online training - 3/3/2009 8:46:38 AM   
MsDDom


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quote:

Can anyone give me some suggestions as to how this can be done, or if it can be done.


just start...u will then know if it can or canNOT be done.
anything is possible w/ a little work...


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RE: starting out with online training - 3/3/2009 10:20:37 AM   
MamaDomme1


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patrick, you and I have corresponded in the past on the other side and I have always found you to be a very polite and intelligent person.  I know you will do well, and take instruction from your chosen Domme.

Now, that all being said..... I have never found any type of satisfaction with online, or long-distance situations at all.  However, I do know others that have found rewarding relationships this way.

I suggest that your new Domme find her own ways to dominate you and not have you topping from the bottom.  Just bad taste, in my very humble opinion.



*edited for typos caused by laptop keyboards mixed with loritab*


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RE: starting out with online training - 3/3/2009 3:05:06 PM   
patrickbon


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Status: offline 		I want to thank everyone for their replies,,,,,,,,,, i should have said, She is not my Mistress at the moment, but was considering me as i am having trouble meeting a Mistress in my area.  She has a sub at this time that she is very pleased with, but since we are friends and have communicated in the past she was trying to help me out

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RE: starting out with online training - 3/3/2009 4:11:05 PM   
slavekal


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Status: offline 		I honestly think this is a road to nowhere.  Unless one of you plans to move closer to the other, you are probably wasting your time.  Good luck, anyway.

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RE: starting out with online training - 3/3/2009 6:11:58 PM   
MsAlaria


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Status: offline 		Online play can be fun for awhile depending on what methods you use.  In my experience, the thrill doesn't last very long though because there's only so much you can experience by basically "doing it yourself".  I'm all about touch, expressions, sounds.  I can't get all of that online.  I can't grab a handful of hair, yank his head back and force him to look me in the eyes via cam or phone.

To the OP, I think its pretty lazy of this person who already has a sub to ask you to come online and find ways for her to dominate you.  If she has to do that, she shouldn't be training you.  There are too many resources available for her to do her own research.

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RE: starting out with online training - 3/3/2009 7:05:45 PM   
LookieNoNookie


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ORIGINAL: slavekal

I honestly think this is a road to nowhere.  Unless one of you plans to move closer to the other, you are probably wasting your time.  Good luck, anyway.


(By the way....I'd just like to say...slavekal stole my picture....

(That's actually me).

(With the lights turned off....all possible light sources duct taped....and most people outside the door discussing how very much I look like Robert Redford {before his skin crinkled}....)

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RE: starting out with online training - 3/3/2009 7:11:39 PM   
LadyHibiscus


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Status: offline 		Um.... sweetie... I know Kal in real life.  So, how's about you pick someone else, like the cute kilt guy, or that amazing dude with the red boxers in his hand.  woo!

(though I must say, for all my enjoyment of a fine photo, none of the men that I've been with actually LOOK like any of those guys...  )

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RE: starting out with online training - 3/4/2009 5:44:06 PM   
LookieNoNookie


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ORIGINAL: LadyHibiscus

Um.... sweetie... I know Kal in real life.  So, how's about you pick someone else, like the cute kilt guy, or that amazing dude with the red boxers in his hand.  woo!

(though I must say, for all my enjoyment of a fine photo, none of the men that I've been with actually LOOK like any of those guys...  )


(I'm not feeling the love here at all....)

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RE: starting out with online training - 3/4/2009 6:52:08 PM   
LadyHibiscus


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quote:

ORIGINAL: LookieNoNookie

quote:

ORIGINAL: LadyHibiscus

Um.... sweetie... I know Kal in real life.  So, how's about you pick someone else, like the cute kilt guy, or that amazing dude with the red boxers in his hand.  woo!

(though I must say, for all my enjoyment of a fine photo, none of the men that I've been with actually LOOK like any of those guys...  )


(I'm not feeling the love here at all....)



Hmm...  well, since I don't know what you look like, you should be feeling it!  I think! 

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RE: starting out with online training - 3/4/2009 8:01:43 PM   
thishereboi


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ORIGINAL: beeble

quote:

patrickbon wrote:
I have been communicating with a Mistress I met on here, as there is some physical distance between us and she has never attempted an online relationship, she gave me the task to ask others on here how and if it can work.

It can work, as long as you're both committed and serious about it.  E-mail, chat programs and skype can all be useful but what you use them for is entirely up to the two of you.

By the way, since you've found a somebody, you might want to tweak the part of your profile that says you're still looking.

beeble.



Naw, leave it in.

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